Advantages and disadvantages of high face value

First, what kind of talent looks good is a subjective thing, and everyone's understanding of beauty will be somewhat different, so let's talk about it according to popular aesthetics. Generally speaking, the facial features are correct and the size ratio is harmonious. Three courts and five eyes, no scars on his face. If you add a little white face, it will basically look good. If your chin is sharper, your mouth is smaller and your eyes are bigger, you will look good. Second, what are the benefits of looking good? It's good to make a first impression on others. At school. Good-looking people, student unions and some school activities are easier to get in than ordinary people. For example, if you choose a host, you will be more competitive than others as long as you have height and face value. There is also a school honor guard to recruit people, who are required to reach the standard of height and weight and have good facial features. Good-looking people will also get some benefits in their daily life. For example, when the freshman first entered school, the senior schoolmate came to help and added a WeChat by the way. Teachers and classmates may also be more attentive, and classmates or friends will praise them and be more confident. In addition, whether boys or girls, good-looking people are much more likely to be accosted at school than the average person. Because when I was a student, most people paid attention to appearance, maybe they were good-looking, others would pay more attention to you, and maybe they would go to the advertisement wall of the school, and their popularity would be greatly improved. For example, Bian Xiao sometimes sees her roommate on the school advertisement wall. In society, good-looking people may not have great advantages in school, but that doesn't mean they don't have advantages. Good-looking people go to the interview, and appearance is a plus item. Under the same conditions, people who are good-looking are more likely to be admitted. Also, people around you may be friendly to good-looking people, and good-looking people have great advantages in working in the company. Forget the social shady. Third, what are the disadvantages of looking good? If you are a girl, you have many shortcomings. First of all, I will receive some inexplicable malice. If the girls around you are jealous of her, they may unite to isolate her and play with her. If the men around her covet her, there may be some harassment. I won't talk about the details. In any case, this is not a good thing. In order to protect themselves, high-value people must have a matching mentality. So, beautiful girls, I hope that your's parents can cultivate you carefully and let you have a wise heart. If it is a boy, it may be because someone talks to you and you are not enthusiastic about going back. Others think you look down on him. Because of some objective factors, I don't know much about boys. Advantages and disadvantages of high face value 2 What are the benefits of high face value in society? First, the advantages of communication If a person has a high face value, then wherever he goes, it is a beautiful scenery; Therefore, there will always be others' eyes, others' eyes of praise; So in communication, you don't need to take the initiative, so many people will take the initiative to come to you; Moreover, in terms of contacts, people at different levels can be reached more quickly; Laid a certain foundation for their future success; Generally speaking, this advantage can never be achieved by a person with low face value; Because people with low face value are not easy to reach higher-level people. Second, the benefits of making friends In general, if a person wants to find a lover, the effect is not the same as looking good and ugly; If a person has a high value, someone will take the initiative to pursue you; In this process, you will have more conditions to choose others; And if a person's face value is not high, then you will actively pursue a person and may be rejected by others; Therefore, a person with high face value will definitely have more opportunities to find his own life object; Naturally, it is easier to find the person you want and find the happiness you want. Third, the advantages of work Although this society is said, every unit pays little attention to the face value of others when recruiting people; But in fact, an ugly person will generally be lost the first time; Especially women, the uglier they are, the harder it is to get the favor of others; And a beautiful woman, even if the connotation is worse, will often be accepted by others; Therefore, a person's face value determines whether this person can find a good job or the most ideal job. Fourth, improve your status and live in this world. No one doesn't want sesame to blossom and grow taller. Everyone will think about going up; Therefore, ugly people who want to go up will suffer more and suffer more; And a person with high face value will be easier in the process of improving his status; Because on many occasions, it is necessary to have a high-value person to stand alone; Therefore, people with high face value have many natural opportunities and more possibilities to climb up; Therefore, in improving their status, people with high values will naturally occupy an absolute advantage. Fifth, it is easier to succeed, which is everyone's living dream; A person with high face value will suffer a lot less on the road to success; People with low face value may have made great efforts and cannot have the best life; Therefore, people with high face value may easily ascend to the throne of success in a relatively short period of time; People with low face value have made too much efforts to succeed; The most typical example is that many beautiful female stars and male stars are not so talented, but their faces are very high, so they are an instant hit. Sixth, it is easy to meet Bole. How many skills and abilities does a person have? Under normal circumstances, if you don't meet Bole, it will be difficult to reach the peak of your life; Because most people are ordinary people, without power, resources and connections; So if a person, if your face value is high enough, then you will definitely not have Bole to look at you when you walk on the street, thus helping you fly high; Your face value is not high, so there are fewer opportunities to meet Bole naturally; Therefore, Yan value is of great use in this society. A person with high face value must make good use of his face value. Even if you do an imitation show, it will be very successful. Advantages and disadvantages of high face value 3 psychologists tell you: four disadvantages of high face value, can a person look too good? Although you dream that you are, this is a problem that most people don't have to consider at all. Beautiful happiness or misfortune has always been an interesting topic in psychology. Do those people with dignified facial features and outstanding looks immerse themselves in admiration all day, or do they prefer to look ordinary? After decades of research, sociologists Lisa Slattery Walker and tonya Frewitt of the University of North Carolina considered the latest findings. The result is surprising. From the most superficial level, Yan value seems to have its own aura. People with high values often give people a good impression, and people subconsciously associate good qualities with people with high values (for example, good looks are good people). Walker said: "(face value) is one of the many identity characteristics that we can lock in the fastest in (short-term) communication." For psychologists, this is what we call the "beauty is good" fallacy, but for fans of the sitcom Super Producer, this is a complete bubble. Jon hamm's personality is obviously flawed, but thanks to his parents, he looks very good. He lives a happy life while deceiving himself. For another example, as a doctor, even though he didn't know heimlich's first aid method, he passed the medical college exam because of his charming appearance. Various phenomena show that although this is a bubble, it is also a fact (very frustrating). In education, Walker and Frewert found through a large number of data that good-looking students are more likely to be considered competent and intelligent by teachers at school, and these good impressions will also be reflected in the report card. Good-looking students get higher marks. In addition, this beautiful bubble is still expanding year by year. Frevert explained: "This is a cumulative effect. (If you are good-looking,) you will become more confident and positive, and you will get more opportunities to show your abilities. " The workplace is about the value of food. On the premise of considering other factors, people who are good-looking tend to earn more money and get promoted faster than those who are not good-looking. A study of MBA graduate students found that the salary difference between the most beautiful and the ugliest people is about 10%- 15%. This percentage difference can accumulate up to $230,000 for life. Walker said: "(if you are good-looking) you will get all kinds of benefits from school to work." Even in court, being good-looking is like magic. A good-looking defendant will be more likely to get a lighter punishment or be acquitted directly. At the same time, the good-looking plaintiff is more likely to win the lawsuit and get more economic settlement. Walker said: "This is a very common phenomenon." Even if high face value is beneficial in many cases, it will be counterproductive in some cases. Good-looking people may be considered better leaders. But for women, good looks may bring hidden gender discrimination. Good-looking women are more difficult to be valued, and it is more difficult to be hired as senior authoritative positions. (It goes without saying that if you want to see how Hollywood demonstrates this point, Frevert and Walker will recommend you to see Reese Witherspoon's Legally Blonde. You may also think that good-looking people will also attract envy and jealousy. An experiment found that if you are interviewed by recruiters of the same sex, if they think you are more attractive than them, their chances of hiring you will decrease. What worries people is that being good-looking will be bad for your medical care. We usually associate beauty with health, because of this potential connection, when you seek treatment, this connection will not be so serious. When doctors take care of a group of patients, they will pay more attention to those who are not outstanding in appearance. This beautiful bubble is sometimes quite lonely. A study of 1975 found that people tend to move farther and keep a farther distance when walking with women with higher face values. This may be out of respect, but it is more difficult to interact. Frevert said: "Yan value is more eye-catching in public, but this in turn makes people feel more inaccessible." Recently, there was an interesting report on the dating website OKCupid, which found out the situation of making friends. It is better to look too beautiful and perfect than to look less perfect. This may be because dating ordinary people is not so stressful. So as you may have guessed, although it is a good thing to look good in many cases, high face value is not a panacea. Frewert and Walker kindly emphasized that our concept of beauty is superficial and not deeply rooted in our physiology, although some research theories may imply that it has biological roots. Walker said: "We have a whole set of cultural concepts about beauty, so that we can say who is beautiful. But it is through these ideas that we begin to relate them to our abilities. " To some extent, this is just a way of rapid cognitive assessment. Frevert said: "Like many shortcuts we use, this is not very reliable." However, it is relatively easy to reduce the unreliability of this shortcut. For example, if the human resources department can provide more information about the candidate's ability before interviewing the candidate, the interviewer will not be so preconceived. Finally, Frevert pointed out that even for those who are said to be good-looking, if they pay too much attention to their appearance, it will cause bad harm and may bring them excessive pressure and anxiety. "Indulging in face value may affect your conversation with people and your own experience." She said. However, it goes without saying that no matter how high the face value is, it can't make up for the poor character. The writer Dorothy Paker wrote more elegantly, but the meaning is the same: beauty is only skin deep, but evil character can penetrate deep into the bone marrow.