The most beautiful appearance of youth is that you live silly and stubborn.

People often say that when a person begins to recall the past, it marks that you are old. According to this statement, most of today's young people have lost their unique passion and stubbornness when they were young and turned into middle-aged people who are afraid of their hands and feet.

Recently, I chatted with my friends and just talked about the topic of youth. As a newly graduated college student, my friends and I are not optimistic about the future, but are timid and hesitant when looking for a job. During the graduation season, parents also blew in our ears: how good it is to prepare for the exam, the iron rice bowl, and the good treatment. Don't think about your unrealistic dreams and companies, which are all tools of capitalism to squeeze you. Yes, in the older generation, this is a very versatile, prestigious and well-paid job.

I have heard many friends say, "I often contradict them before I start looking for a job." Is the compilation so important? " Although the company is fast-paced and stressful, it is more about training people, and there are more opportunities to meet people of all types and jobs. There are too many grandfathers in the establishment position, and it is more serious to speak Mandarin through the back door. However, after I started looking for a job myself, I began to be timid. Considering the fierce competition in big cities, I can only live rather than live. Under the pressure of relaxation, I still listened to my parents and chose the former. "

The future life I dreamed of on the university campus, I returned to my original shape as soon as I graduated, and my dreams were shattered everywhere.

At this age, you should be motivated to start over without worrying about any consequences. Now you give up your original oath and just seek stability. Sometimes I see job advertisements online, just looking at salary and working environment. The first thought in my mind is: this is not a liar, is it? MLM company? Will it be fooled?

People who are born illiterate should be accepted by others; When educated people want to go to the print age and face the unknown, we contemporary young people have more caution and preconceived prejudice. We are afraid of being cheated and being squeezed too badly in a high-pressure place. Now we are the most passionate and energetic, and we have time to say it again: it's no big deal, let's start over. Most of us have chosen to wait and see and find a stable job. When a beautiful young girl becomes a woman, we can only sigh that we are not brave enough to release ourselves at the most beautiful and youngest stage and temporarily put down our concerns.

The more troublesome my early life is, the lazier I am to study, and the easier it is to miss the people and things I am interested in and the new scenery later. And youth is the most beautiful stage in the early life, and the most beautiful appearance of youth is to live a confused and stubborn life.

Life is hard to be confused. The word "confused" here is not always confused, but confused when it should be confused, and stick to the bottom line when it should not be confused. I know a sister who resigned last year and transferred from a university teacher to an advertising company to plan new people. In others' eyes, she is too headstrong and confused, giving up the advertising plan that a university teacher is so stable, has a good income, has a job in winter and summer vacations, is very attentive to brain cells and often works overtime. But my sister always said, "I don't want to have an experience of fighting for my dreams before I am 30." I didn't pursue my dream immediately after graduation, because I didn't have the ability and qualification at that time. I have worked for several years and enriched myself. With the backing of funds, I still have to live for myself in time. This kind of confusion is still very confusing. "

In fact, this big sister knows best. When she had nothing, she chose to settle down and accumulate strength first, and she was not obsessed with getting out in time after having capital. She seems to have given up her good job, but who can see her efforts in the accumulation period?

Youth is a period of self-indulgence, so we don't have to think too much about other people's feelings, because we can't afford to lose, and we also have that strength. Most of the young people who become famous at a young age or stick to their dreams and be themselves live a stubborn life. Here I want to mention Hua Chenyu again. I especially admire him because I see the stubbornness of young people in him. When participating in Happy Boys, the public commented on him with such words-alien, non-mainstream, brother Mars ... When Cai Guoqing and Tao Jingying heard his humming, the sad and painful expressions on their faces indicated that they didn't appreciate or like his style, but he still insisted on his own style. This talented singer who only sings according to his own preferences, this stubborn teenager, finally won the championship of Happy Boys. Moreover, it was not a flash in the pan, and it became a rookie in the Chinese music scene in just a few years.

Some time ago, the class that was on fire all over the Internet solidified, and the news that it was difficult for a poor family to get out made many young people who worked hard complain, and suddenly the future was gloomy. But the world is so strange. It is stubborn people who can change the world and get out of trouble. They are special cases of constant factors. Stubborn people tend to be more persistent and self-sustaining and try their best to achieve their goals. They are not afraid of failure. The most important thing in their hearts is how to fulfill their dreams, rather than thinking too much about the unknown.

I hope we can all keep the most beautiful appearance in our youth, lead a muddled life, live tenaciously, be ignorant in the face of difficulties, laugh like children, and persist tenaciously in the face of failure.