Write a composition outline with the theme of "being a man"

We often ask ourselves: What happened to the school? What happened to education? What's wrong with the curriculum? What happened to the teaching method? ……

Scientific spirit can be cultivated through classroom education, but the cultivation of humanistic feelings cannot be measured by the standard of secular success. It must be accumulated from literature, art and life, and gradually acquired from these seemingly insignificant things, especially in family, classroom and society. This requires teachers and parents to seize the opportunity keenly and cultivate bit by bit.

Humanistic feelings are the most important nutrients in human nature. If teenagers can't accumulate good qualities and sensibility as a person in the process of growing up, then the education they receive may also fail.

China students are under siege.

When we were recruiting teachers, we met graduates who had studied preschool education for four years. When asked why they choose to be kindergarten teachers, they will say that they like children. When we ask them how to be kindergarten teachers, they will say that they like music and dance, and they can take their children to sing and dance. When we ask the children how to educate them with your songs and dances if they are playing in the sand, these students can only be embarrassed and don't know how to answer.

Some students can draw, play the piano, dance, learn Marxism-Leninism and pedagogy, but they don't know what to do in kindergarten. The child walked up to him, held up the paper boat that had just been folded and said, "Look, I folded the paper boat." The preschool teacher looked around and didn't know how to answer the child.

If these preschool education graduates are like this because of their low diplomas, then we are puzzled by the master's degree in preschool education we have admitted. They believe that education should be studied, that is, sitting in the classroom and observing the behavior of other teachers and children. When a child reached out and rushed at her enthusiastically, she actually reached out her two hands to block the child, and then lifted the child aside so that the child would not block her sight. The child seems to like her. The child jumped at her again, and she lifted the child aside again. The disappointed child turned bad and began to hit her. Just like an entomologist, the master of preschool education we see regards himself as a person, observes and studies children and teachers as bugs, and does not integrate with everyone at all, feels their needs, understands their psychology and gives them help. How does she study?

If this master's degree is not high, then we also met a doctor of child psychology, who also came to observe children. He is determined to devote his life to children's research and go deep into children. When he met a child whose behavior interested him, he moved to a small stool and sat next to the child who was engaged in something, staring at the child, so that the child could not continue to engage in something because he kept looking back at him. ...

From our observation, most fresh graduates are like this. These students have given their best years and paid a lot of life. Behind them, how many teachers have devoted themselves to teaching them, and how many families have paid the economic price to support their study. But they can't work after graduation, some can't help, but they often help. This situation is a headache for employers, and these graduates also feel very painful: due to the lack of humanistic literacy since childhood, hard study makes them lack of happiness, and they rarely use their limbs, so that they don't know how to implement the ideas in their brains and feel numb. This is called abnormal development. Their hearts become utilitarian and indifferent because they are insulated from beautiful things, and the direct consequence is lack of love and low personality grade.

Therefore, the situation of students is very embarrassing, or has reached the point of being besieged on all sides. Because students can't learn most of the things they need in their future career, they are required to spend all their time and energy on things just for exams rather than for future life, so most of their energy and time are wasted. And once they have an accident, they will immediately attract a voice of surprise, accusation and even abuse.

In fact, our parents have also entered a dilemma. On the one hand, they dare not force their children to learn knowledge, on the other hand, they are worried about the bad consequences, so they have to bite the bullet and follow the crowd. In this case, the education department, teachers and parents need to work together to change the status quo, so that children and parents can get out of this embattled situation.

"Good Time" in Children's Heart

Once, I attended my son's parents' meeting, and the school invited an expert who studied students' psychology from another school to give lessons to parents. She said that a student asked her: Teacher, did the Cultural Revolution really happen in China before? She said yes. The student said: impossible, you are joking, you adults lied to us. She said, why do you think so? The student said: My mother said that at that time, the whole class had a holiday before the holiday, and the whole school also had a holiday. No classes, no homework, take the train wherever you want to go, study agriculture in the countryside, and work in factories. I didn't think about anything for a day, didn't do my homework, and didn't get the teacher's training. Teacher, how can there be such a good thing in the world? Absolutely impossible. The psychological teacher told the children that this was the case during the Cultural Revolution. The student said: Teacher, your generation is so lucky and happy! You really caught up with the good times. Teacher, when will the next Cultural Revolution come?

Experts warn everyone: we must pay attention to children's learning dynamics. If the child has such an idea, it will be too late.

In fact, children say that they hate learning, and teachers and parents should look for the reasons why children hate it, instead of forcing children to continue learning in the previous way.

The greatest feature of human beings is their love of exploration and learning, and their learning ability is much stronger than that of other animals. If the learning process is not painful and annoying, there will be no children who don't like learning. Why don't children like studying nowadays? In fact, this is because the learning style in reality does not correspond to the children's spiritual pleasure needs. We have to think about it: children naturally like singing best, but they don't fall in love with music lessons; I like painting best, but I don't like art classes. I can't even mention Chinese and math, which makes me sick ... why?

There is a child who learns to draw. His name is Kerry Qi. The child's mental state was not bad before he went to primary school, but when he went to middle school, he got worse every day, his face was gray and yellow, and his appearance was quite pitiful.

One day I asked him, Kerry Qi, what's the matter with you? Kerry Qi said sadly, Teacher, I'm exhausted. I'm too tired to live. I asked if I was tired on weekends, too. He said: I am tired and have too much homework. I said, why is there so much homework on weekends? Tell the teacher what homework you have. Kerry Qi said: Not counting English, mathematics, only counting Chinese, two compositions were assigned, 100 words, and five ancient essays. 100 words are copied five times each, and five ancient Chinese texts are copied five times each. I said copying 1 time is enough, and copying 5 times is meaningful. Why explain it five times? He said it was to strengthen his memory.

I really don't know whether to laugh or cry. I wonder, this teacher doesn't know what he thinks. Teachers work hard, but they still have time to rest on weekends. But children go to school before dawn every day, do not take a nap in the afternoon and do their homework at eleven o'clock in the evening or even one or two in the middle of the night, and on weekends.

What child can stand like this? Can they study hard at this rate? Can you be healthy? Kerry Qi said: Teacher, I am too afraid to copy the text. I feel nauseous when I think about it. As soon as the teacher is not satisfied, let us copy the text. If we find some scraps of paper on the table, we will be punished for copying the text. If we are late, we will copy the text. If the copy is not good, we will not accept it and have to copy it again. I'm so scared, sometimes I can't finish my homework, so I have to pretend to be sick and write at home.

I'm sorry to hear the news. I said, Kerry Qi, since you are so busy with your homework, you should stop drawing and have a rest. He said, teacher, don't stop my painting. I only have fun once a week. What's the point of living if I don't draw? I asked him how the exam went. He said that he was the top student in his class when he was in primary school, so he was admitted to a key junior high school. In this mid-term exam, I scored 0/20 in math and 60 in the paper. English, also a test paper with a score of 120, scored 90 points. I asked how much I got in the Chinese exam, but he only said it was very low, but he refused to tell me the specific score. I think it's too low. I'm embarrassed to say.

Kerry Qi said that he had long hated studying. He said: Miss Li, my enemy is studying. Listen, learning has become his enemy. Can such a child learn well?

The value of education lies in the value of being a man.

This reminds me that Mr. Tao Xingzhi once went to Wuhan University to talk about education. When he came into the classroom, he was holding a hen. The audience was puzzled and didn't know what the old man was going to do. Without saying a word, he put the chicken on the lecture table, held its head down, broke its mouth, grabbed a handful of rice and forced it to eat, but he didn't eat it anyway. After that, he let go of the chicken, left a distance, and the chicken began to eat. Tao Xingzhi began his speech. He said education is the same as feeding chickens. If children are forced to study, they are unwilling to study. If you let go, you don't want to learn, but you still learn well.

Kerry Qi's mother is my friend, so I know a lot about the children. When Kerry Qi graduated from primary school, his mother made a lot of efforts to get him into a first-class middle school. As far as I know, some famous schools may be more unfavorable to children's development. Try not to let children go to that kind of school.