une histoire simple

Ordinary story 1 ordinary happiness

Text/Sanshijun said

I have always felt that there is a common worry. Although I don't want to be famous, I don't want to be mediocre and have no pursuit. At least I want to work hard, be kind and be a hero all my life. I don't want to live like this all my life. After work, or on weekends, sleeping late and watching TV all feel that they are wasting time and youth, and they have a sense of guilt and self-regret about life. Only reading and writing can make me feel calm and peaceful. After experiencing the strange life in Where Are You Going, life seems to have changed, life has become more precious, honor has become more casual, and I feel confused about tomorrow and trance about the future. Life is incredible and unpredictable. The only thing I can do is a gorgeous present, a happy present and a natural future.

Ordinary, let go of noble mood, do what you want to do, no longer angry at others' blows, slander, ridicule, indifference, abandonment and burial, no longer rejoiced in praise and applause, because you know that all the excitement and noise will pass, because you know that a quiet and poor life will be great and intriguing.

Ordinary, I think love is the most important. Finding a lover will drown out the hardships of life and make me full of youth. I don't feel uneasy when I waste my time on leisure or even boredom. Less care, more tolerance, less perfection, more love, thanks for love, life was originally ordinary and picturesque.

Ordinary, I think health is the most important. Only when you are healthy can you fall in love, live a long life, accompany your family, read and write, and realize your literary dreams. Literature is no longer as hard, long, gorgeous and arduous as imagined in the past, but it is still as sacred as before. It can be as small and fragrant as an orchid, or as natural and unrestrained as a butterfly, stop and go.

Ordinary, sometimes there are ordinary entanglements, but there is no ordinary panic before, perhaps because I have recognized the essence of Taoism, but I believe that I am not giving up, not seeing through the world of mortals, nor passively degenerating.

I used to want to write a lot, to create a big volume, to think that novels are all-encompassing and magnificent, but now I don't want to. First, I know the greatness of the ordinary. I want to pursue greatness from ease, and I encounter immortality from the ordinary. Second, I know the value of human sexual life and real life.

Ordinary, not unintentional greatness, but let nature take its course, less purposeful, not deliberate, not demanding, not asking for anything in return, not caring about the result, and learning to taste the graceful scenery on the road.

Ordinary story 2: We work so hard just to be an ordinary person.

Text/Water annabella

When one day, you suddenly find that you and your little friend are standing on the same starting line, you are not even as far away as your little friend suddenly dumped you. Now you can only look up at him, and his aura makes you dizzy. You will instantly regret wasting a lot of time and blame yourself for not working hard enough. But it's not exactly like this. Because most people take the ordinary road.

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He Starlight Glimmer, you are hazy.

I met a high school classmate in the summer vacation. I haven't seen her for years. Now I am studying PhD in a world-class university. Along the way, she told me a lot of interesting things about studying abroad, and also told me a lot of awesome people around her-all top academic figures in the world, including Nobel scientists in her field. She said that she was the only person in the office who came from China. Others came from Italy, Britain, Argentina and Germany. Everyone gets along day and night, just like living in a global village. She talked about the laziness and efficiency of Italians, the seriousness and rigor of Germans, and the humor of British people, and talked about the disdain of traditional European nobles for local tyrants in North America. She smiled.

She said very happily. Years of overseas experience have made her more confident, open-minded and broad-minded, but she is still so humble. When I got home at night, I locked myself in my room and felt very lost. Once in the same classroom, my academic performance was equally top-notch, but now her platform and performance are so different that I am not saddened.

Later, I gradually learned that the undergraduate H had a second book. Y, who sleeps in the lower berth, will go to the United States to study for a doctorate at once. L, who often eats together, will soon settle down and teach in a famous university. W, who practices hula hoop to lose weight, came to Sichuan University to recruit younger brothers and sisters on behalf of the company a year ago. It's been three years since I graduated, so I don't have time to read it carefully. So many people around me were polished into glittering gold, and the dazzling light stung my eyes. I am happy for them from the bottom of my heart, but I am more sad for my own dullness.

The turning point in life needs a little luck and courage.

People say that five years after graduation, the gap between classmates is prominent. During this period, the degree of personal efforts, opportunities and luck, the grasp of opportunities, and the care of God led to the final result. Many successful friends said that it was the selection of the first "international class", the introduction of a "Bole" who met by chance, or an humble offer that changed the trajectory of life. God is very stingy, and only a few children he likes are so small.

Of course, success in life requires courage and foresight. L and G, two girls with similar grades, did well in the college entrance examination and went to a key university in China to study. G didn't play well and went to an ordinary university, but the university G applied for happened to have a cooperation model with foreign universities, and G chose the 2+2 model of the school. G undergraduate studied in Canada in the last two years. Later, she applied for a master's degree in a well-known British university, and with her own efforts and luck, she was admitted. Now she continues to study PhD in that university. After graduating from undergraduate course, L naturally chose a stable job, and everything went smoothly according to the traditional lifestyle.

Perhaps many years later, L will still remember that he just lacked a little courage and vision, and the road of life should be greatly different.

Don't just look at the surface.

The scenery on the other side is always beautiful, because anyone is willing to show glamour and hide loneliness and sadness.

One of my good sisters, Z, quit her good job in Chengdu this year and plans to study in the United States. When everyone is congratulating her on "going up a storey still higher", only she knows how many sleepless nights it was. My boyfriend is in America and can't go back to China. For this relationship, she reluctantly quit her job in China and went back to the United States to study for a master's degree and find a job. What she sees in her eyes is leaving her hometown, the future is uncertain, and she sacrifices the present to pursue an uncertain future. This is a dilemma. She even had no choice but to be pushed forward by fate. But who knows the result in a few years? We all believe that the two of them can create their own bright and happy space in the domineering America!

Most people's ordinary road

Before being ridiculed, I was still pursuing a vigorous and childish stage. I admit that I didn't quite understand the realm of "plain is true" at that time. When I grow up, I slowly find that the ordinary road is probably the home of most people. Because no matter how hard you try, in fact, most people will eventually become one of the sentient beings. After all, there are too few people at the top of the pyramid.

You have your own boiled water in your hand, and your eyes envy those colorful and fruity cups, but maybe those sodas are not as thirsty as your boiled water. Even a little taste of Ah Q spirit is healthy and full of positive energy. If you practice your trajectory in a down-to-earth way, you should compare it with your former self and the last moment. This vertical comparison is relatively objective, fair and practical.

Yes, Pu Shu's Ordinary Road sang the hearts of many people. We are flowers and grass, and we lost all directions until we saw the common.

Finally, a post-90s friend of mine opened a black bean flower shop in Cikou, Chongqing. The business was booming and he earned a lot of money. His son was born this year, and the family of three is happy!

Ordinary story 3 Ordinary and warm happiness

Walking in the text/cloud

There is plenty of rain in summer in Jiangnan. On rainy days, besides sleeping, the most suitable thing to do is to make a cup of tea, read a book, immerse your thoughts in the kingdom of celebrities with words, sometimes smile, sometimes meditate, or be moved, or sad. Let the rain outside the window, like an old film with many scratches, split the past into wounds. And those stories, half sad and half bright, are like rain outside the window, silently infiltrating the dry heart.

Once, I suddenly read this passage in a magazine: "honey, I don't need anything." I just want you to live happily and contentedly in my life for many years. I want to see the wrinkles on your face slowly increase and your teeth slowly fall off. " After reading it, I can't help but be soft-hearted for it. I sigh, what a beautiful emotion this is. This kind of emotion worth being together for a lifetime, like gloves and scarves in winter, warms people's cold hearts; It is also like a piece of iron, which will slowly smooth out the riddled soul folds.

In this world, there is always an emotion that makes us cry. Whether it is friendship, affection or love, it is the driving force that supports us to continue to live.

It has been nine years since grandma left us. Grandma loved me the most before she died. She always leaves me the best food, but she can't even bear a bite. Every morning, I wake up from the smell of grandma's cooking. With the change of weather, grandma always tells me to change clothes in time.

Once, I was very ill, and I was so soft that I didn't even have the strength to speak. I wrapped myself in a thick quilt, still shivering with cold. Grandma was in a hurry and called the doctor to see me. Whenever I want to take medicine, grandma will hand me the pills and a cup of warm water that I have prepared long ago and urge me to take medicine. "Take the medicine quickly and have a good sleep. It will be all right soon." She must see me finish the medicine with her own eyes before she can leave and do something else. Looking at the thin figure of my grandmother who worked hard for me, at that moment, my eyes filled with tears and a warm current surged in my heart.

In my impression, my grandmother took good care of me. It seems that I have never done anything for my grandmother. If grandma is still alive, I will definitely make it up to her twice. I want to wash my grandmother's feet, cut her nails and comb her hair. Unfortunately, it was all too late.

Since grandma left, I woke up from my dream several times. I seem to vaguely see a ray of sunshine pouring down from between two bright tiles on grandma's roof. In that white and thin light, grandma smiled kindly at me, and every wrinkle on her face was extraordinarily kind and peaceful under the sunshine. And when I stretched out my hands to hug my grandmother, I found that I was only full of desolation.

In fact, those ordinary and warm family ties have never been far away from our lives. It's just that when we have this seemingly ordinary family relationship, we often don't know how to cherish it, and we don't know how to repay and pay in time. Only when this bland family relationship suddenly disappears from our trivial life one day, do we regret it and begin to feel ashamed of our original ignorance. Love is mutual. When we accept the love of our loved ones, we should not take it for granted. We should also learn to express our love and care for our loved ones in time.

Happiness is in our own hands, and the key lies in how we grasp it. Life will inevitably leave some regrets. Perhaps, the occasional regret is another happy experience in life. We are all so happy and rich because we have the magic of love in this world. This magical power woven with love will appear in our world like breeze, spring river and weeds after the fog barrier disappears, the hard ice melts and the fire goes out, inspiring us to become better ourselves.

Ordinary story 4 ordinary people's pure heart

Text/Gu Bixi

I have been to such a family to eat hot pot. Just entering the door, I was attracted by a pot of blue plants. Ask what kind of plants. The boss said that this plant is a kind of vegetable called pea seedling. The boss's surname is Hu. She and her husband have run this hot pot together for many years. Out of curiosity, I asked her why she grew her own vegetables. Isn't there a takeaway outside? I was shocked by her answer. She said that all their vegetables got up at four in the morning and went to the market to keep them fresh. Let guests eat their hot pot without diarrhea. I am very moved by such an answer. In this materialistic and money-oriented society, there are too few bosses like them who are considerate of others everywhere.

I looked around and found that the characteristics of this hot pot restaurant were not luxurious. There are several cross-stitches hanging on the wall, which set off the simplicity of the shop. There is also a passage written on the wall, which is completely written in Chongqing dialect. I couldn't understand the meaning of this passage, so Mr. Hu explained to me that this passage was written voluntarily by a TV guest after eating their hot pot, which roughly meant to introduce the origin and meaning of the word "red bench"

Boss Hu's explanation aroused my interest even more. And she was very excited to see me so interested in their hot pot when I was a child. Maybe in her eyes, we are all people who have a strong complex about hot pot. So she also sat on the bench next to her.

I am a natural person who likes to observe people around me wherever I go, from buildings to cups. At this time, I also found a nostalgic heart of boss Hu. Perhaps because she lived in a poor age, she had a soft spot for wooden furniture. The tables, benches, cups and chopsticks in the shop are all very old.

At that time, two elderly people in their 80 s were sitting next to them. The hot pot they eat is obviously different from what others eat. Boss Hu said it was a hotpot. Maybe only in their place can I see the old people who eat authentic old hotpot. Isn't it the homesickness of that generation? At the same time, it also embodies the love that has always been praised by literati.

Boss Hu is a standard Chongqing native with a generous personality. As a foreigner, she is very friendly. She told me a long story.

In eighteen years, a group of employees followed the boss wholeheartedly, and the boss treated the employees as his own. Employees also understand and never make them angry. When they find themselves in a bad mood, they will finish all the work quietly and try not to worry them.

At first, they thought it was not easy for everyone to leave home and work hard. People are born by their parents, so it is not easy. No matter what difficulties employees encounter, they try their best to help. In 20xx, houses in Chongqing are not expensive, but a house should cost at least100000. Employees only have one or two thousand yuan in their hands. They feel that since everyone has come to Chongqing to work hard with them for many years, they can't live in a rental house every day. So, they had an idea in their hearts, let everyone borrow some from home for the time being, and find their own way to the rest. In the end, we need 20,000 to 30,000 yuan, and there are more than a dozen people. The remaining gap is nearly one million, and they need to fill it. Finally, after consulting with her wife, she unanimously decided to lend it to them. This money was still very large for Chongqing at that time.

In the following years, it has continued to this day. They spend a certain amount of money every year, from 500 yuan to 1000 yuan, to help employees' children pay their tuition fees. They have to worry about everything from their parents' sick medical expenses to their students' tuition fees. One of the employees, his brother goes to college, because of family difficulties, every time he comes back to find him, the boss will give him hundreds of dollars, and even they will buy train tickets every time. At that time, the salary of employees was only 300 yuan.

For many years, they never scold employees in front of their guests, because they think people have dignity and it is not easy for them to go out to work. If some outrageous guests speak ill of employees, they will get justice for them. But their employees have been following them for more than ten years.

I was very moved and shocked when boss Hu finished telling this story. It feels like writing a novel. I was just about to ask if this story is true. Mr. Hu smiled with a sense of accomplishment and said that these employees are the employees of this hot pot restaurant.

It suddenly dawned on me that this pair turned out to be boss Hu and her husband.

I asked him what prompted them to do so.

She just said flatly that out of conscience, she didn't mean anything else.

What a simple answer this is in the world! In the world, if everyone can have a pure heart, there will be gorgeous flowers when spring comes.

Ordinary story 5 Only happiness can't escape the ordinary road.

Text/sadness

Some time ago, in the movie "No regrets", the line that impressed me the most was: "Every time you say goodbye, you'd better try harder. Say one more word, maybe the last. Take a look, it may be the last one. " Before, I disdained these empty and powerless rhetoric until I was really close to death.

It turns out that when you say goodbye to others, maybe others won't leave any regrets. One more word from others, and others may change the whole life track because of one unintentional word from you. When you look at others one more time, they will become the most beautiful scenery in China in your life.

This is the happiness of ordinary people, but these happiness are ignored and discarded by most people.

Looking back on one thing my friend told me, I found that happiness is so within reach. At that time, after the self-study class last night, everyone went home with flashlights. However, my friend is a careless person. He brought a flashlight home the next day and forgot to bring it to school that night. So, every night she goes home in the dark. I asked her if a girl's house was not afraid to walk at night. She smiled and said: "Now, courage is mostly practiced at that time. My mother will light the lights of my whole building on time at night to make me not afraid. Every time I look at the light from a distance, my heart will be full of courage, because there is a person waiting for me to go home forever under the light. I am not worried about getting lost, and I am not afraid. " Later, my friend's mother died, and no one lit a lamp for her at night. Only then did she know how happy she had been. This happiness comes from an ordinary mother's silent interpretation of love.

When I was a child, I felt that getting a valuable toy was happiness. Now, even a room full of toys can't touch my heart and interest me. Things that are too easy to get, I will only think that this is a very common thing, and there is no happiness at all.

Perhaps, everyone is greedy and envious of what others have. I don't know, just like the poem says, "You stand on the bridge and watch the scenery, and the people watching the scenery are watching you upstairs."

The bright moon decorated your window, and you decorated other people's dreams. "Don't envy what others have, learn to cherish what you have. This is the happiness that truly belongs to you. I didn't understand this truth until a long time later. Happiness comes from the most ordinary things in life.

Out of society, I found that sitting in the library and quietly reading a long-lost book is happiness. After work, I say two words to my friends the most: "I'm busy". I'm busy writing reports and contacting customers. I think it's a luxury to be so busy that I even sleep. How can I calm down and read Who's Youth Is Not Confused? This life, waiting for time to test?

After working for a period of time, I was once unwell and insomnia. Reflect on why you didn't listen to your parents' arrangement and insisted on packing up and traveling to big cities. After numerous interviews and numerous failures, I finally found a job that barely supports myself. I have never mentioned these difficulties and setbacks to my parents. First, I made my own choice and should bear the consequences. Second, avoid them worrying about me, worrying that I can't eat well and sleep well, which will damage my health.

It's just that I don't say it, and my parents don't know my difficulties. Dad secretly helps me charge the phone bill every time to avoid stopping the phone. My mother pays attention to the weather forecast of my city every day. It's cold, remind me to put on more clothes. Remember to let me take an umbrella when it rains. These little things often make me cry secretly. In this life, I have done nothing to make my parents proud, but they still regard me as a treasure and love me deeply.

One thing is still deeply imprinted on my mind. The college entrance examination was just around the corner that year. Because of the pressure of the exam, I often forced myself to review until late at night. I didn't expect that the harder I worked, the more my grades fell, and my body couldn't bear such high-intensity damage, and I finally fell ill.

Later, my mother sat next to me and said, "Little darling, don't force yourself to study. College entrance examination is not the only way out. Every piece of land has suitable seeds. When seeds are not suitable for soil, they cannot germinate and grow. If you are not the material for reading, do your best, and neither your father nor I will blame you. " Dad also echoed at the side and said, "Yes! I don't ask how smart you are. As long as you have been kind and upright, it is my greatest reward. " Later, I put down my psychological burden and went into battle lightly to meet the college entrance examination. This incident has won the envy of many people, envious of my happy family and a pair of parents who love me deeply.

Sometimes I will face the temptation of beauty and pursue the desire for fame and fortune, but I still stick to my principles and moral bottom line. Not for any flashy reason, but to be worthy of my father's teaching: only honesty and kindness can qualify for the right to happiness, and wisdom is futile if it is not used in the right direction.

Today, I recall my father's explanation of the happiness of ordinary people. He said meaningfully, "Being alive is the greatest happiness, and no happiness in the world can escape the path of ordinary people."

Now, I look up at my hands in the sun and hear Pu Shu's song: "I have crossed mountains and seas, and I have also crossed a sea of people. Everything I once had vanished in the blink of an eye. I was disappointed and lost all directions until I saw the ordinary. " I understand that the true meaning of happiness is the most ordinary move, and only in this way can we move people's hearts.