Beijing meets Seattle: How to meet happiness?

In the recent hit movie "Beijing meets Seattle", Wen Jiajia played by Tang Wei has a classic line: "Maybe he won't take me to a yacht and eat French food. But he can run a few streets for me every morning to buy my favorite soybean milk and fried dough sticks. " As soon as this statement came out, it was immediately reprinted by many netizens and micro-friends, frequently appearing on major micro-platforms, and was regarded as a classic. Soymilk and fried dough sticks are ordinary low-priced civilian foods, which can be seen everywhere, but they must be insisted every few streets every day, which is really expensive.

In the world of mortals, we often can't grasp ourselves, inadvertently lose what we really want, follow the footsteps of desire and temptation, and pursue glitz and vanity. "I would rather cry in a BMW than laugh behind a bicycle." In the reality show "If You Are the One", a female guest expressed many people's voices. What is happiness? Is it fancy food? Is it luxurious and expensive? In fact, when you constantly satisfy your desires, you will find that life has not become happier, but has more troubles. Many women wish they had a Hermes bag. Wen Jiajia has a lot of Hermes bags, but she said, "I have a lot of bags ... all of them". Her words are humorous and sad, and her eyes are disdainful, ironic and lonely when she speaks.

A beautiful and expensive bag is not as warm as soybean milk fritters every morning, and a pile of brand-name bags is not worth your time.

Many people are controversial about the film "Beijing meets Seattle", thinking that the film is full of topics such as mistress, money worship and having children in the United States. Some people even say that this is a bad film that vindicates Xiao San and encourages Xiao San's arrogance. Please change your eyes, please see Wen Jiajia's optimism in adversity, her relief and self-reliance after ups and downs. Wen Jiajia is kind. There is a detail in the movie. Wen Jiajia knew that Frank's daughter had asthma, and immediately turned the fur over and put it on. Frank wouldn't have fallen in love with her if it weren't for these beautiful qualities hidden under the mistress's identity, luxury and publicity. Two people cannot be together.

The plot of "Beijing meets Seattle" is light and humorous, sentimental and inspirational, with a little touch everywhere. Frank is ordinary but simple, warm and kind. Wen Jiajia returned to herself after years and setbacks, found the truth of life, and was optimistic and self-reliant. They pushed aside the heavy pressure of life and found a happy place. Some people say that movies are movies. Frank and Wen Jiajia may not be happy in the future, but I believe they will find the true meaning of happiness after setbacks and will do well.

I watched a movie with my best friend, and I laughed with tears. A good movie is a wake-up call. It turns out that this is what I want in my heart, and this is the biggest gain.

Although life is not a movie, we are not Wen Jiajia, and we may not necessarily go to Seattle, but we can face life optimistically with contentment, just as Wen Jiajia can brazenly say "Let yourself be infinitely strong and meet the love that falls from the sky" in the face of difficulties, which is an optimistic attitude that is responsible for yourself. When Beijing can't meet Seattle, we can have a good book, a cup of fragrant tea, do beauty and yoga every day to make life full of sunshine; When Beijing can't meet Seattle, we can bear the injustice and blame for the other half who has many shortcomings and run an ordinary marriage life.

Desire is endless, temptation is endless, once caught in it, it will follow like drugs, exhausting wealth, health and even life. The Bible says, "What's the point of winning the whole world and losing your life?" .

Learn to be calm, learn to be optimistic, not be confused, find the happiness of life in a down-to-earth way, and grasp your little happiness in the face of temptation. If you find a "Frank" in your life, you can share joys and sorrows with him. Even if he looks ordinary and doesn't have much money, please go all the way and cherish it. Remember what Wen Jiajia said? There are no speedboats and no French food, but there are soybean milk fritters every day. (Author: Fei Qiaofang, China Park Police Station, Kunshan Public Security Bureau, Jiangsu Province)