What is more painful than pain is to imagine pain.

What is more painful than pain is to imagine pain

Pain makes people feel very uncomfortable? Then do you know what is more painful than pain? In fact, what is more painful than pain is to imagine pain!

Early on, CCTV 2 introduced an American drama called Pretender. After reading a lot, I can't remember it. The clearest sentence I remember is that pain is not terrible, but what is terrible is imagining pain. At that time, the scene was that the protagonist's teacher trained the protagonist with a small bottle of acid, dangling from the bound protagonist's hand, and then the protagonist (as a child) was very scared and screamed. Then it went up, and that's it. It's no big deal. Then leave a scar, which makes the protagonist remember this truth all his life? Pain is not terrible, what is terrible is imagining pain.

I deeply felt this feeling when I was about to graduate. Although at school, you were very stormy, did a lot of things, and were famous, and everyone thought your ability was good, but when you graduated, you were still in a panic because you didn't know what you could do or who would want you. However, I have a belief that even if I don't want someone else, I will still go to the recruitment or something.

The main reason for talking about this matter is that I often get a lot of scary inquiries, and I can feel the panic, such as whether I should take the postgraduate entrance examination or work?

should I go back to my hometown or stay in the big city? What kind of work should I do with a bright future? What if I can't find a job? This job has no future. What should I do if I don't develop well? Should I jump ship? What if I don't adapt? I wonn't say it one by one.

The feeling it gave me was actually the same as before I applied for a job. Everyone was in a panic, and then they all imagined the pain and what would happen to me if it didn't go well.

Then I always imagined that I was anxious, panicked and too nervous to speak or something. In fact, this is all in your imagination, not true. What is the truth? As long as you do it, you won't be nervous. So just find a job to do, go to work on time, and try to do things according to the requirements of the leaders. Once you are afraid, you start to act. Once you start to act, you have no time to be afraid.

The same logic can also be applied to feelings. We often guess each other's thoughts, and then guess that we can't sleep at night, and finally we are anxious.

In fact, you can just ask yourself about many things, but it won't matter. As long as you are in such a panic and anxiety mood, you should act immediately. For example, when you are on the phone, you feel very uneasy and always hope that no one will answer there, which seems to make you feel better. But once you pick it up over there, you must go on. When you talk, you must not panic so much. You should start thinking about what you should say. Sometimes after the phone call and confession, I feel relieved at once, because your problem was your problem before you said it, and after you said it, it became someone else's problem, and then it was her turn to be anxious. Leaving problems to others and actions to yourself is always the best choice to solve this kind of thing.

People are the only animals that can accept psychological hints, and the subconscious mind can't tell the truth from the false. You say that you are handsome every day, but in fact, you will believe it slowly.

It's like I call myself Mr. Bear every day. After a long time, I was hinted that I really thought I was a teacher. Then I hinted at others, and others began to call me Mr. Bear. One thing was born out of thin air.

The power of suggestion is very powerful. It is said that if you tell a hypnotized person that a piece of ice is a red-hot soldering iron, it will burn and blister on his skin if you touch him.

The Japanese once did a very inhuman experiment, in which a prisoner of war watched another man die of blood dripping into a bucket. Then he blindfolded the prisoner, cut his wrist, began to bleed blood, and then stopped the bleeding with the sound of water pipes dripping instead. A few hours later, the man still died, which was the hint.

So you must not scare yourself, and you must choose ways to enhance your hints, because the subconscious mind can't tell the truth from the false.

This can explain a lot of so-called geomantic omen, because the subconscious will also form a reflection, which will eventually affect your psychology, thus affecting your judgment, and then affecting your life.

Many mascots and religious articles are actually positive hints, which strengthen your faith and make your mind stronger. This is the important role of religious belief, which is also the reason why our country, which lacks faith, is popular with masters. The master is actually a psychiatrist, bringing spiritual sustenance to everyone.

So many things are possible only if you believe, so don't take them too seriously. ;