Why do we need some hobbies?

Why should college students cultivate hobbies? For many families, children are the most important, and it is urgent to cultivate their intelligence. The happiest thing for children is to get their parents' approval, and parents can't just scold them. The following are the reasons why college students cultivate hobbies. Why do college students cultivate hobbies 1 secret 1: Everyone needs to change channels constantly, and hobbies can add strength to life. Every year, China has a survey report on the mental health of college students, constantly asking questions and making suggestions. This also shows that college students' mental health education can not be ignored. According to reports, about 20% of college students in China have different degrees of psychological problems, and 50% of them feel stressed. College students' psychological pressure comes from various sources, and there are also various ways to relieve it. The stressors include study pressure, emotional pressure, economic pressure, interpersonal pressure and employment pressure. From a personal point of view, there are many ways to alleviate it, such as telling people, participating in activities, leisure and entertainment, consulting and so on. Often stress is everywhere, and everyone has it. Just look at how to relieve stress. I have witnessed that some college students have psychological problems because of stress, and I have also witnessed that some college students are comfortable with stress. My student, Xiao G, has been thinking about the opportunity to go to graduate school since his freshman year. Freshman is among the best in his major, but his sophomore year has dropped a lot and the pressure has gradually increased. She is introverted and does not take the initiative to communicate with others. Look for me once and find a way. In the process of chatting, I know that she is too demanding of herself and has some perfectionism, and will not allow her to fail at all. I told her some ways to relieve stress. It was not until my senior year that she began to enter my field of vision again, because she didn't have postgraduate insurance. However, at that time, she was not as stubborn as before, but more rational and calm. I asked her, what are the main ways to relieve stress in college? She said that in her sophomore year, besides studying, she mainly participated in some activities, and the most important thing was to cultivate a hobby-playing the guitar. After school, in addition to exercising, I will also play the guitar and join the school interest groups. When I can't learn and feel bad, the guitar becomes my partner. I often perform with other guitar lovers and even write. Hearing this, I know that the guitar has given him strength. Although she often gets scholarships, single study and heavy study can't keep people motivated and happy. Changing channels and switching between different fields gave her more excitement and confidence. Plato mentioned in the Dialogue that if people want to be happy, they must get rid of external trivial matters. American philosopher Charles Barrett Bill believes that leisure education can promote individual's physical and mental health and improve individual's happiness. French sociologist Duma Zhedier believes that leisure means that people can get rid of the obligations of work, family and society, and can have a better rest, change their mood and increase their knowledge. Leisure mentioned here is an activity other than work and study, including hobbies. Hobbies can make us drown in boring and trivial study and work less quickly, and it will always remind us that there are poems and paintings in our immediate life. Secret 2: There will be bottlenecks in study and work, and hobbies will give you different opportunities. In our study and work, there will be anxiety period and bottleneck period. At this time, if someone is superior, it is estimated that there will be a turn for the better, and it is also a lot of desires. I remember that in my third year of work, I was familiar with many fields of student work. I know that to do a good job, we must pursue every detail, and at the same time, we must have innovation and breakthrough. But then I gradually felt that there was a bottleneck in my work. When blogs became popular, I began to pay attention to the internet and net texts. After all, college students are network activists, and wherever they are, their jobs are there. However, at that time, I didn't know how to start and how to write an article. So I started with imitation, read Kai-fu Lee's Love in Unrequited Love, and knew that I could start by answering students' questions. I learned about the experts who wrote online articles in my peers at that time. From the reference, I knew that I should interact with students more and master their pain points. So, I began to embark on a journey of writing, sentence by sentence, one by one. Writing has become a part of my life. It is not the core of my work, but it still becomes my main hobby. Whenever I have time, I will write. Because this is not only a supplement to work, but also a kind of self-relaxation and expression. Later, he participated in the national counselor blog competition and won the top ten in China within two years. Results I met many experts in this field and got a lot of suggestions from topics, expressions and writing styles. I also basically understood some doorways of network ideological and political work, and then continued to study, declare topics, and build a platform, which made me walk in front of my peers in this field, so resources and opportunities followed. Often invited to share with colleagues in the province, give special reports to brother schools, and be invited by many magazines to write special articles. Hobbies not only entertain themselves, but also give themselves more possibilities. Xiao M is a student cadre in my university. I learned some speeches in middle school and participated in speech contests in middle school. At that time, he was in the worship of the speaker and curious about the speech, so he began to learn. The more you learn, the more you feel. The more you practice, the more you like it. When I get to college, I will stick to this hobby after school, host a class meeting and an activity. Because of the persistence of hobbies and the accumulation of ability, I have the opportunity to host larger activities, such as the college orientation party, the opening ceremony of the sports meeting, and large-scale academic competitions. Later, he became the brother hosted by college students. Xiao M is a food major. When he graduated, he found a job of quality control in a top 500 enterprise. In the first year of work, from adaptation to autonomy, there is not much glory. After all, there are experts in the top 500 companies. Besides working ability, we should also have opportunities. At the annual meeting of a company, the original host left at the end of the year, and the person in charge of the event was as anxious as ants on hot bricks, eager to find someone to replace him. Xiao m was recommended by the department, so he had an opportunity. At that annual meeting, there were thousands of people in the audience, and Xiao M conquered the audience with a calm and humorous performance. This time, the whole company knew him, and the boss praised him, and suddenly he became a red man. Later, the development of Xiao M went smoothly, on the one hand, it was his own efforts and ability, on the other hand, it successfully attracted the attention of leaders. He later felt that he never thought that one of his hobbies gave him many opportunities. It's really important to have a chance to shoot. Maybe it will give you different opportunities outside of work. Secret 3: Sometimes the circle is very small, and hobbies will let you link different circle of friends. There are only a few circles in our circle, colleagues, classmates, friends, relatives and friends. From the work point of view, our colleagues have a small circle and are familiar with a department. Others may just be acquaintances. Moreover, in the working circle, we will face hierarchical relations. In normal working relations, it is difficult for us to have close contact and contact with colleagues and leaders at higher levels. It is also difficult to meet people outside the work chain. After all, there is not much overlap. And hobbies will make you more likely. Seeing that business leaders like to play tennis, it is not surprising that many people have learned it. There are many older single young people who have not solved their marriage problems for a long time. The reasons for this are very complicated, but some people will have a narrow choice because of their small circle. My colleague H mentioned earlier falls into this category. Later, through the hobby of traveling, he solved the intractable diseases for many years because he added a circle of travelers. How to expand the circle? In addition to taking the initiative, you can also try to exchange hobbies. For example, I also have a hobby of drinking tea, so I often go to the tea shop near the community to have tea and chat. At a tea party, I met several HR, but I didn't leave any contact information that time. But when I met them in the store, I realized that they would often come here for tea and chat. After that, I really made friends, not only having tea with them, but also talking about the employment of college students. Therefore, these HR have become my right-hand man to help college students find jobs, and they can often successfully recommend students to find jobs. And through them, I got to know more and more HR, joined the South China Job Fair of the Brotherhood, and occasionally participated in their activities. In the circle of hobbies, everyone will not pay special attention to their workplace identity, and everyone will cherish the fate of being together because of hobbies. However, this will bring you a different circle of friends How to discover and cultivate your hobbies? Someone may ask me, then I have no hobbies, what should I do? Do you have to get it? Can't you play by yourself? Think about the interest classes we enrolled in when we were young, maybe piano, chess, calligraphy, painting, maybe singing and dancing, maybe basketball, football ... these can all develop into our hobbies. Nowadays, people are increasingly pursuing the diversification of life, learning flower arrangement, playing baking, engaging in tea art, taking photos and playing tennis. You can try all these. And why do you have to practice "injection"? Psychologically speaking, it is not enough to turn an interest into a sustainable hobby only by a temporary impulse. Why do you say "interest can be cultivated"? In fact, the real meaning of this sentence lies in the sense of accomplishment brought by trying something for the first time. This initial experience will make us full of confidence in this matter, thus generating the so-called "interest". Adults' sense of accomplishment often comes from self-satisfaction and external affirmation. Only by polishing a small matter and meeting confident people can this sense of accomplishment support us to continue to develop our interest. Otherwise, interest can only become a three-minute fever, which is difficult to last. Shooting will make you easier to remember and gain opportunities and resources. Even if you can't get it, participatory play will give you a different way of living and there will be some opportunities. Why do college students cultivate hobbies 2 1? Without interest, there is no independent personality. Recently, I saw a social documentary story by writer Zhou Chong, which can be summarized as: A woman experienced a bloody and extremely bumpy life, lived in poverty, enjoyed prosperity, and finally lost her lover, so she committed suicide by jumping off a building. I think her joys and sorrows are pinned on others, and when she is alone, she can't find anything that can make her feel happy. This is the root of the tragedy. Whenever I see a similar tragedy, I feel sorry for those involved, and I can't help feeling a lot. The most regrettable thing is that these people can't have a special hobby, an interest that can be used as a driving force for their survival. Without a unique hobby, what about independent personality and free will? Not to mention some success in business. Life is lonely, there is no special hobby, but the spirit is pinned on others. How risky this behavior itself is! 2. Having a hobby to give is the greatest motivation in life. American biologist Stacy O 'Brien wrote a book, Waiting for Wesley. Among them, the owl and Stacy waited for each other for 19 years, which was certainly very touching, but what impressed me most was Steve, a wildlife behaviorist who only appeared in two or three pages in the book. Steve was obsessed with research, broke into the depths of the Amazon jungle alone, soaked in knee-deep water full of parasites every day and watched kakapos all night. Soon, his feet rotted and the whole person gradually became a part of the jungle. When he came back infected with parasites, a bug even laid eggs in him. For scientific purposes, he collected these personally hatched worms and handed them over to tropical disease experts. Imagine that picture, a kind of yak flying around in Zootopia. If I didn't know they were scholars, I thought they were engaged in performance art. It is said that many scholars go to the Amazon jungle to do research, and all of them have appendectomy in advance, because they have to walk alone for six weeks to get to that isolated place, and the research lasts for one year. Once appendicitis occurs, they will face death. These field biologists have devoted everything to the cause of science, which shows how much they love their career. Like them, with a hobby and career that can give them life, how can they lose the motivation to live? 3. the relationship between interest and ambition (career) in fact, many celebrities emphasize the importance of interest when talking about their success. For example, Zuckerberg, the founder of Facebook, talked about entrepreneurship. "In order to be successful, entrepreneurs must focus on the problems they are really interested in." He has a wide range of interests, and his favorite is reading. The edification of knowledge became the cornerstone of his future career. Mr. Kai-Fu Lee wrote in his autobiography: Talent is interest, and interest is talent. He believes that people often learn things they are interested in quickly, which is their talent; Developing interest into a career will get twice the result with half the effort and make it easier to succeed. This is consistent with Zuckerberg's point of view. Qiu Chengtong, a famous Chinese-American mathematician and Harvard professor, also talked about the relationship between sports, music, art and mathematics (his occupation) in a speech in the Middle School attached to Peking University. He believes that exercise can make people have a good body, which in turn can make people concentrate; Music art can cultivate temperament. Therefore, music, art and sports are very important for learning and personality cultivation, that is, the cultivation of interest is the key to his life career. He proved that interest is still beneficial to career development when it is inconsistent with career. That is to say, I didn't engage in my hobby, but only regarded my hobby as a relaxation pastime after work, which helped me realize my ambition. Because after all, hobbies improve the interest of life and give everyone confidence and courage. In addition, learning methods can sometimes be bypassed across disciplines. Learn one skill and find it easy to unlock another. Such a virtuous circle, gradually interested in every new thing, always longing for a bigger world. Interest often changes a person's life inadvertently. Fables is a good example, as I said before when I introduced insects. Fables is addicted to insects. He trapped himself in a weed garden, devoted his life to dealing with "bugs" and wrote a two-million-word book "Insects" for him. Enough to see how deep Fabres's fascination with insects is. This scientific masterpiece, which has been selling well for two centuries, integrates the author's lifelong research achievements and life feelings in one furnace, observes the nature of insects with human nature, and turns the insect world into a classic handed down by human beings to acquire knowledge, interest, beauty and thoughts. Entomology won Fabres the reputation of "Homer of Insects" and "Poet of Science", and even nominated Nobel Prize in Literature. This is an example of focusing on a dull hobby and creating a legend that attracts worldwide attention. As for the utilitarian point, for the average person, isn't there an example of "realizing an ideal because of interest"? A pair of twin sisters, with their love for Sudoku, a seemingly unrelated hobby, knocked on the door of Cornell University, a famous American university. Some people with a wide range of interests are naturally curious about babies. They like everything, involving all fields, but their energy is limited and they can't make outstanding breakthroughs in a certain major. I don't want to give up some interests. Naturally, a major is more helpful to your career, but if you can't give up your hobbies, I think it's better to separate your career from your hobbies. If you don't have to earn money by interest, what if you don't have any hobbies? In this case, interest is just a means to know the world and have fun in it. Perhaps this kind of hobby itself is a process of enjoying and experiencing all kinds of new things. Finally, I want to say that some parents often enroll their children in various interest classes in order to help them find interest. This is no problem, but don't apply for more than one at the same time and force your child to take the exam. As long as children are interested, they will take the initiative to learn. If you push too hard, it will backfire. Finding a lifelong hobby is not as easy as I thought. But cultivating a simple hobby, such as reading, will also benefit you for life. As the saying goes, reading is the lowest threshold for nobility. The lowest cost, the biggest benefit. But no matter what hobby it is, help your child find a good interest in life as soon as possible!