Why is recklessness taboo?

In life, some people play the roles of "boorish" and "Daredevil". Their behavior is thoughtless and irrational. They just keep their words, are reckless and impatient, and act rashly without making any judgment on one thing, or act rashly without making a clear judgment, thus setting the wrong direction and entering a dead end. As a result, I did one thing and smashed another. I regret it afterwards and blame myself painfully. This lesson is really profound.

A reckless person, on a whim, has a hot brain and is indiscriminate, which has caused unimaginable consequences. Zhang Fei in The Romance of The Three Kingdoms and Li Kui jy in The Water Margin are both typical reckless people who often make trouble and bring people a lot of trouble. People often call those who act rashly without thinking "daredevils", so recklessness is not a good thing.

In Alaska, a young couple got married. After marriage, his wife died in childbirth, leaving a child. He is busy with life and work, and no one helps to look after the children. So he trained a dog. It is smart and obedient, can take care of children, can bite bottles to feed children, and can raise children.

One day, the owner went out and let the dog take care of the children. He went to another village and couldn't come back that day because of the heavy snow. When I came home the next day, the dog came out to see his master at once. He opened the door and saw blood everywhere. He looked up, there was blood on the wall, the child was gone, the dog was around, and his mouth was full of blood. After discovering this situation, the owner thought that the dog was sexually assaulted and ate the child. In a rage, he cut the dog's head with a knife and killed it.

But at this moment, he suddenly saw the child climb out of bed, so he picked up the child. Although the child had blood on him, he was not hurt. He's weird. I don't know what's going on. Look at that dog. There is no meat on his leg. There is a dead wolf next to him, still biting the meat of the dog in his mouth. It turned out that the dog saved the little master, but the master killed him by mistake.

Reckless is the result of lack of reason. It is not only the five big and three thick people who are reckless, even the smartest people do not think twice. Cao Cao is clever and resourceful, but he has also done reckless things. When I fled, I was desperate, so I thought of a friend of my father's before his death and went straight to the past. The man was warmly received, killing pigs and sheep to entertain him. However, the suspicious Cao Cao mistakenly understood the overheard phrase "tying to kill" as tying himself to death and fleeing hastily. In fact, it refers to "tying" a pig. Not to mention that. On the way to escape, I met my father's good friend and came back after drinking. Cao Cao mistakenly thought that he had gone to the government to inform, so he killed him.

Some people say that this is caused by Cao Cao's suspicious personality. There are a lot of brains, but you have to think about things without sufficient basis and jump to conclusions. This reckless behavior is really harmful.

Therefore, when we feel that our judgment is not very accurate or has not been proved by facts, instead of acting rashly, it is better to sit patiently for a while and think about it. In the process of waiting, don't sit still and get angry, because it will only get more and more annoying. What we have to do at this time is to investigate and collect materials. The more materials collected, the more conducive to making the right decision. Moreover, time can also make us calm down and carefully analyze and study the facts. This process of thinking is very critical, and its conclusions are likely to be very different from those at the beginning. When we have a complete understanding of the whole incident and clear thinking, it should be no problem to make a judgment.

Reckless behavior is harmful not only to our daily life, but also to our work and career. Because recklessness also makes our minds hot, we act rashly without thinking, thus misjudging the situation and opportunities and putting ourselves in a passive position.

Xiao Zhang graduated from an ordinary university. Although I am not proficient in culture, I feel good about myself. One day, he saw two job advertisements and hurried to apply. The first company is a small company, small in scale, short in establishment time and in urgent need of employment, so it was accepted after a simple interview. Xiao Zhang was complacent, thinking that he was admitted because of his strength, and his vanity was even more inflated, so that he looked down on this small company and went to another one. This is a big company, which is good in all aspects, well paid, and naturally has high requirements for talents, so Xiao Zhang was not admitted. Xiao Zhang regrets not going to his first job. When he went to the first company again, the other party refused him on the grounds of "full recruitment". Imagine that it is impossible for a small company to hire such a blind and aggressive person.

If you act rashly in your private affairs, you may be the only one who suffers; If we act rashly against a unit, an enterprise or even a country, the consequences will be even more unimaginable.

There is a factory director who is honest and compassionate, but loves to act rashly. A rash decision pushed the enterprise to the wall.

The factory is so small that it can barely operate. Seeing that the enterprise is neither dead nor alive, and the income of employees is not ideal, he is in a hurry and often worries about not finding production projects.

One day, he went out to learn the scriptures, ate in a small restaurant, and heard two dressed businessmen talking about how to make money, so he listened carefully. It turns out that sexually transmitted diseases such as AIDS spread very badly in some countries in Southeast Asia, so latex gloves are very popular. Hearing this, the director was too excited to eat. He immediately rushed back to the enterprise and held a meeting to announce. Everyone doesn't understand the market. Since the director is sure, it must be good, and no one raises any objection. Then, the factory director reported to the competent leader, who also thought that the project had a bright future and of course supported it, and instructed the bank to lend 70%. At the same time, employees also donated money to support new projects. With the enthusiastic support, the factory director has become more and more combative. In less than two months, a production line specializing in the production of latex gloves was launched. I made some money at first, but within three months, the sales were immediately banned. Looking at the boxes of gloves "married" and not going out, the factory director was so anxious that the employees were blindsided.

In order to overcome recklessness, we must take up the weapons of reason, calmness, self-discipline and thinking. Pick up this weapon, and any hasty behavior can be overcome. If we are mentally unstable, or feel hungry, tired and other discomfort, we should not make any decisions. Because at that time, we have lost at least half of our judgment. Being cautious and overcoming recklessness is the minimum requirement for us.