Are there any friendships that you regret?

Sorry about friendship, I think it should be our childhood friendship. Now that we have grown up, our childhood friendship has faded, and our life. When I was a child, the friendship requirements were not very high. Basically, everyone has the same time, and the age gap is not big. Just play together.

Not when I grow up. When I grow up, my feeling is, what's your use to me and what help can I give you? To put it bluntly, it is an exchange of interests under the guise of "friendship", but this is the society.

For example, if we are in the same circle, we can still talk together. You are a master, and I am also a master. You study in Europe, I study in the United States, and you go to the job fair for returnees. Can you share some information with me? I got a job here. If the opportunity is right, I can also mention you to the interviewer.

However, if you were childhood friends, maybe you became a civil servant, but your primary school classmates opened a small restaurant, how did you keep in touch? At most, you can go to his house for dinner and support yourself. Can you take people from your unit to eat and support regularly? Not appropriate, is it?

If your primary school classmates want to open a branch and come to you to avoid taxes through the back door, but you are new to the workplace, let alone you can't reach it at all. Even if you have the ability, are you willing to take such a risk?

So those childhood friendships, if not in the same circle, those who live near and study together, in fact, the overall environment has changed; Personality and sexual factors are similar, and it doesn't matter when you grow up; As for those who can't get away with it, relatives and friends are superficial at best.

When I just graduated, many students were studying for master's degrees and once went out to play together. I also asked, why didn't you call me? I can take a day off and rest on weekends. A girl seems to show "high emotional intelligence" and says, aren't you at work?

But looking back now, I think if people really want to call you, they will definitely wait for your time in advance, without considering you at all, and just find an excuse to say, for your work.

To put it bluntly, I feel that my education is biased and I am not from the same world, so it is realistic to make friends. Of course, I don't care now, because I have developed from many angles, and they are still quite satisfied in their own workplace. As for childhood friendship, just go with the wind?