Boyfriend accompanies girls for an interview.

? That day, I interviewed a girl and applied for a basic position: Taobao customer service. What impressed me was not that the girl had any special highlights, but that she came to the interview with her boyfriend. As soon as I entered the door, the girl introduced me as my boyfriend and accompanied me to the interview. Because of my career, I have met countless people, and I have seen many parents accompany their newly graduated children for interviews, but it is rare for my boyfriend to accompany me for interviews like this. Is it popular for young people to show such love now? ?

? Half an hour's interview, the girl is in the meeting room, and her boyfriend is waiting for her in the reception room outside. Let's talk about the basic situation of this girl: born in 1995, she had nearly three years' work experience before, and worked as a customer service agent for Taobao for two months in her last job. Later, she resigned and went home because of family emergencies, and only came to Shenzhen to look for a job in the last week.

? The girl looks very quiet. In order to make the atmosphere more relaxed, to understand the family background of the job seeker more clearly and to satisfy my curiosity, I said to her, "Your boyfriend is so kind to you and accompanied you to the interview!" She smiled a little sheepishly: "We were introduced. We have been together for two years. He is very kind to me. He is afraid that I will get lost, so come with me! "

? In a later interview, I further learned that the girl's residence is not far from the company and can be reached on foot. Her boyfriend has just been at work for a few days, and he is afraid that she will get lost and ask for leave to accompany her for an interview! ? Although she has repeatedly said that she is very concerned about this job and has relevant work experience, and her main demand for finding a job is to be close to home, our company just meets her expectations.

? However, in the end, we still feel that she is not suitable for this position, for the simple reason that this job is not important to her, or it is dispensable. ?

? First of all, a person with three years' work experience is not a newcomer in the workplace. She has to interview for a basic position, which is also her familiar job content. The address of our company is easy to find and close to her home. Why did her boyfriend accompany her to the interview? Maybe she is really happy and loving, but it is also possible that she is not independent. If it is the latter, it is even more inappropriate. What the workplace needs more is independent, confident, brave friends who can solve problems through hard work! There is not even a "baby" who needs someone to accompany him in the interview! It is said that most girls have comprehensive perceptual disabilities, which is commonly known as road blindness and no sense of direction, but it does not prevent us from solving this problem in other ways, such as taking a taxi, such as Baidu map, such as asking for directions, instead of just letting her boyfriend accompany her, mainly because this way will form inertia dependence to a great extent! Personally, I suggest that work and life should be separated and a sense of boundaries should be established! You can be a happy baby in life, but you should strive to be an independent and capable "wonder woman" at work! ?

? Secondly, she also expressed her love for this job many times and felt that our position was very suitable for her. In fact, she doesn't really care about this job. She thinks that this job can bring her better salary and development space, and enjoy the sense of accomplishment brought by the job, just because it is close to home. Of course, it doesn't matter if you think so. Who doesn't want to find a job close to home? Who wants to spend precious time on the way to and from work? But our position is a sales post, and the most important thing in sales is to be enterprising and enterprising. But this girl didn't see her enterprising spirit, and the key past work experience can also show that she is not very attentive to her work, unfamiliar with her major, and her performance is average. The only requirement for finding a job now is to be close to home. Maybe she is not short of money, maybe her focus is on her family! But, don't forget, finding a job is just like falling in love. Your suitability is not just wishful thinking. You have to go to two similar places to develop! According to her real psychological appeal, she may be looking for a job that can kill time near home, so the sales position is not suitable for her! ?

? Actually, I have no intention of judging girls' values. Everyone has his own choice to realize his own value, whether at work or at home! There is no right or wrong! However, since you have chosen a job, you should treat it well and don't treat it as a pastime. Few companies are willing to recruit such employees, and enterprises are not welfare institutions. They hope to find the right person and create value for them!

? In the process of job hunting, maybe everyone's life experience, work experience and professional education are different, but these questions are suitable for everyone, so I might as well ask myself first, what kind of life do I want? What do I need to pay for this? According to my expectation, personality and ability, what kind of job is suitable for me? What can I do?

For individuals, work is more about helping each other, killing each other and caring for each other than hurting each other!