About thirty years old, how should we go in the future?

time flies, time flies. Unconsciously, we have reached the age of 3, and we are not the playful and naughty ones. Maybe you have a family, maybe you are still single, maybe you are happy, and maybe you are confused.

Thirty years old is a watershed. On the one hand, it is gorgeous youth with blazing sun and blooming flowers, and on the other hand, it is a messy life full of chicken feathers. The once hot-blooded youth has become a middle-aged uncle with a thermos cup soaked in medlar.

3 years old is a door, inside which is the ordinary comfort at this time, and outside which is the unknown challenge and passion. Seeing the age requirement of many job advertisements-under 35 years old, I have an inexplicable panic, and then I am glad that I still have a job.

Thirty years old is a gap. Children after are talking about running men with great interest, just like our obsession with Meteor Garden in those days. What we said about responsibility, belief and outlook on life are incredible to them. Our fathers advised us that peace is a blessing and contentment is always a joy, but deep down, there is a stubborn and unyielding self who dares to challenge.

Thirty years old is a fork in the road, with a comfortable and comfortable life on one side, just like a frog in warm water, immersed in a unchanging and uneventful life, unable to extricate himself, and finally losing the fighting spirit and courage to jump out; On the other side, the road is muddy, winding, full of bumps and uncertain future. Opportunities and challenges inspire us to keep growing and making progress, and we feel the pleasure of exploring the unknown world along the way.

Thirty years old is a turning point in life. Angular, impulsive, outspoken and sharp-edged have been replaced by sophistication, deliberation, cautious words and deeds, and keeping a low profile. We used to pursue the quality of life and were keen on famous brands. We felt that it was rude to buy discounted and promotional goods, but now we are delighted to kill an item that is not used at all. In order to protect their rights and interests, they argue with merchants, and sometimes they tease and complain with vendors who buy food. Is this the so-called middle-aged greasy life?

how to manage the messy life in an awkward age when you are in your thirties?

start to reflect on your previous life and grow up through reflection.

After working, getting married and having children in my thirties, the embryonic form of my life basically took shape. When I was enjoying the ease and leisure day after day, I suddenly found that my young schoolmasters had continued to climb at an unattainable height. I began to doubt my life. People who are better than us are so hard. What reason do we have to rest on our laurels and live in chaos?

I remember the wasted time when I was young and ignorant, and the missed opportunity at a critical moment in my life, from which I feel sad.

Life is comfortable enough, so why not make progress in comfort? Try your best to fight at an age when you can still work hard, and don't leave regrets for life.

reflection makes us awake to our present situation, and it also makes me see the way to go in the future. Personality can be reconstructed in reflection, thinking is clear in reflection, and individuals are thoroughly remoulded in reflection.

In The First Half of My Life, Luo Zijun, who is willing to be a housewife at the expense of love, started a brand-new life after suffering from a marriage change and painful reflection.

Do subtraction in life, and choose the most reliable goal according to your own specialty.

I have set many goals for myself in pursuit of perfection, and I always give up after persisting for a while. The treadmill at home has become the best tool for drying clothes. The books I bought have already accumulated thick dust ... Life has been caught in such a vicious circle again and again:

Set goals-full of fighting spirit-lack of self-control and external temptation to give up-make up your mind-set goals again

Setting too many goals and taking care of too much will take care of one thing and lose sight of another. In your thirties, you will start to subtract from life and establish one or two feasible ones at each stage.

The winner in life is the person who perseveres in doing one thing to the extreme.

so how do you stick to your goals effectively? Giving up halfway stems from the lack of strong motivation support. My friend said that in the days when she started running, her muscles were sore and her body and mind were exhausted after running five kilometers every day. What supported her? Every time she was about to give up, like Gou Jian, she silently asked herself, "Have you forgotten the shame of being laughed at in public for obesity?" "Getting past the shame" is the driving force for her persistence. How many times she left the warm bed in someone else's dream, and her persistence for more than two years brought her unexpected life gains.

Persistence will always be accompanied by pain and discomfort caused by sudden changes. This is a normal phenomenon. Find yourself a motivation to persist, recall your experience that you missed an opportunity because you insisted on success or gave up halfway, or set a positive example for yourself. Just like a mother's painful childbirth is the birth of a new life, surviving the most difficult days at the beginning of the change of life state, persistence becomes a habit, and when habit becomes the normal state of life, we will reap different life.

Relieve stress and learn some ways to relieve bad emotions.

We strive to win a place between the senior generation with profound experience and the post-9s generation with strong momentum. Children's education and parents' aging bodies require us to shoulder our due responsibilities. Seeing other people's children working hard to learn all kinds of skills at weekends, feeling the comparison and showing off when they meet on holidays, tasting the ups and downs of life, and our brows are locked and anxious, these invisible pressures are testing our sensitive and fragile hearts, and we can't help feeling:

In your thirties, you should learn to vent your bad emotions correctly, relax your tense nerves in sports, music and meditation, and then continue on your way after having a rest.

throw away unrealistic fantasies and work hard for the tangible reality.

We feed horses and chop firewood, worry about food and vegetables, and manage our work and life with our heart, but we won't go away for poetry and distance on impulse. We are well aware of our responsibilities, and these responsibilities make our lives profound.

Take work as a platform to improve yourself. After the age of 3, you should start to accumulate experience, ability, knowledge and contacts, and stay away from gossiping and gossiping. Every employee in the unit has something to learn from, so it is worthwhile to learn from others and constantly improve yourself and work hard for tangible things.

Cherish the time with your family, put down your mobile phone, take the elderly and children out for fun, even if it is not salty or light chat, don't replace the actual companionship with verbal promises, because the years are in a hurry and you can't stand too much waiting.

make good use of your spare time and throw away useless social activities.

In this world, no matter how excellent you are, there are always people who like you and others who don't like you, so there is no need to please everyone. Before the age of 3, in order to keep fit in, we always sharpened our heads and got into the crowd chatting and eating melon seeds. Now we don't feel lonely even if we are separated from others.

instead of letting the energy of life slowly drain away in dealing with innocuous social interaction, it is better to pick up professional books to improve your business ability, or to absorb the essence of life in the ocean of knowledge and realize the true meaning of life.

Spare time can make or break a person.

After work, it will get unexpected results to use the time spent by others on screen-surfing and gossip for study: there is a book stored in the mobile phone, which can be read while waiting for the children to attend the interest class; If time permits, you can walk to and from work, and plan or summarize the life of the day while exercising; Take time to look at the latest consumption details, be aware of it, reduce unnecessary expenses, learn some practical financial management skills to increase wealth, and make good use of fragmented time to have unexpected gains in life.

in our thirties, we can't just wander around and do nothing every day. For our family, for our children, for our parents, and more for ourselves, perhaps we have more problems to consider, more worries and greater responsibilities, but our fiery heart and hard-working heart will never change, because there are still many people who love us who need our protection!

thirty years old, how many thirty years old are there in life? What reason do you have not to work hard and fight hard? Here I hope all my friends will work together and cheer together. This era is ours! ! ! Come on! ! !