My boss asked me to be a son-in-law, but my family refused. What should I do?

I work in a factory in Suzhou. I was in the army. I specially arrange to drive my boss and often send his daughter to college. I have feelings in daily life. My boss didn't stop me when he knew I was in love with her daughter. But let me be a door-to-door son-in-law I called my parents in my hometown to explain the situation, but my parents never agreed. What should I do?

My name is Song Ming, and my home is in Luohe, Henan. I was discharged from the army on 20 18, and I was introduced to someone at home. The girl's name is Xiaoyu. She has a college degree and is also very beautiful.

The two families are less than 20 miles apart. Other parents saw that I was mature and steady, and tried their best to fix Xiaoyu and me. Xiaoyu is very filial and sweet-mouthed, which makes my parents very happy. They naturally come together.

My parents plan to let us buy a house and get married, but my family's conditions are average, and the veterans' allowance can only pay the down payment on the house. I choose to work in Suzhou, hoping to earn more money and live in my own house as soon as possible.

Xiaoyu needs to take care of her parents at home. She didn't go to the south to work with me. When I arrived at the station, Xiaoyu took my hand and cried, "You should come back early. I will wait for you at home. "

"Yes, I will make money early and come back to marry you." On the train, Xiaoyu and I parted reluctantly.

Suzhou warmly received and rented a rental house in a nearby community. I entered a large electronics factory. The factory has 3,000 or 4,000 employees, mainly engaged in die-casting notebook computer casings. The boss is said to be a Taiwanese boss. The family moved from Taiwan Province Province to the mainland and lived in a villa near the factory.

The first time I went out to work, my heart was still a little bumpy. My supervisor is a beautiful woman, well dressed. Look at my resume. It says I'm a veteran. I was recommended to be a security guard in the factory, mainly responsible for the management of parking spaces in the factory, and it is forbidden to place senior executives' vehicles casually.

I am very satisfied with my work. After all, it is very easy for me to stand guard as a soldier, and I can get in touch with many senior executives, which invisibly makes me learn a lot of knowledge. Rain or shine, I insist on being serious and responsible in my post.

The security guards who have worked in the factory for 78 years are all smooth hands. Basically, when they are free, they will choose to be lazy, smoke and play with their mobile phones. I want to earn money as soon as possible and go home and marry Xiaoyu as soon as possible.

When I come to work in the factory, Xiaoyu often calls me the first time after work and cares about my food and clothing in Suzhou. Because I am a northerner, I am used to eating steamed bread and noodles, and I am not used to eating rice every day in the southern factory.

After work, I play video with Xiaoyu. She saw that I lost a lot of weight every day. I was so distressed that I almost cried. I couldn't take it anymore, so I hurried back to my hometown.

But in order to make money to buy a house as soon as possible, I still gritted my teeth and persisted.

The climate in the south is changeable, especially prone to rain. It's raining all day. It rained in Mao Mao in the morning, and I was on duty in the afternoon. Suddenly, a high-grade white commercial vehicle stopped directly in the green passage of the parking lot.

I stopped at once, saluted the driver and said, "Sir, I'm sorry, this is a green passage, you can't stop."

The driver, wearing a baseball cap and a little black and fat, about fifty years old, took a look at me and continued driving.

So I quickly caught up with him and immediately saluted him and said, "Sir, I'm sorry, this is a green passage. You can't stop."

The driver turned the car in the other direction and stopped in other parking spaces. I saluted the driver again and advised him, "Sorry, sir, you can't stop."

Then the driver rolled down the window and said to me, "You don't need to apply for internal insurance. Report to the general affairs office of the factory tomorrow and be my full-time driver."

Only after work that night did I know that the driver had something to do today. Actually, it's the boss who drives the commercial vehicle. Of course, the boss's car can be parked wherever he wants, and I am an idiot, so I just parked the boss's car.

I didn't expect to be valued by my boss in disguise and transferred to the General Affairs Department as a driver. At that time, a group of old colleagues were envious and said that I was particularly lucky. From internal insurance to boss and driver, the salary is doubled and there are other benefits.

After work, I told Xiaoyu the good news and promised that I would earn money as soon as possible and marry her when I got home. We all look forward to a bright future.

Driving for the boss as a driver, because I am a soldier, tall and burly, acting as the boss's personal bodyguard in disguise. My salary has also risen from 5000 yuan to more than 20 thousand yuan. This is the most satisfying thing for me. A house in my hometown is 700 thousand. After doing this for three years, I can almost buy a house.

The boss has a baby daughter named Xiaomei, who grew up in Taiwan Province Province. She is different from the careless girls in China. She has a small family, very gentle and lovely. She went to college in Suzhou, and also took piano classes near the factory. Often, the boss will let me take Xiaomei to class.

Xiaomei grew up in Taiwan Province Province and has been in the mainland for two or three years. She has few friends here because of her different living habits.

On the way to send her to school, we often chat together because we are the same age. She will be very happy to tell me about college life, and her classmates are a little withdrawn. We will also share interesting things around us, and we have a good chat. Gradually, I found that our relationship seems to have changed a little.

In the evening, Xiaomei and her female classmates go to KTV to sing. I waited for her to pick me up in the car downstairs. Suddenly, I received a call from Xiaomei for help. KTV was targeted by several gangsters and insisted on taking Xiaomei to accompany the wine. Xiaomei refused to agree. They threatened to use violence.

Xiaomei is anxious to call me. I hung up running all the way and went upstairs to the KTV room. I saw four gangsters with tattoos on their arms. Those rude-looking hooligans want to take advantage of Xiaomei. When I broke into the room, I shouted, "Who are you, smelly boy?"

Fortunately, I often exercise, and a side kick directly kicked him away, hitting the glass table hard and spilling my glass all over the floor.

The other three people wanted to help, so I punched them on the chin and flew them out on the spot. The remaining two were afraid and dragged two gangsters away. Xiaomei threw herself into my arms and cried, "Song Ming, you scared me to death just now."

I held her tightly in my arms and saw the traces of the torn skirt. Fortunately, I arrived in time. If I'm late, the consequences will be disastrous.

After this incident, the relationship between Xiaomei and me changed. She became very dependent on me and told me everything around her. I gradually realized this change, but I enjoyed it. Xiaoyu's picture in my mind became blurred, and Xiaomei became impressed.

Soon, the boss in Taiwan Province Province knew about my relationship with Xiaomei. Because I often drive him, he knows my personality better, thinks I am honest and kind, and he has no son, so he wants me to be their son-in-law.

I promised to take care of the factory in the future, knowing that it is a big factory with 4000 people and its annual turnover is several hundred million. At this moment, my heart has also changed, and I feel that I love simple and kind Xiaomei more.

I called Xiaoyu to explain the situation and wanted to break up with her and marry Xiaomei. Xiaoyu cried when she received the phone call and refused to break up.

My parents in my hometown disagreed. They get along with Xiaoyu day and night. They think Xiaoyu is the future daughter-in-law. They told me to leave Suzhou and go back to my hometown, and I was not allowed to go to work again.

It was not easy for my parents to raise me since I was a child. After careful consideration, I felt that I was not worthy of Xiaomei's family and decided to give up this rare relationship, so I told Xiaomei the truth. As a result, she refused to break up anyway, and once threatened to follow me wherever I went.

My boss also tried to persuade me to make great achievements in the factory after I stayed. On the one hand, I gave it to my trusted boss and my boss's daughter who loved me very much. On the other hand, I took care of my family and was kind and virtuous Xiaoyu.

Should I marry the girlfriend introduced by my family or the boss's daughter? I was caught in the middle. What should I do?

My friend Xiao Li said, "I should stay with Xiaomei and break up with my girlfriend in my hometown." After all, the bosses in Taiwan Province Province are worth billions. If I stay and marry Xiaomei, I will fly to the branch immediately and become a phoenix. I can struggle for at least 30 years, and in a blink of an eye, I have a car and a house here in Suzhou, and I don't have to suffer anymore. "

My friend Xiao Zhang said, "You can't forget your roots. Although the boss is very kind to me, Xiaoyu is virtuous at home and helps me take care of my parents at home. Listen to my phone in the dormitory. Xiaoyu is a good girl with a kind duty and a college degree. She advised me to go back to my hometown and marry Xiaoyu. "

After listening to the analysis of two friends around me, I think it all makes sense, but I really don't know what to do. Really a headache!

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