Many women are single now. Why?

Living in first-and second-tier cities, colorful social activities and convenient services have greatly enriched women's time after work, making them no longer confined to home, having more life possibilities and gradually enriching their inner world.

Just like my friend Mix, she has lived in Shanghai for a long time. She is no longer young, but she is still single.

She thinks her present life is very interesting and beautiful, and she is not worried about not finding a boyfriend at all.

Every week, she meets a group of friends around her regularly and organizes various activities, including cycling, reading club, food salon and so on.

Through the activities of the food salon, she gradually became a gourmet who loves cooking from a small white chef.

From Mix, I can see that she is constantly trying all kinds of things to have fun and please herself, which is exactly what many modern women in the workplace have in common.

2/ Heavy work makes love tired/

Life for adults is not easy, especially for single professional women. What will heavy work and long overtime bring?

As my friend said, "I have money now and have no time to spend it." When I get home every day, I want to get down and have no time to fall in love. "

Heavy work, coupled with daily troubles such as overbearing bosses and lazy colleagues, will only lead to new fatigue if you have to deal with your partner.

So many women are willing to drink a little wine and sleep late on weekends, dissolve in jazz and instant coffee, and look for a little luck in life. 3/ Men don't take on more family responsibilities/

Recently, the fire variety show "Men Doing Housework" continues to attract everyone's attention, among which there are many "fairy husbands" praised by everyone. Get up every morning to make breakfast, take care of the baby, pack things and do housework, which is unambiguous.

The boasting of the standard husband in the program just shows that the husband does too little housework.

We can look at it more objectively through a set of data: China ranks fourth from the bottom in the world in terms of male housework; On the other hand, women in China spend 8 1 minute more than men, which is close to 1.5 hours.

When a woman is doing housework, her boyfriend who doesn't touch Yang Chunshui is playing games and playing mobile phones.

When such things persist for a long time, women will become anxious and their mental load will gradually increase.

Men who have no sense of family responsibility and are unwilling to share housework together will really make women lose interest in love and marriage.

4/ The career of working mothers is more difficult/

Women will inevitably go through the stage of having children after ending their single state and falling in love and getting married.

According to the data of Zhaopin's "20 19 Survey Report on Living Conditions of Working Mothers", more than half of working mothers think that after giving birth, they will be distracted, which will affect their work effect and career development.

40% of working mothers missed the opportunity of promotion and salary increase because of having children; 33.7% of working mothers are marginalized by the company because they have children, and there are few opportunities for promotion.

A child less than one year old, the predecessor of the heroine in the Japanese TV series "I get off work at one o'clock", suddenly fell ill and couldn't get away from her busy work. As a result, he can only go to work in a daze.

In "Little Joy", the working mother whose children are about to enter the college entrance examination frequently asks for leave because she is worried about her children's study, and finally loses her original executive position.

After marriage, children become a concern, which will have a negative impact on the mother's career to a certain extent.