Reject other people's sweet words

Good distress ~ Baidu, Ali, Netease have all come to offer, but I want to learn from Tencent. "Not everyone has the opportunity to experience this kind of happiness (looking for a fight). My third brother pushed an article about the choice of offer yesterday. I believe the students have a good idea after reading it, but many students have similar little troubles: I have a better choice, how can I refuse other offers with dignity? How to deal with this situation?

The following three brothers first show the students some "unreliable" reasons for refusing the offer.

"The salary is too high, and there will be great pressure in the future."

"When I arrived in Beijing, the smog off the plane was too serious. Forget it. "

"My friend didn't meet me, but I did. If I go, it will affect our friendship. "

"My ex-boyfriend joined the company two weeks ago, and I don't want to work with him."

"My father knows Zhouyi, so it is not suitable to join this company now."

"I have found a job."

After reading all the reasons that the above students refused to provide, Third Brother was really worried about these students. In fact, in any case, it is not difficult to refuse an invitation if the goal is clear. If you are not firm in your heart, or feel that this job is boring and it is a pity to abandon it, it will be more troublesome-but if you can properly handle this matter, the job you declined today will become a solid foundation for your job-hopping in the future.

In any case, knowing how to refuse a job invitation is an important skill, which is closely related to your professional quality. When considering whether to accept the offer, the third brother summed up the following three points for the students: expressing gratitude, giving reasons and blessing expectations.

Tell the reason

When you get the offer, it means that HR and the company think you meet their recruitment requirements, which is an affirmation of your personal ability. Therefore, before rejecting the offer, you should politely thank the person who sent you the offer. After all, this company has a good eye. No, it took a fancy to your swift horse.

The content of gratitude can generally include these two aspects.

One is gratitude for getting this opportunity.

The second is to thank HR and the recruitment company for their recognition.

In short, it means showing respect for HR and attitude towards the recruitment company. Never act as if this job doesn't deserve you, or you haven't seriously considered this opportunity at all.

Give reasons

Some people like euphemistic refusal, while others like direct and sincere refusal. Both methods are acceptable. The important thing is that you can make HR feel sincere in the process of communication, not deliberately. Sometimes it may be that the work doesn't match your personal situation, so you can express it appropriately.

Sometimes it may be your personal reasons, such as feeling that the company doesn't look tall enough to meet the leadership atmosphere. You can't tell HR that your house is too low and I don't want to go.

Blessing expectation

At the end of the refusal, you can add a word of blessing to the company or hope to cooperate again, leaving a good impression on HR. Again, the workplace circle is sometimes small, and your words may have an impact on the future.

Brother San also provided two templates for students to refuse to quote. Don't be discouraged if some students haven't got their favorite offer yet. Third brother believes that one day you will refuse other people's proposals!

Hello, xxx, I have reached a preliminary employment agreement with you before, but because I recently got an offer from another company, according to my career expectations and planning, this company may be more suitable for my professional direction and future development, so I apply to you for termination of employment today. I hope your company can find someone more suitable for this position. I'm sorry for the inconvenience caused to your company's work. I hope we can cooperate again in the future.

Thank you very much for your favor. I came to your company to apply because you have a good sense of social responsibility and scientific and technological creativity, and you are a passionate team of scientific and technological engineers. However, after careful consideration and evaluation, I think the job you offered does not match my career plan. If there is an opportunity in the future, I will still consider coming back to work, and I will recommend you if there are suitable people. I hope we can keep in touch.