What do you think about the QQ group of students from Class 2, Grade 18 Mechanical and Electrical Engineering of Hefei University, anonymously attacking the counselor?

I couldn’t believe it when I first saw the news. It didn’t feel like something that should happen in a university campus atmosphere, but more like something that happened in a strictly hierarchical workplace or even an officialdom. , even though the student was wrong, the counselor's response shocked people. Is this what a college counselor said? I feel like a common citizen who has a grudge and doesn’t know how to communicate with students. To be honest, today’s college counselors are generally students who have just graduated from graduate school. They cannot be called real college teachers. Most of their knowledge levels are still poor. Far away, they have just graduated. Some of them are as young and vigorous as this counselor. They speak and do things in a very straight-forward manner, and they have a certain amount of power in their hands. Some people will gradually lose themselves in the desire for power. , over time, I will put on the face of being the best in the world in front of students, just because I have the evaluation model of students in my hand, and I have the power to kill myself with scholarships...

Let’s talk about this student again , although his way of speaking is indeed inappropriate, the cause of this matter is the mandatory task assigned by the counselor. To be honest, when each of us goes to school, don’t we perform the mandatory tasks assigned by the school or the teacher? The collective sense of honor is always mentioned. Who doesn’t know that in order to complete their tasks, school leaders or teachers flatter their superiors and get more political achievements in their hands? There is also a sense of collective honor! I find it ridiculous when you say this!

Will posting screenshots like this infringe on people's privacy? My first question.

Tell me what you think.

First, from the perspective of a counselor.

This is a common problem. When many college students enter school, in addition to studying, there should be various university activities to enrich the extracurricular life of students, and activities require students to participate together. There are instructions from school leaders that a certain number and scale of student activities are to be held every year. A portion of the tuition fees paid by each student when they enroll is used as activity funds to prepare for the activities. However, the enthusiasm of students to participate in activities is generally not high - it is necessary to forcefully issue participation quotas for each class, and each class must submit a registration list. Everything is done to organize and prepare for the event. There is pressure from one level to the next. As counselors who are in direct contact with students, they are parents and have to take care of everything. The class teacher is a part-time teacher and does not have too much control over the affairs of the class. It is said that college students need freedom. So the counselor is the one who gets most of the blame. Therefore, although the counselor's words were a bit uncalm, it was understandable.

Second, stand from the student’s perspective.

University activities should originally follow the principle of voluntariness. It is okay if the registration list is voluntary. If it is a forced rotation arrangement, students will not be able to accept it psychologically. In addition, the rehearsal of the square team in the school sports meeting was intensive, tiring, and took up a lot of personal time. The key point is that it does not have many benefits - social practice points - because there are too many people, the points are given less, and the students are inherently I'm not stupid, so I keep it in mind.

In addition, the degree of freedom in college is not as high as in high school. In high school, students are often expelled and put on probation, which makes students afraid. But in college, of course, you can be lazy if you can.

Third, let me talk about this common phenomenon in universities.

I have to say that new college students feel less and less able to compare with their senior brothers and sisters. They are more valuable, less able to bear hardships, and more calculating. This is helpless and a side effect of the new era. Therefore, schools still have to formulate new measures based on these issues in order to cultivate talents.

The students are young and energetic, and the counselor is not worthy of being a teacher.

Counselors have great power. Although they are not powerful officials, they have real power. As the saying goes, if you are not afraid of officials, you are afraid of management.

I remember when I first entered college, I was far away from my friends in my hometown, and finally met a classmate and friend who I got along with. Because I am taller, some of my movements during military training were not very coordinated with the classmates and friends I had just met. The instructor caught me and beat me hard, and I was punished by being forced to stand in a military posture under the sun, with my feet half in the air and half in the air. It's the kind where one stop lasts forty or fifty minutes. The quality of the instructors at that time was really poor. They were ruffians and would beat people at every turn.

To get to the point, the counselor saw her. She was a woman. She was a little older. She didn’t care about everything. She was sarcastic and threatening. She used us as negative teaching materials and said that we couldn’t get it if we didn’t train hard. Credits (military training has credits), not to mention scholarship subsidies. My friend muttered something, as if he was threatening to return the favor if he didn't take it, and the counselor was furious. Then there was another lecture and threat. Later, during the lunch break, my classmate and friend were still standing for punishment. The counselor said to me, let’s go. I said, I won’t leave. If I want to leave, let’s go together. We will stand together. The counselor was completely angry and yelled at me, "Don't bring your gangster temper to the university." (I was also a 211 in my university.) At that time, I was confused. Can such a person be a counselor? Aren’t counselors the guides in student life? Until now, more than 10 years after graduation, I have not contacted that counselor again.

The position of counselor should be banned, and universities (including undergraduates) should implement a combination of senior system and tutor system. I remember that Wuhan University used to implement a tutor system (including undergraduates), and Central China Normal University implemented a senior system (speaking of which, many people should probably know my alma mater).

I clicked in after seeing this title, because our class also encountered such a situation, and it was also sent anonymously, because when we were doing graduation projects in the university, one of our sexual Yao's female tutor (known as the first of the Four Diamonds). Countless people failed in her class and had to accept it, so she offended many students, but they dared not speak out. She is our major. Director.) On the occasion of graduation, it can be said that we graduates are "worse than death". I will not give specific examples. Let’s talk about why it’s similar to the subject’s situation. Because Teacher Yao's request was too perverted and torturing, a student in our group anonymously scolded our Teacher Yao. The specific content was a personal attack. Anyway, the words were very unpleasant. Our group is the general group for all senior graduates. Teachers and students in our majors are all in this group. Here’s the twist. The person who cursed is anonymous so we can’t find it out. What’s even more funny is that someone echoed it. As for this anonymous person, everyone said that xxx (the person who spoke to me) must be panicking right now. Because the students behind them all agreed to find out the person who scolded our teacher Yao, and some teachers came out to take advantage of Teacher Yao and said that it was not only you who worked hard, but the instructor was also very tired. kind words. But our teacher Yao never came out to express his position. In the end, this matter was settled. I personally feel that it is wrong for students to express their dissatisfaction with teachers and attack them personally, and they also scolded them in the group. Such people who do not respect teachers are themselves the same. . .

Going back to what the questioner said, what the student did was very wrong, but the counselor’s own language was also disrespectful to the students, and he even threatened the students. As a counselor, he You can handle it calmly, but if it makes such a big fuss, it won't end well for you.

In addition, counselors in universities arbitrarily award or cancel scholarships for students based on their own preferences, and evaluate merit and priority. This is not a day or two.

If you have different opinions, please leave a comment below~

In elementary school, junior high school and high school, I have always followed the rules and listened carefully. When I was a freshman, because the school required freshmen to do morning exercises every day, it rained once, so everyone insisted on going. Later, the counselor even took a picture of it. Because of our class’s persistence, the department set it up as a model for praise and counseling. Members also received awards for this. I think this is normal. Since it is required by the department to do morning exercises, and it is good for learning and physical health, you should stick to it. Besides, it wasn't raining heavily that day, just a drizzle. Until a classmate complained: The counselor is really nothing, for the sake of his own honor, let us train even if it rains! At that moment, my outlook on life was shocked! I was born in the 1980s, and those who go to college now are all born after 2000. Their thinking is probably more radical than that of my generation

Simple evaluation: This instructor is arrogant just because he has some power, and he deserves it Being criticized. There shouldn't be too many people like this in colleges and universities. They are just small administrators who teach students like they teach children. No one would like to hear it. The funniest thing is that they also went to Tencent headquarters to find out an anonymous person, a small counselor. Who are you to blame? You need some skills to scare students.

I was deeply moved when I saw this news. When I was in college, the attitude of some classmates towards the tutor’s back has now become public. Although I used QQ many years ago, I haven’t used QQ yet. To the point of publicly insulting the instructor in the QQ group, is there really a story between the teacher and the students, or is the quality of the students getting lower and lower?

To be fair and based on the actual situation I encountered in university, university is no longer a simple high school and junior high school, but a small society full of social elements. University teachers, especially guides, Tutors are not like high school teachers who only know how to teach and educate people. They even have many other ideas. For example, what I experienced in college is that tutors often require students to pay bribes to obtain scholarships and other rewards, or obtain them through various forms. Taking advantage of students, the relationship between college students and their instructors is no longer the same as in junior high and high schools where they only knew how to teach and educate. Of course, we cannot kill them with one shot. I believe there are still many good teachers in college life.

Since the news did not explain the cause of this campus conflict, we also have no way of knowing why the instructor’s normal questioning led to the students’ harsh words. However, I believe that the previous conflict between the teacher and the students I'm afraid there was some kind of conflict, and it finally broke out at this moment, but we don't know what the reason for the earliest conflict was, but in the public chat software, fighting against the teacher in this way, as a Students, the most basic respect for teachers has disappeared at this moment. At least on campus, it is too regrettable that such a situation has occurred. The most basic moral etiquette between teachers and students has reached its lowest point.

The latest news is that the teacher has contacted Tencent in an attempt to find out the information of the anonymous students who insulted the teacher. However, Tencent has not made any reply. Maybe they will only respond with this attitude. To deal with the whole incident, after all, it has nothing to do with Tencent. The biggest problem lies with the teachers and students of this university. If the gaps and conflicts between teachers and students are not resolved, it may happen no matter which network platform they switch to. Same conflict!

Objectively speaking, both of them have problems. First of all, it is definitely wrong for students to criticize teachers anonymously if they don’t go to training. Anyone with some principles and literacy will not do this. If you have any dissatisfaction, feel free to do so. It's so hard to tell, instead of acting like a villain and being secretive.

Secondly, the teacher’s subsequent handling of the matter was wrong. He knew without thinking about contacting Tencent that it was empty talk, and it was too arbitrary to deprive the students who reported the matter of the right to receive scholarships and merit evaluation. Being less like a teacher and more like an official will not only fail to solve the problem but will more easily arouse student dissatisfaction. I think this is a problem that exists in many schools now. Students are not like students, teachers are not like teachers, and the road to education is long and arduous.

Based on the above personal opinion, if you don’t like it, don’t criticize it (**)?

First let’s summarize the incident. Many people did not participate in the phalanx training, and the counselor also said that there were cases of being signed up. And mandatory training is unpopular.

In this case, some students anonymously posted comments to the counselor and used indecent words.

The counselor broke out and started fighting each other, scolding and threatening, trying to find the anonymous student. In the end, the counselor brought out the legal documents and the class cadres assisted, using their power to intimidate the anonymous classmates.

The above is how I see things developing. Three problems are exposed here.

First, the school’s organized activities failed to gain sufficient support and understanding from students, and there were designated or mandatory attendance situations, which led to student resistance. This shows that the school leaders are too bureaucratic and their approach is simple and crude. Students are not hired workers or slaves. The activities that students are required to participate in should be graded in advance to mobilize students' enthusiasm, and a reward mechanism should be established based on students' voluntariness and cannot be blindly forced.

Second, students may indeed be afraid of hardship and tiredness, unwilling to contribute to the collective, and have a weak sense of collective honor. However, this kind of problem can only be solved through ideological guidance. Through education, students can develop a sense of collective honor instead of forcing attendance. This approach will only be counterproductive.

Third, and most importantly, people’s teachers, those who teach and educate people, must be strict with themselves and set role models for students in their thinking. On the other hand, this instructor, after being provoked by a student, did not think carefully about the cause and effect, but immediately exploded, quarreled with the students, and then showed the dignity of a teacher and used his power to intimidate the students.

It makes people feel arrogant, incompetent, sad and ridiculous. How can a teacher be a role model for others and how can he guide students correctly ideologically?

The counselor can be dismissed