I can’t find a job, I’ve been at home for half a year, I’m restless, and I’m annoyed by my parents every day. What should I do? If you know, please add me at QQ496806474. Thank you.

Just like Ye Qitian's song "You Will Win If You Love to Work Hard", ups and downs in life are inevitable. Many people have this stage, afraid of trying and failing. Don't you know that failure paves the way for success? In fact, you don’t have to experience failure yourself in life. If you have nothing to do, just read a book. If you understand other people’s failures, you will pave the way for yourself. I wonder who is not at this stage like you? How did they get here? Haha, many people have fainted, you might as well try to faint yourself.

Looking for a job is the same as looking for a partner.

It is easier to introduce someone with whom you have connections, especially those with wider connections. You can talk about it when you go there, right? They will at least know how to do it. Ask you some questions and arrange a suitable salary and position for you, passively! There is little room for choice, and you will suffer a big loss if you get a bargain.

Second, let’s talk about it ourselves. The requirements are not high. You must be over 1.5 meters tall and have decent looks. Let’s talk about it. Let’s talk about it first and learn some love experience (what kind of person is really suitable for you, you have to talk about it. You will find out after talking). After a long time, if you feel it is suitable, continue. If you can’t get along anymore, change (job-hopping). There is a lot of room for choice. You can choose from all walks of life. Handsome, fair-skinned, tall. . This option has more room for choice, you are proactive, and you can also practice your eloquence. Compared with the first option, it is a "waste of energy", haha

Don't be afraid of the recruiters, haha, it's not, "That's what you imagined." You can't be too lazy in life. The more you try, the more opportunities you will have.

If you feel that the above is a bit difficult to operate, buy a few books online (about how to find a partner, talk about a partner, or how to apply for a job), study it, and see how others operate it. :), finding a job is the same as finding a partner. It is also a kind of ability and experience. What should I do if I don’t know? Study, people live to learn, learn how to find a job, and treat how to find a job as a job or study. If you don’t learn, you don’t know. I was shocked when I learned it. It turns out that finding a job this way is actually very simple. The theory is the foundation, and you have a theory in your heart. People are more afraid or fearful when they don’t have a theory. This can be regarded as a personal life theorem (or a psychological theorem, which belongs to sociology)!

When thinking about a problem, don’t always think about only one person (yourself). This is a child’s thinking. An adult’s normal thinking is the self, the people related to me (small society (parents and their related people) Relatives and friends, when doing anything, we generally have to consider these people, not one person)), or I and society, no matter how big it is, it is people (big self), society and nature. What values ??do we create for society? How can we become When people who are valuable to society enter the society, there is no specific teacher. Anyone can be their own teacher. These people can observe the world of others (this is a living example in the social class). Some people do very well. Well, some people don't do well. After comparing, you will know what you should do. Of course, you can continue to read by yourself. As long as you don't understand, think for yourself first, then ask others for advice, and then learn and use the Internet. To deepen your understanding, at least you have to change your mind. Money is not everything. What is the real pursuit of life? It is estimated that your surrounding environment will affect you. You must also look at this problem correctly. Why is this happening? It is reasonable if it exists. You must learn to be more attentive to yourself. If your heart is big, things will be small. If your heart is small, things will be big.

In daily life, you need to strengthen your study. You should know how to master these basic principles. When you go to society, you also need to learn a lot of "theorems and formulas" in order to better face the problems in life and society, and constantly Reading and learning are better than playing games to gain experience. If you read 20 or 10 books, whether it’s about job hunting or life, and you learn some basic principles of life, you won’t be so confused and you will become more confident. , Lack of self-confidence is also a sign of not having social knowledge to try. It’s not that you are incompetent, there are some things that you really don’t know and know very little, just because you are “lazy”. For example, let’s take the wedding ceremony and ask you to help your friends. Plan it, can you do it yourself? , It is undeniable that I really don’t understand some things. When I was in school, the teacher forced me to learn and do experiments. Now I have to rely on myself to force myself to find a job, experiment, summarize, and think, haha.

Some things still need to be tried by yourself. For example, if you say, what should I do if I can’t do it well at work? Study, read books about related industries, and think about solutions. Some things have been summarized by predecessors. Reading books, learning and applying them, there is basically no need to innovate any theoretical knowledge on your own, unless you want to start a business or achieve a very high position. Only then will we consider the issue of creating theories. Right now we are studying work, working and studying, and trying to summarize and try. The bottom line is personal safety, and everything else does not matter.

Let’s talk about it. Anyway, I’m fine at home. It doesn’t matter if I fail. Looking back in 10 years, failure is still a fortune. I didn’t understand anything at the beginning, but I bravely took the step forward. , you will be proud of your actions, look at problems correctly, look at things rather than people, look at things objectively, look at people, and treat your parents, you can discuss it, you can say, I am now the boss, you are no longer here, I still have to rely on myself, haha. It’s actually quite easy to find a job when I encounter a little trouble (can’t find a job). Haha, it’s not difficult for me to meet. I’m not a child now. I’m older and I have to find a way to solve it myself. , you can make suggestions and brainstorm ideas. You are all veterans (parents should have rich social experience). You should adapt measures to local conditions and prescribe the right medicine. I will consider it carefully if you have suggestions. I admit that my current ability is insufficient, but you cannot scold me and be harsh. You can’t say that I don’t speak out. If you say that I have no future, I also say that you don’t have the ability to arrange a good job for me, haha.

Remember the following points,

One is to learn and live until you are old. When you encounter confusion or difficulties, the first thing that comes to mind is learning, and it must be learning. , improve your own ability, there are still many "difficulties" on the road of life, it is not difficult for those who know it, but it is not difficult for those who are difficult:), life is about learning style, dare to take the first step, and it will be easy for those who do it, If you don't do it, it will be difficult for you to do it easily. You will learn as long as you live.

2. Nothing is difficult in the world only for those who are willing, who love to observe and think. Those who have knowledge of worldly affairs and master the basic rules will make everything easier in the future. They are not afraid of being stupid, but are afraid of encountering difficulties. What question is not asked (why) and then repeated.

Read some biographies (scientists, philosophers, mathematicians, politicians, etc.), combine them with your own situation, and think about the outline of your life (if you have a foundation, your life will be perfect) No confusion, fear, or nervousness), life is actually not that complicated

4 Believe in yourself, everyone’s potential (locked gold mine) is infinite, and the inner ability is very powerful, so it must be unconditional There is no reason not to be confident, so look for the key to unlock your potential