Really kind people have turned themselves into silence.

As the saying goes, "shallow water is noisy, deep water is silent."

In life, there will always be some people who bring us deep feelings in a quiet way.

I brushed a video recently.

A teenage girl doesn't know what excitement is, so she walks alone on the expressway.

The car passed by her at high speed, which made people worry about her safety.

Just then, a Maibakh driver saw this scene and immediately dialed 1 10.

In order to prevent other cars from hitting her, the driver in Maibakh has been driving slowly behind the little girl carefully, guarding her all the way.

It was not until the police arrived that the driver of Maibakh drove away at normal speed.

Perhaps, the little girl didn't know that there was a driver who took care of her all the way.

Tao Te Ching said, "Good deeds are without trace."

True kindness, not showing off, not asking about the vital interests of others, not saying that others are difficult, not poking people short, is a lifelong practice.

Therefore, true kindness is the fulfillment of silence.

1. High-profile kindness is the most likely to burn others.

There is a classic line in Rebellious Lu:

There is no difference between imposed goodwill and malice.

Not long ago, my friend Xiao Li couldn't pick up the children on time for some reasons, so she asked her 8-year-old daughter to pick them up and had lunch at her house.

In the evening, the eldest sister-in-law brought her daughter over and told Xiao Li that her daughter had eaten three steamed buns stuffed with green onions at noon.

While listening to her sister-in-law, Xiao Li noticed a strange expression on her daughter's face.

After the sister-in-law left, the daughter told her mother what had happened.

She said that as soon as my aunt went out, she told her acquaintances on the road that I had eaten three big steamed buns and asked me if it was delicious. It's really annoying. I don't want to go to her house anymore.

Although Xiao Li's sister-in-law takes care of the children for dinner, in order to show her kindness, she publicizes it without considering the children's feelings.

This kind of help is to flaunt one's nobleness under the banner of kindness and stepping on the dignity of others.

At a public welfare project exhibition, there was a photo of "hand in hand", which caused controversy.

In the photo, two little girls stand hand in hand in front of a blackboard that says "Help students hand in hand".

As a donor, the little girl looked forward proudly, while the girl who accepted the donation bowed her head in shame, like a sinner who made a mistake.

Although the two were holding hands, the little girl on the left barely stretched out a finger, and her inner reluctance was clear at a glance.

In this world, everyone has dignity and doesn't want to be given alms or looked down upon.

Kindness never only meets some material needs of others, but also needs to take care of others' feelings.

As the famous scholar Hayek said: "The road to hell is paved with good intentions and is what we think is right."

In life, really kind people are often quiet and quiet, and they will give others the most intimate, comfortable and comfortable care and warmth.

2. The best kindness is to fear people's privacy and dignity.

In A Dream of Red Mansions, there is such a story.

When Granny Liu entered the Grand View Garden for the second time, Pinger came to see her off and brought her some old clothes.

Pinger said, Although the clothes I gave you are old, they are not worn very much. If you want to put aside your doubts, I dare not say so.

Granny Liu smiled quickly and said, "Girl, I don't care if this thing is good or not. I have money and no place to buy it. It's just that I'm ashamed It is not good to accept it. If I don't accept it, I will fail the girl's heart. "

Pinger said with a smile, "Don't say it outside. We are all ourselves. That's what I do.

Don't worry, I still want something from you. By next year, you will only bring some dried vegetables, such as qianzi, cowpea, lentils, eggplant and gourd strips. We like to eat them here. "

Granny Liu is also happy to hear that.

When Pinger dressed Granny Liu, she said that she was afraid Granny Liu wouldn't like it, just to take the initiative to eliminate her sense of identity and give Granny Liu a step down.

Secondly, Jia Fu is not short of fresh fruits and vegetables at all, but Pinger wants to "beg" agricultural products from Grandma Liu because she doesn't want to make her feel embarrassed to take other people's things for nothing.

In fact, true kindness often does not make people feel uneasy, nor does it make people feel guilty.

In the movie untouchable, the rich man is paralyzed in bed and needs to hire a nurse.

The generous treatment attracted many applicants, but none of them satisfied him. He didn't shine until Hades appeared.

But in the eyes of others, he has just been released from prison and his family is not good;

He doesn't want to work hard, just want to find a letter of dismissal to apply for benefits;

But the rich don't think so.

He said that all the applicants except Desis only treated him as a patient and were full of sympathy and care for him.

Dexter is different. He has no pity in his eyes, doesn't care about the physical disability of the rich, and treats him as an ordinary person.

What we have to do is to turn warmth into silence, care into spring rain, and moisten things silently.

No matter how warm your heart is, you should also take care of each other's dignity and dignity.

3. True kindness is calm and considerate.

I watched a short film before.

A little boy, in order not to let his classmates find out that his family is poor, takes an empty lunch box to school every day and eats regularly like everyone else.

Different from other students, he pretends to eat fast every time, and then goes to the bathroom to drink cold water to satisfy his hunger.

Once, he returned to his classroom seat after drinking water from the bathroom, but he was surprised to find that his empty lunch box was full of food.

At the moment, some students threw a kind smile at him, while others continued to eat with relish as if nothing had happened.

It turned out that the kind classmates discovered the secret of the little boy's empty lunch box.

When the boy went to the bathroom, they agreed to take some from their own toilets and put them in the boy's empty lunch box.

Some people contributed sandwiches, some people contributed fruits, some people contributed carrots ... the empty lunch box was full.

When the boy came back, they returned to their seats with special understanding. No one poked the truth in order not to embarrass the little boy.

Silent action is the warmest care, just like a sentence: helping others is always easier than you think.

The children used their most naive kindness to safeguard the little boy's fragile self-esteem, which not only helped him solve his difficulties, but also left him dignity.

We in China like to pay attention to decency best. No matter you are rich or ordinary, you are trying to maintain your dignity.

He who sees through doesn't tell the truth and knows the way of the world, so he can dissolve the embarrassment invisibly without showing off.

True kindness is to help others while leaving others with dignity and self-esteem, rather than flaunting yourself under the banner of kindness.

Mencius said: Everyone has compassion.

True kindness means putting yourself at the same height as the recipient from the heart, rather than standing at a higher position and giving "alms and relief" to the recipient.

4.

In The Story of Yan Xi Palace, Queen Fu Cha once said, "It is not really good to do good and want others to see it. It is natural to try to help others. It's not really good to do good things and yell everywhere. "

Not flaunting yourself, helping others and not boasting are the real great goodness.

True kindness, often quietly, does not need to be publicized, but it brings its own light.

Not a single act of kindness!

Good comes from the heart, and good comes from action.

A truly kind person will turn himself into a silent mode and silently pass on his love and warmth to the people around him.