How to demonstrate that telling the truth is not a loss?

We know that people live in this society and bear many obligations, and sometimes there are contradictions between them. When one obligation overrides another, it is necessary to alleviate the other. Therefore, the essence of white lies is a more urgent and important obligation to be implemented at the expense of reducing the obligation of good faith.

Just now, when another debater was demonstrating, he also gave some examples to illustrate some functions and benefits of white lies. We also affirmed these effects and benefits, and also affirmed the examples of white lies you just listed. However, you must not ignore that the utility and benefits gained through white lies will eventually come at the expense of honesty.

I believe everyone has heard of opportunity cost! In other words, when you do one thing, you lose the opportunity to do other things at the same time. If you want to achieve the effect of white lies, you must sacrifice honesty, which is the opportunity cost of white lies!

In addition, modern psychological research points out that white lies can be divided into two categories: one is the white lies of the object, and the other is the white lies of the subject.

The so-called white lie of the object is a white lie whose starting point is completely for the benefit of the other party. It states the object of white lies more, such as praising a mentally retarded child and saying that he is smart and giving him confidence. This kind of object lies in goodwill and undermines honesty, which is a chronic poisoning.

The so-called white lie of the subject is a white lie whose starting point contains the elements of safeguarding or seeking self-interest. It states more about the subject who lies in good faith. For example, a child does not listen carefully in class. When he got home, his mother asked him if he had listened carefully. He didn't want his mother to blame him or feel sad, so he lied and said that he had listened carefully. This subject's well-intentioned lie obviously undermines honesty and is an acute poisoning.

Another debater's misunderstanding that white lies do not hinder honesty is nothing more than the hidden influence of white lies on the integrity of the object. You don't see the essence through the phenomenon, and you don't realize that this is a chronic poisoning.

Why is the object of white lies chronic poisoning? Psychological research explains that because the white lies of the object destroy the integrity, they will not be directly perceived by people, but will gradually corrode people's integrity system over time. The concept of dishonesty is hidden in their subconscious, and there is "for others!" This sentence will become his inner excuse for undermining integrity in the future.

For the above reasons, we believe that white lies hinder honesty! Share with your friends: Renren Sina Weibo Xin Kai MSNQQ space.

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Honesty is the duty of being a man! There are many benefits. It seems too abstract. Respondent: iwaslip | level 4 | 2007-10-15 22:15 | reporting.

Refer to the following information, I hope it will be useful to you.

Whitley: "Honesty is the best policy". But not all the people who do this are honest people.

Yang: Anyone who is considered honest will feel guilty.

Shakespeare: Honesty will bring you more benefits than corruption.

Britain: honesty does not need to be insincere about pen and ink, and beauty does not need to be insincere about makeup.

Plautus: It is an honor for honest people to remember their obligations.

Arabia: An honest man's eyes are scales.

Lou Kanus: The honor of honesty belongs to truly outstanding people.

Lenin: A slave may be an honest man, a model at home, an excellent citizen, but he must be hypocritical.

Bernard Shaw: I'm afraid we must make the world honest before we can tell our children with a clear conscience that honesty is the best policy.

Song Zhuxi: People behave honestly.

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The Story of the Cherry Tree in Washington, D.C. Washington cut down his father's favorite cherry tree. Because he dared to admit it, his father did not criticize him, but also praised his noble sentiments.

Now, when the Meng family still lives next to the market in Miaohuying village, someone is killing pigs in the east. Mencius asked his mother puzzled, "Why do neighbors kill pigs?" Meng Mu was very busy at that time, so he casually replied, "Here you are!" Mencius happily waited to eat meat. In order not to break his promise to his son, Meng Mu reluctantly took out part of his living expenses and bought a piece of meat to let his son have a good time. Respondent: intermilanwang | Level | 2007-10-15 23:17 | Report.

Honesty and trustworthiness are very valuable virtues of the Chinese nation. Honesty means sincerity, seeking truth from facts, and courage to take responsibility; Keeping your word is a promise to others, always keep it in mind and try your best to do it.

Our great motherland is an ancient civilization with a history of five thousand years. Honesty and trustworthiness have always been a good quality that everyone in China is proud of. "Honesty is the foundation of people, faith is the sky", and the excellent culture of the Chinese nation exerts a subtle influence on our young friends from generation to generation. Students learn honesty, emphasize honesty, inherit honesty and carry forward honesty. The wind of honesty has been quietly rooted in the hearts of our children and has become our goal and upward pursuit! Respondents: 4 157689 15 | Level II | 2007-10-1721:35 | Reporting.

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