When did you realize that you were no longer young?

At about the age of 24, I am no longer young, but this feeling is particularly obvious this year!

24 years old is really an obvious dividing line in my life! Before I was 24, I only liked to play. I feel happy, happy, making friends and traveling around China and the world are the things I must do in my life! At that time, as long as I had time, I would travel and call my friends to do anything that made me look cool, and I especially liked to share it with my friends and then enjoy the praise and envy of my friends ... At that time, I never thought about saving money, getting married and buying a house in which city. Life has no plan! 24 years old is the animal year. Starting a business this year naturally failed and was heavily in debt. Naked reality made me immediately see my living environment and worried about the weak and helpless future! My parents were fooled when they were over 500. They left the city where they struggled for more than 20 years, gave up the small business of 10 years, and returned to a poor and closed mountain village in their hometown. Their hometown with green mountains and green waters suddenly became a wasteland, devouring their life savings. They worked hard for decades and returned overnight before liberation. After experiencing the 24-year-old life trough, I began to catch up. I became utilitarian and pragmatic, and I almost cut off all ineffective social activities. During the four years from the age of 24 to 28, driven by utilitarianism, I gave up all my hobbies and concentrated on making money. Due to family conditions, I can only start my career first and then get married. If I lose my job, I have no chance to get married! Many children who come out of the countryside like me have to face the utilitarian social reality. The strong can save themselves, and the weak may only sigh helplessly and then sink into the silence of the world. Boys from rural areas, whose parents are unemployed farmers, have a precarious life and basically have no savings all their lives. You can only eat children unilaterally in the future. In today's society, the cost of getting married is huge. It is really difficult for boys from rural areas to take care of themselves and subsidize their parents! When I was a child, my playmates were almost thirty, but married people rarely knew that money was hard to earn. When they started to support themselves, they would begin to understand their parents, reach for clothes, make ends meet, and get living expenses on time every month. What I was willing to buy when I was a student is not so willing now. 4. Know how to give up, some things are not suitable for persistence. Some people, some things, only efforts are not enough. 5. Understand that friends around you come and go, and friends when you were young gradually fade away. Even on a table, because there is no intersection between life and work, I find there is really nothing to say. 6. Don't be too emotional in the workplace. People spend money on your time. You are just a tool, and people need useful tools. 7. Recognize your cowardice. There are some successful people in the eyes of the secular, but most of them are ordinary people, living an ordinary life and accepting their own ordinary. 8. You are not the center of the world. Don't take it for granted that others understand you. You are just one of the small particles. Put yourself in others' shoes. Nobody should treat you unconditionally.

Hope to adopt and praise, thank you, I wish you a good mood every day!