Old people ask for marriage and make friends.

Marriage is risky, so be careful when making friends. This sentence applies to men and women of any age, including the elderly who are particularly eager for spiritual companionship. The number of elderly people in China is increasing, and the group is expanding. Among them, there are countless people who are willing to remarry without a spouse, but the channels for the elderly to make friends are relatively limited. Being cheated in love? Events happen frequently. On the one hand, it is the psychological needs of the elderly who are eager for care, on the other hand, it is a full-fledged scam of marriage and dating. Let's take a look at the scam of swindlers using marriage and dating to defraud the elderly, as well as the precautions and channels for marriage and dating of the elderly.

The changes of the times are not only reflected in science and technology, economy and politics. It is also reflected in people's thoughts and ideas about love and marriage. In the past, most people opposed pornography and marriage for the elderly, but now many people have changed. Not only have ideas changed, but the channels for middle-aged and elderly people to find marriage and make friends are also very different from before, such as online websites such as Golden Marriage Network, Jiayuan and zhenai. Exploration, companionship and other dating platforms; QQ, WeChat friends group; Focus on middle-aged and elderly people's love and marriage, matchmaking agencies, blind date bars and so on. Although these channels of dating provide many middle-aged and elderly people with choices, they also make some people have wrong ideas. People always hope that they can get more care when they are old, but sometimes their children are busy with family and work, and their relatives are not in touch. When the elderly are emotionally lacking, they will want to find a partner for themselves, but the routine is full? Yellow light love? Under the scam, many old people are faced with the situation of losing both feelings and money.

Liars cheat the elderly through marriage and dating. Here are three typical routines. I hope everyone will be vigilant and safeguard their own interests.

First, the old liar lurking in the dating network. Due to the strong demand of middle-aged and elderly people for companionship and spiritual resonance, many dating websites specifically for the elderly have appeared on the Internet. Under the filter of the network, lonely old people are easily attracted by the deceiver's deliberately disguised speech and temperament. A scam begins with a false warmth, often accompanied by money and money exchanges, and finally ends with the disappearance of the other party, money being cheated and feelings being cheated.

Second, lovers who are close to marriage but disappear. It may be that after they introduced each other through a matchmaking agency, friends or some kind of entertainment, they chatted happily at the first meeting. As time went on, they thought it was the deepening of their feelings. During the warming period, one party intentionally or unintentionally introduced investment, transactions and other information to the other party to trick the elderly into taking out their pensions. I didn't expect that the transfer before marriage was the last contact. This is probably a fraud gang that uses marriage to defraud investment.

Third, spend all the money after marriage and file for divorce. Online friends met happily offline and got married soon. After marriage, they gave all their money to themselves on the grounds that the other party didn't know how to be frugal, and coaxed the other party to fill in their names in the house. Soon, they spent all the money in the passbook for various reasons and then filed for divorce.

The old man looking for a partner hoped to have a good old age, but? Yellow light love? Liars are actually difficult to distinguish in life. The love and marriage of the elderly are sometimes more impulsive than those of the young. So what should the elderly pay special attention to when seeking marriage and making friends?

First of all, no matter how eager you are to fall in love and remarry, you should keep a clear head. When you meet the right person and want to talk about a beautiful love, if one party asks you for money for marriage or investment many times, then you should be cautious and have some weight and consideration in your heart. The channels of dating for the elderly are mainly divided into online and offline. Whether it is online dating network, circle of friends or offline introduction, they meet by chance and take the initiative to give it to strangers? Care? Olive branch, be alert.

Middle-aged people aged 40 and 60 have needs in marriage and making friends. In addition to marriage fraud, they can also consider the following aspects. For example, confirm whether you and the other party have the right motivation to remarry, whether the other party speculates with you in all aspects, and the other party's economic conditions. Many middle-aged and elderly people who have been busy for half their lives no longer pursue the vigorous love of young people, but also want to have their own suitable partners. Besides the thoughts of both sides, economic conditions are also closely related to maintaining a harmonious family life. If you remarry in your 40 s and 50 s, you still have to worry about economic conditions. Isn't it better to live alone?

Many elderly people over 60 want to get married and make friends, but they don't want to live in an empty house and eat alone, nor do their children and grandchildren try their best, but they don't want to be alone. People of this age pay more attention to personality and money when they remarry. In the process of communication, we should see each other's personality clearly. If they only want money, houses and other things outside their bodies, they should think it over before making a decision to avoid the estrangement between husband and wife and the dissatisfaction of their children.

Secondly, now more and more people support the elderly to find marriage and make friends, but as children, they are always worried that their families will be hurt. If you meet someone who wants to accompany you, I suggest you take the initiative to tell your family about yourself and talk to them about your future plans. Finally, in addition to improving the ability of the elderly to know and prevent fraud, they should also take the initiative to ask for help in time after the incident to safeguard their own interests.