How can middle-aged and elderly people who are almost 6 find value without a job? (Diary 46)

Recently, I suddenly thought of a question-

Middle-aged and elderly people, who are in their fifties and sixties, have no job. How can they find a sense of existence, contribute value and live happily in society?

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My mother-in-law helps to cook and do housework in Beijing, but the rest of the time, my wife is really bored.

nothing to do.

I have no education, my Mandarin is not quite 6, and my physical strength is acceptable.

if I apply for manual labor, such as cleaning, I won't have time to take care of my husband and me.

however, staying at home all the time is not a problem.

Washing clothes+cooking+cleaning takes five or six hours, and the rest of the time, my mother-in-law is alone at home, which is very boring.

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This boredom comes from:

As social animals, we need friends!

but sadly, when you grow up, it's harder to make friends every year.

When you get old, your former friends may be playmates in your teens. Then in your fifties and sixties, everyone has his own family and his own busy things. Who wants to listen to you about your parents' shortcomings?

If you want to talk too much, you have to pay for a psychiatrist.

My mother-in-law comes from the countryside. She plows in spring and harvests in autumn. She does some farm work and washes clothes in the original way for an hour or two. Maybe she still feels busy and has a good life.

when we get to the city, the washing machine washes all the clothes, so she can hang them.

Only cooking and sweeping the floor are left.

Cooking, that is, cooking for my husband and me, we can't eat too much ... Cooking doesn't have to be a feast, but it's good to mix meat and vegetables casually.

sweeping the floor and mopping the floor, my new residence is only forty or fifty meters, and it takes five minutes and ten minutes to get it done.

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Really, I'm in my fifties and sixties, and my life is really quiet.

just hanging around children.

my husband casually said, I bought a chicken. Do you want to stew it with mushrooms? Her old man will rub his hands and go to the supermarket to buy mushrooms the next minute-come and live! Finally, I'm a little busy ~~

Really, I'm bored because I don't have any goals. If a child wants something, she will be happy to do it.

I don't quite understand what people in their fifties and sixties are thinking, but ... they are boring and there is nothing we can do.

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Hong Kong Zhen, we young people don't always have this or that demand, asking parents to buy mushrooms, meat, chickens and snacks ...

Maybe it will be better when our children are born, right?

after all, children will consume a lot of energy of the elderly.

With this in mind, it is no wonder that middle-aged and elderly people like to give birth now, because life in their later years is so boring.

Either have a dog or a pet, because you can go to social by having a dog. Dogs are also cute and troublesome, which can make your life a little more dynamic.

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Many people would suggest, what's boring? Go to Weibo, Aauto Quicker, Tik Tok and bilibili.

There are so many TV plays, so good-looking, and mobile phones are so fun, how can you feel bored?

Well, there are two reasons.

1 Old people don't like playing with mobile phones

2 Old people are tired of typing and reading?

My mother-in-law's mobile phone is low-profile, so it's hard to open WeChat, let alone install a short video app.

Besides, she may not be able to read. Primary school culture?

I said, you can read novels. She said, too much reading hurts your eyes.

Hey, Mary Su's novels with earthy flavor and so on will say byebye with her.

the only entertainment that we young people like, they can pick, is probably TV series?

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Hong Kong Zhen, from this point of view, I think it is quite necessary for a social person to have a job and money, and to make friends or greet colleagues.

it's not that my job needs me, but that I need my job. I want to make money and work.

And what kind of job can the elderly in their fifties and sixties, who have no education and no job, find to meet their needs?

1 sense of social existence 2 contribution to others? 3 Easy 4 Make friends

For example, the university for the aged.

When I was in college, according to the arrangement of the department, I went to speak English to the elderly and volunteered at the university for the elderly.

the people inside are not here to study, but to be social, bragging. I like to talk to each other for the first half of my life.

learn to knit.

abcde will always give up from abandon-because there is no motivation and goal to learn, as long as you come in and become social, you can get to know more people to push you, and the purpose of coming to the university for the aged will be achieved. Why should you learn English?

It can be seen that people have a strong demand for social and are willing to pay a lot of money.

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After thinking for a long time, the title is "Middle-aged and elderly people who are almost 6, how to find value without a job". I found that this problem has no solution.

Recruitment, now a person is in his fifties and sixties ... and he is sick all over, so he has to take leave at both ends for three days. What if 996 hangs on his post? Unstable.

If you want to be social, you have to accumulate some contacts in front of yourself, so that you won't be lonely when you get old.

but I want to say that there are many such "friends" who brag and reminisce about the first half of their lives, and they are actually quite lonely.

you say "my child is 5 thousand" and I say "that's not bad. My daughter is 53 ",and the conversation between" I "and" I "is actually not communication, which is quite boring.

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It's hard to imagine what we should do when we get old after the 199s.

But judging from the living conditions of my parents-in-law, mom and dad, if life is not boring

, at least I will entertain myself.

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A few more words, why do I think it is necessary to have a baby now?

1 providing for the aged 2 spiritual destination

If you are old, I want to ask a college student to patiently explain how to use xxx high-tech mobile phone, explain the latest app or ai game play, and let him take you to play.

The cheapest way is to have a baby, and then let the children and grandchildren talk to you. If you make a little progress, the children will applaud you and say that mom and dad/grandparents are great!

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You have to spend money to get the same level of patience, service and spiritual comfort.

Maybe no college students are willing to bird you.

a more common unlucky situation may be that you pay a lot of money and get young people's punches and kicks.

I'm afraid.

(Gentlemen's Place, Monday, July 27th, 22)