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1, I need to remind myself repeatedly of the diversity of the world and people, and try to accept this.

2. Where does sadness come from? A man is in a cage and hasn't found his key yet.

3. How should a person live? How to love? This is a problem that we will encounter when we are late, because sooner or later we will hit a wall in life and love.

4. What is the relationship between you and your desire? Probably others will know at a glance. Some people have good relationships, satisfy moderate desires, and know how to stay hungry; Some people are either too eager or too hungry, and the whole person seems to be the result of uncontrolled desire.

Some people give by taking, while others get by giving. These are all misplaced. The most harmonious and beautiful state is of course: the same. Giving and taking are real and natural. This is very difficult, it depends on both sides.

6. Only when people love themselves first can they forgive others.

7. Courage is one of my favorite keywords. What it implies is the exploration of the unknown, the breakthrough of the border, the sense of power trying to turn the desert into an oasis, and the repair and reconstruction of collapsed things. It got up to face the darkness and impossibility, knowing that there are tigers in the mountains and leaning towards the mountains. It may lead to absurdity, but it is more touching because of its transcendence.

8. Don't be more painful. Any pain is real and significant to the sufferer. More disrespectful.

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9. Save words, save weight, save appearance, withdraw, retreat, sink, shut up, watch, and bear fruit. This is probably my main state for 30 years. I lost some weight, put away most of my "fancy clothes" and returned to the most common and labor-saving mode. What do I really want to do inside? Maybe I want to get rid of the stagnation of long-term hard work and improve my life speed.

10, I love you is equal to: I know you, accept you, see you, see the ravine in your heart, know where you are, I can run over and hold your hand, I can stand and look at you, I can provide food, trees, sunny weather and mirror photos during your journey; I love you doesn't mean that I treat you in my way, even if it's good for you.

1 1. Enthusiasm needs to be protected. Don't call if it's okay.

12, confusion rises, confusion roars, confusion peels off. On the spiritual level, the answer to the puzzle is not to give a direct answer, but to enter another realm, in a clearer and more peaceful kingdom. So chaos is not shattered, but stripped. It falls gently into the soil like a ripe fruit.

13, everyone who is not easily defeated has his own anti-depression method. For me, it used to be reading, but the result of reading is mixed. I found a better way this year: long-distance running and dancing.

14, it is shameful to talk about anything without restraint. The best place to keep your true love is your heart.

15, yes, artists, poets or novelists will meet monks, practitioners or enlightened people, as Woolf's words prove: "A person does not always find a chance to rest, only as a human self, as the core of a wedge, can he get a rest. Abandon the personality of appearance, and you will abandon those troubles, haste and commotion; When everything was concentrated in this realm of peace, tranquility and eternity, some cheers for victory over life rose to her lips. " The "wedge core" that can rest is the "stop" in meditation.

16, one of the documentaries that touched me this year was about American photographer vivian maier. Her lifelong occupation is nanny. She took 65438+ 10,000 photos unknown to anyone, and she didn't want to show them to others until she died. She quietly slapped those who had racked their brains to get attention. She seems to be saying that life is your own first, not a tool. Compared with the joy of pressing the shutter a hundred thousand times, the need to be seen is so boring.

17. Looking out with want is like walking blindfolded.

18, understand first, then fall in love. Because love is not giving, nor taking, but connecting.

19, don't escape from the life of action to the life of silence, and don't escape from the life of silence to the life of action. It should be used interactively and in parallel. -Quoted from Hesse.

20. Stay away from those who are full of prejudice and opinionated.

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2 1, whispering people are saying: I don't care about ignoring me; The loudspeaker is saying: it is important to pay attention to me; People who don't talk are saying: I am me.

22. One day I sat quietly on the sofa and suddenly felt free. My body and mind are not bound. I can go anywhere if I want.

23. Without self-maturity, softness and innocence are easily hurt and polluted; Without self-maturity, strength and ferocity are easy to hurt people.

24. One of the signs of self-maturity is a good sense of boundaries and appropriate boundaries.

25. Look at people, things and yourself from a flowing perspective, not from a cutting perspective.

26. It is the easiest to judge and the most difficult to understand. The former is a barrier to strengthen self-barriers, while the latter is to break and surpass. The former will make you more closed, while the latter is open and the greatest kindness to others.

27. Keep a good memory, for example, it is best to remember what you loved and pursued as a child; Learn to forget, for example, try to forget the dust that falls on you.