How to show weakness

Contents

Excerpt 1. Learn to show weakness as a human being 1

Excerpt 2. Learn to "show weakness" 3

Excerpt 3. Show weakness is A kind of wisdom 6

Excerpt 4. Supervisor practice: learn to show weakness 7

Excerpt 5. Should you show weakness in life? 9

Excerpt 6. Dare to show weakness, It means having the courage to take responsibility and being honest 13

Excerpt 1: As a human being, you must learn to show weakness

Yesterday, I saw an exclusive interview with an ancient literature tutor on a TV station. This tutor had a famous saying: I was inspired, she said, people should not show strength, but should show weakness. This is the highest state of life. We need to be humble and moderate towards others, and we should not be aggressive towards others, but we need to be tolerant and generous and kind. We should learn these principles of being a human being from ancient culture.

But often in reality, people are unwilling to show weakness, everyone wants to be strong, and no one wants to be "looked down upon" by others, so they argue, have meaningless quarrels and fights, and create Adverse effects and serious consequences, and then regret. This happens all the time because people don't understand the benefits of showing weakness.

Showing weakness does not mean that your personality is weak. Showing weakness on the surface includes a person's character, morality, mind and cultivation. Showing strength or weakness can measure a person's cultural quality and way of dealing with others, whether he is rational or confused, sober or selfish, and his ability to solve problems.

Showing weakness does not mean that you are really weak, crying and having no idea, but that you let others know when you encounter disputes and misunderstandings. Even if you were misunderstood at the time, you don’t have to fight to get to the bottom of it. In fact, the truth It's the fact that it will always be clear, but it just takes time.

In reality, there are many examples of irremediable disasters caused by competing for face and so-called breath. These consequences have caused harm to the parties involved, and some of the harm is irreversible and can never be repaired. Those Because of the tragedy caused by an angry mistake, those couples quarreled and one party left home forever, those friends lost their friendship because of an angry battle over winning or losing. Because of the show of strength, we lost family ties, lost friends, lost love, and some lost their jobs. I wonder, is face necessarily so important?

There is a saying: "The world is wider when you take a step back."

There is no love anymore. We can leave with dignity. There is no need to argue about grievances. Love is not there, but friendship is still there. Compared with other people in society, the people who were once under the same roof should know best. , the most cherishable friendship, no one can replace it. After there is no love, voluntarily agreeing to leave is a sign of weakness, but it is also a kind of nobility. The apparent weakness reflects the strength in the heart. Especially women, only with a strong heart can they have a charming personality. Why should we lose our dignity to defend those who have betrayed our hearts? Noisy and crying are all signs of weakness. Think rationally and come up with solutions. It may look like you are weak, but in fact you are strong. The popular TV series "Desert Mother" currently being aired by China Central Station is an example of a country that looks weak but is actually strong. Her husband in an arranged marriage didn't love her and they couldn't live together. Her husband abandoned them and didn't come back for 13 years. She came to her door, took the initiative to divorce her, dissolved the arranged marriage, and remained strong as a mother and a human being. She is of noble character and upright, caring and caring for her children and colleagues. In times of crisis, she always magnanimously provides support to her ex-husband and family. She takes the overall situation into consideration, does not remember personal emotions and grudges, and educates her children to respect her ex-husband and that person. members of the family. A seemingly weak woman has infinite personality charm. She shows the most beautiful side of human nature, letting people see a rural woman, a woman who was abandoned by her husband, a woman with no status and three How does a mother of two children treat life and the world with a life attitude that is weak on the outside but strong on the inside? She is actually the last strong one, and everyone is infected by her virtue. Although her health is not good, her hair is gray, and she is suffering from diseases, everyone knows that she is by no means weak!

From the role of mother created by this TV series, I deeply understand what is strong, what is weak, what is broad-minded, and what is generous and kind.

The beauty in human nature is such a perfect brilliance. When a person's heart is so generous, how good can she be? Is she still weak?

Of course, the above is just a general discussion of showing weakness and showing strength in emotional marriage and family. In fact, when a person lives in this world, he will inevitably encounter various problems, such as difficulties at work, complaints from superiors, etc. Misunderstandings, competition between colleagues, misunderstandings between classmates and friends, and even occasionally when you go shopping on the street or in a store, you will encounter various problems. It has become a worry and a big problem. In fact, it is because my mental health and cultural accomplishment are not enough. If you encounter any problems, you can "step back" and think about it. Then the world will naturally be wider. Maybe you "show weakness" and say sorry. , or shake your head at misunderstanding and contempt, smile, and maintain your usual good attitude, then the sky will always be blue in your heart.

Excerpt 2. Learn to "show weakness"

In recent years, our society has developed so fast and the changes have been so great that many of us cannot help but I believe that I am omnipotent and that anything can be achieved through hard work. Our era is full of life-and-death competition, and even some TV entertainment programs are performing the "PK" drama in which the strong is king...

In such an impetuous and competitive world, In this era when everyone wants to be killed and bloody, we should have a little "show weakness" spirit. If there is no such kind of consciousness of retreating from difficulties, it will create too much tragedy. The spirit of weakness that I understand is that you should not be too strong in everything. People are not omnipotent, but should have a sense of awe. The so-called fear, without such self-examination, each of our industries will explode.

"Showing weakness" is a state

There is a story in Australia: It is said that horses with strong temperaments generally have a shorter life. Because they are difficult to tame, they are inevitably killed for meat; and because those horses that "show weakness" are easier to tame, they often win the championship and are carefully raised, which naturally prolongs their lives.

As the saying goes: A ruler is short, an inch is long. Although Shen Congwen wrote very good novels, his teaching skills were average. He is quite self-aware, and he said at the beginning of class: "My lectures are not exciting. You have to sleep. I have no objection, but please don't snore, so as not to disturb others." Such a "show of weakness" won the praise of the whole class. . As the most valuable sports star in China, Yao Ming has never heard of rumors about him being surly or arrogant. Even if the outside world has some misunderstandings about him, he is willing to "show weakness" and easily resolve them with his usual calmness, confidence and elegance. . It is precisely because he is low-key and kind to others that he is loved and respected by more people.

When a strong person acts like a weak person, people will naturally be modest and prudent, and others will be willing to accept it. In this way, the strong will become stronger; and the weak will be able to gain comfort and balance from it, so that they can consciously learn from the strong in a calm mind, and make progress and improvement.

A person who is truly willing to "show weakness" must be an open-minded and magnanimous person, a person full of humanity and wisdom, a person who has a shallow way of life but a deep understanding of the world.

"Showing weakness" is a kind of charm

Why should people be so strong? Strong people actually feel that they are not strong enough and have no confidence in themselves. In other words, strong people pursue perfection too much and always want to be in a perfect situation. Whether it is a lack of self-confidence or the pursuit of perfection, it is a sign of mental illness. If "being strong" is used as the driving force for pursuing progress to the point of harming one's own happiness, then what is the point of pursuing progress? The ultimate goal of human pursuit of progress must be to pursue happiness.

Everyone can show weakness to others, but showing weakness to others requires more wisdom and courage.

A science and technology film, it is said that lizards are the same kind as dinosaurs. The dinosaurs perished, but the lizards survived. One of the important reasons is that dinosaurs are too large to protect themselves. Lizards are small and flexible, and although they are delicate, they can hide themselves easily and survive.

In daily life, we often use "never show weakness" to describe a brave person, but people who do not show weakness at all times can gain temporary benefits, but sometimes it is difficult to become the ultimate winner. On the other hand, there are some people who tolerate everything, do not show off, do not take the lead, have a peaceful and tolerant mind, can put aside selfish distractions, are not disturbed by outsiders, and persevere in doing things. Even if they encounter a blow, they will not lose all hope. Because they have a peaceful mind, they can deal with it calmly. This kind of person doesn't run fast, but he can persevere to the finish line.

Thinking about being strong allows us to understand the charm of showing weakness. Showing weakness just right shows your calmness, elegance, and your unparalleled confidence. It is precisely because I believe in my own energy that I am convinced that my energy will not be diminished by showing weakness, so I dare to show weakness and show my shortcomings.

"Showing weakness" is also a kind of strength

Really strong people often like to show weakness. Being good at showing weakness means downplaying your own light and fully respecting others when you clearly have an advantage. This kind of weakness is not true weakness, but a kind of self-confidence and calmness in taking the initiative to grasp life.

Showing weakness can make us friends. When people get along with each other, pleasure is the first priority. You don’t have to give material help to others, and you don’t have to assume any responsibility for the development of other people’s careers, but you can’t help but make others happy. .

Showing weakness also helps our cause. If a person wants to succeed in his career, he must first rely on his own help, and secondly, he must rely on the help of others. The so-called relying on ourselves to help means that we must have the talent, knowledge, courage and perseverance to achieve a successful career; the so-called relying on others to help means that we must have good interpersonal relationships and minimize the "friction coefficient" in the process of progress. If we consciously show weakness in life, others will not only not think that your success will hinder their own happiness, but will instead regard it as a part of improving their own happiness in life. When you "attack" from the front, you have less worries about a fire in the backyard.

Everyone has this experience. When boxing, first retract your fist and then extend it, so that the fist has strength. The greater the retraction, the stronger the punch. A person's show of weakness is actually the process of retracting his fist. Its purpose is to stretch out the palm of his life with full force at the critical moment.

"Showing weakness" is also a way to win

The ancients said: The way to do things lies in refinement rather than breadth. No one is perfect, if you want to spread the word, you will eventually spread the word.

Driven by self-esteem, people are always secretive about their shortcomings and shortcomings, not to be outdone. However, if weakness is used wisely, it can be a powerful ally in winning success. Showing weakness is an important means to resolve jealousy, maintain unity, live in harmony, and achieve common progress. In campaign debates, showing weakness has become a secret weapon to establish a candid image, win the support of voters, and defeat campaign opponents. Showing weakness is increasingly favored by merchants in market competition and product sales. Appropriate "self-deprecation" can sometimes lead to surprise victory.

When necessary, you should not be too competitive, but should show weakness appropriately. This not only shows your honest character, but also shows your smart strategy. Showing weakness appropriately and showing the softer side of human nature may buy you more time to rest. It can also be a display of self-cultivation and a place of wisdom.

People don’t have to be competitive all the time. So what if I win every time I fight for you? Isn't it just a matter of face? Why do people have to feel embarrassed if they fail to convince others? What does this mean? It’s just a fragile heart and a lack of self-confidence. Like a hedgehog, it uses sharp thorns to protect the weakest parts of its body. And some things will not fundamentally change just because you are angry for a moment. What is going to happen will still happen, and what is going to end will still end. Sharp-tongued and sharp-tongued words and verbal battles are just for the sake of quick success and do not help matters in any real way. Instead, they expose their own weaknesses. The development of the world depends on actions, not words alone.

Showing weakness is not true weakness. Showing weakness is just a means, not an end. Winning success through showing weakness is the final goal. No matter what form of weakness is shown, it must be backed up by strong strength. Otherwise, it will only be self-defeating and achieve nothing.

Excerpt 3. Showing weakness is a kind of wisdom

I read an issue of "Animal World" and it talked about the blue-armored crabs on the beach. They are very ferocious and aggressive in nature. They dare to fight anyone; the other type is very docile and will pretend to be dead and remain motionless when encountering an enemy. As time goes by, the number of strong and ferocious blue-armored crabs has become less and less due to massacres, and they are on the verge of extinction. However, the blue-armored crabs that are willing to show weakness are thriving and growing because they are good at protecting themselves.

I also watched a science and education film. In a canyon running north to south, the west slope is covered with pine, cypress, privet and other trees, while the east slope is only cedar. The reason for this scene is actually very simple. The snow on the east slope is always heavier than the snow on the west slope. When the snow accumulates to a certain extent, the elastic branches of the cedar will bend downward until the snow falls from the branches. Slide down. After repeated accumulation and falling like this, the cedar remained intact. Other trees do not have this ability and cannot survive on the east slope.

The education we have received since childhood is to "not be outdone" and "go forward courageously", otherwise you are a coward. In fact, "learning to show weakness" is also a kind of life wisdom. These "survival of the fittest" phenomena in nature show that those who are competitive in everything often end up with a bloody head; but those who learn to be patient at the right time can become the final winner. There are many such popular allusions in history: Han Xin could endure the humiliation and became a famous general; King Gou Jian of Yue had to endure hardships before reviving his homeland; Lin Xiangru showed weakness and gained the eternal reputation of peace between generals and prime ministers; Premier Zhou Enlai during the "Cultural Revolution" , and Lin Biao's "Gang of Four" skillfully dealt with it, so that many revolutionary heroes were protected; Deng Xiaoping's "three outs and three ins" finally became the chief architect of China's reform and opening up, achieving great achievements for a long time... Being brave, strong, unyielding, and unyielding is a kind of Virtue, but in the face of a powerful opponent, if you have no chance to win and still move forward without knowing how to advance or retreat, you will fall into passivity and cause unnecessary harm or even sacrifice to yourself. If you show weakness at the right time, you can avoid its edge, recharge your batteries, confuse your opponent, and then choose the right time to strike back, often winning by surprise.

Showing weakness is not a compromise, but a kind of rational tolerance and a kind of wisdom in life to overcome difficulties. When we show weakness to others in life, we can be patient without making big plans; when we show weakness to others at work, we can restrain our tentacles and be ready to attack. When a strong person shows weakness, you can show your broad mind; when a weak person shows weakness, you can accumulate time and gradually become stronger. Show weakness when it's time to show weakness, adjust your goals, change your thinking, and you can skillfully pass through the thorns in life and emerge with infinite scenery.

Excerpt 4. Supervisor practice: learn to show weakness

General supervisors are relatively strong in the department, including me, who was also very strong in the past. Later, I listened to a class and learned a lesson. I learned when to be strong and when to show weakness. I found that the effect of showing weakness can better motivate employees. This trick comes from the brand Goldfinger Francis. McGuire's words in training his subordinates: I don't know how you think. (I don't know what you think?)

Dedicated to death, this is what Zhuge Liang said in "The Later Disciple" self-expression in. As the military advisor of the Shu Kingdom, Zhuge Liang is the actual power and spiritual leader. He is very capable. He can know what his opponents are thinking. "The Romance of the Three Kingdoms" describes Zhuge Liang's wisdom. He wrote down his (sperm vesicle) clever ideas on slips of paper. He would open which slip of paper at what time, and quote which clever tip in which place. Those who did not act according to the note would lose their jobs. . But Zhuge Liang worked very hard. It can be said that Zhuge Liang, who is omnipotent, died of exhaustion in the end. There is a reason why Zhuge Liang died from exhaustion. He was too worried about his subordinates and did not allow his subordinates to exert their enthusiasm. He was a god in predicting things, so he couldn't worry about everything. He worried about everything in the world, big and small. As a result, things happened to the people below him. They all relied on Zhuge Liang's clever plan.

When a person deals with the mental dependence of many people, no matter how outstanding the person is, he will be crushed and exhausted. Especially in today's business teams, competition is becoming more and more fierce. In a team, you must play the role of other members of the team, and only by tapping everyone's wisdom can you improve the team's capabilities faster.

It is a very effective management method for supervisors who are relatively strong in the team to learn to show weakness and use a low profile to mobilize everyone's contribution to the team.

In terms of talent training, we have a point of view - "People are born with nature." Recognizing the view that "people are born with nature", the "ideological and political work" of being a supervisor can be carried out smoothly: I am not forcing everyone to work, I am motivating everyone to work, and I am encouraging everyone to improve themselves. For example, some work in the department is difficult to do, and I told member A to use my method to do it, and he ended up following my method. First, my method may be the most correct, but he may not be able to understand it. When there is a problem, or when progress cannot be made, he will complain that the method is not working. Second, it is not his spontaneous thought. His subjective initiative is poor and his enthusiasm is not high. Even if he does it, he still thinks that the idea is in charge and he just obeys. He does not worry about it. He does not like it when it is done. He doesn't wake up even if he does something wrong, and doesn't think it's his fault.

If the supervisor shows weakness and thinks that everyone is "basically human" and thinks that Person A can do it independently, and asks him how he should do such a thing, what will be the result? (To paraphrase Francis McGuire’s line from Goldfinger in “Developing Subordinates: I don’t know how you think”).

I say A, this matter is very important and glorious. Can you tell me what method you can use? A is very happy when he hears this. He thinks that the supervisor values ??him and thinks he can do it. At this time, he will clearly express his ideas in one, two, three, four... items. Because the supervisor stands high and sees far, he judges that A's method is feasible. , but there may be some shortcomings somewhere, but in order to encourage A, I intentionally agree with his opinion: OK! Just follow your method, but pay attention to a few points... and then give him a reminder of the key warning points. If A does it according to his own method, he must be motivated, he must be familiar with his own methods, and he will have a sense of accomplishment after completing the work.

So supervisors sometimes have to show weakness and deliberately lower their posture. Some leaders have always been very strong. I am the leader and I am omnipotent, and I have to show my ability in front of my employees. In fact, the greatest ability of a supervisor is not to do things, but to cleverly use "people are born with nature" to inspire everyone to do things. Some of our supervisors often feel that their subordinates are not hard-working, motivated, and irresponsible. The supervisor always refuses to let him use his brain. His brain must have deteriorated under your leadership. Even if he has finished the work, he still thinks that it is a matter of leadership. The credit is not his, and he has no sense of accomplishment.

To examine a supervisor’s ability to lead troops, isn’t it about what the supervisor can do? How much personal ability does he have? But to examine whether his team is full of talents, and to examine how many of the soldiers he leads have demonstrated their abilities? The ability of team members is a reflection of the ability of the supervisor, and the inability and incompetence of team members is the result of the inability and inability of the supervisor. Every concept is a kind of ideological understanding, which has a strong guiding role in the quality of our work and life. In the future, everyone must learn to use thoughts to guide actions. Showing weakness is not really weakness, but a kind of wisdom and strength.

Excerpt 5. Should you show weakness in life?

Don’t show weakness in life.

On the road of life. In order to survive and develop better, sometimes it is okay to show weakness. However, the nobility and dignity of life show us that we do not need to show weakness to life.

Not to show weakness to life means to bravely shoulder your responsibilities. Who doesn’t long for a beautiful world and social harmony? Who doesn’t praise those who act bravely for justice? But many times, we are only longing and praising, but forget the responsibilities and obligations we should bear. Facing many bad phenomena in life. Many times we show "weakness" and choose to wait and see, give in, and escape. So when faced with an unsatisfactory life, we often complain and lament. As everyone knows, in many cases, we are also the targets of others' complaints. "The Analects of Confucius" says: "There is no courage without doing what is right." Yes, in order to live a better life, we need to be brave and shoulder our responsibilities and obligations.

Not showing weakness to life means never giving up in the face of setbacks and misfortunes. Life is like a fleeting moment.

Just like a drop of dew on a lotus leaf, in this short life, it is inevitable that you will encounter many setbacks and misfortunes. In this regard, we still need to show the nobility and dignity of life with a hundredfold enthusiasm and efforts without showing weakness. Beethoven, who was deaf, shouted "I want to hold the throat of fate"; Helen Keller, who was deaf-mute and blind, still did not lose her passion for life and achieved great achievements; Sima Qian, who was subjected to castration, still tenaciously completed the task It is a masterpiece known as "the historian's swan song, swept away by the power of blank rhyme". The list goes on and on. In the face of misfortune and even misfortune, they all chose tenacity, enthusiasm and more arduous efforts. It is this spirit of not showing weakness that makes them shine through the ages.

Not showing weakness to life means sticking to ideals and truth. In the process of pursuing ideals and adhering to the truth, we sometimes encounter incomprehensible ridicule, slander, abuse, and even the danger of losing our lives. To this, those great men have given us the best answer with their actions: Never let ideals and enthusiasm run aground. , Don’t show weakness and surrender to life. Faced with the reality that "the world is turbid and everyone is drunk", Qu Yuan chose to embrace his ideals and throw himself into the river to die; Zhang Zhixin, faced with the danger of having his tongue cut off, resolutely chose to stick to the truth; Facing the power of the Pope, Bruno insisted on the heliocentric theory and threw himself into the fire. They defended the dignity of ideals and truth with their own blood and lives. With his own practical actions, he composed a series of magnificent songs, and with his spirit of never showing weakness, he allowed people to hold on to their longing for dawn in the dark night.

Life is short and only happens once. How to treat such a life is an eternal proposition. Although the ancients said that "a small impatience will mess up a big plan", the "small" in it clearly tells us that this is just a small wisdom. Faced with such an eternal proposition of life, always have high fighting spirit, always have unquenchable enthusiasm, adhere to ideals and beliefs, and have the courage to assume one's own responsibilities. This is the best interpretation of life.

Let us make it our motto to never show weakness to life!

A moderate show of weakness makes the world wide

In life, we often use the word "never show weakness" to describe One man's bravery. We advocate not showing weakness and not being willing to show weakness. For your own ideals and beliefs, you must have the courage to persist and fight. This is certainly good. However, sometimes a moderate show of weakness can make your world wider.

"If the trees are beautiful in the forest, the wind will destroy them." The weak reed bowed its head in the storm, then straightened up again. This is a natural phenomenon. As far as our lives are concerned, trying to be strong in everything, everywhere, and always will backfire sometimes and make it difficult to achieve our ideals and goals. Therefore, we must learn to show weakness appropriately.

Showing weakness appropriately is a kind of wisdom. Many conflicts in life do not involve major issues of right or wrong, nor are they matters of principle. Such as misunderstandings between friends, quarrels between husband and wife, estrangement between parents and children, etc. If you insist on being strong, you will sometimes lose rare friendships, cast a shadow on the relationship between husband and wife, and deepen the gap between parents and children. As the saying goes: "If you endure the calm for a while, you will take a step back to open up the world." This "forbearance" and "retreat" are a moderate display of weakness. It requires a broad mind and a broad mind.

Showing weakness appropriately is a kind of courage. In life, in order to realize your ideals and ambitious goals. It is inevitable that you will encounter bumps and bumps, and sometimes you will encounter things that seem intolerable. At this time, a moderate show of weakness can help us overcome difficulties and accumulate strength to realize our lofty ideals. Han Xin endured the "humiliation under the crotch" and eventually became a famous general; Xiang Yu could not bear the temporary defeat and committed suicide in Wujiang River. It can be said that "a small impatience will mess up a big plan." If it takes courage to show strength, then it also requires courage to show weakness appropriately.

Appropriate showing of weakness is also an educational principle. In life, which parent doesn’t want their children to become talented, and which teacher doesn’t want their students to be better than others? Teachers can lead by example, parents can give advice, and they can even do their part. And I want to say that showing weakness appropriately is also an educational principle that should be promoted.

For many things in life, parents can kindly say "I can't" to encourage children to develop a sense of independence, and then cultivate their children's self-confidence and life ability; for many problems in teaching, teachers can also kindly say "I can't". Understand", encourage students to express their opinions bravely and cultivate their ability of independent inquiry. This kind of weakness can be said to be parents and teachers deliberately using their own "weakness" to cultivate the strength of their children and students. Why not be happy and sigh at it?

Life is not a single equation. On the road of life, There is not just one choice along the way. We praise "brave" and "strong", but we do not refuse to show "weakness" appropriately.

All roads lead to Rome, and the world is wide when you show weakness appropriately.

Life and showing weakness

Showing weakness ≠ weak

Faced with the unbearable humiliation for ordinary people, Han Xin did not show his courage for a moment, but calmly endured the humiliation. Humiliation. Because, in his heart, there are more lofty ideals that need to be fought for. A strong person does not have to show his strength at all times and everywhere.

Sometimes, showing weakness shows a stronger spirit and courage.

Showing weakness ≠ failure

At the Hongmen Banquet, the situation was tense and murderous intentions were hidden. The weak Liu Bang was respectful and showed his weakness; the strong Xiang Yu was complacent and took it lightly. In the end, the weak man at that time ascended to the throne of emperor, and the strong man in the past was defeated and committed suicide. When your opponent is really strong but you are really weak, you can wisely choose to show weakness instead of showing off your strength. You can temporarily avoid the edge, recharge your batteries, and wait for the opportunity to make a comeback.

Sometimes, showing weakness represents a kind of wisdom in life.

Showing weakness ≠ being passive

Qing Dynasty Prime Minister Zhang Ying and Ye Shilang lived next to each other, and the two families had a dispute over land boundaries. To this end, Zhang Ying wrote a letter for his family: "Building books thousands of miles away is just for the wall, so why not give up another three feet. The Great Wall is still there today, and Qin Shihuang is nowhere to be seen." Taking the initiative to give up three feet, the Ye family felt deeply ashamed and would also give up three feet. The courtyard wall was set back three feet, leaving behind the beautiful saying of the "six-foot wall".

There are many small things in life, such as disputes between neighbors, misunderstandings between friends, conflicts between husband and wife, etc., which do not need to be fussed over. Otherwise, if you insist on trying to be strong, you may end up losing a lot in a small way, and it will be difficult to live a harmonious life.

Sometimes, showing weakness shows a person's insight into world affairs and broad mind. As the saying goes, "The sea embraces all rivers, and it is great if it has tolerance."

Showing weakness ≠ having no principles

Everything has its limits, and so does showing weakness. You don’t have to be strong all the time, and you don’t have to be principled, right from wrong, good and evil, beautiful and ugly, and just show weakness.

Don’t show weakness when facing the hardships in life; don’t show weakness when facing the evil in life; don’t show weakness when facing the truth being trampled upon.

There are many times in life when we still need to "take action when it's time to take action", we need to be angry, and we need to take responsibility to protect the beautiful things in life.

Without wings, a bird cannot fly high and far; without a pair of oars, a boat cannot sail freely. There are four seasons in a year and day and night in a day. The same is true for our lives. Many times we need to think dialectically and make the best choice according to the situation and the situation.

Friend, are you ready?

Comprehensive review

Three articles, one contrary, one positive and one combined, emphasize the necessity of showing weakness, the importance of not showing weakness, and the point of dialectical view, which is very good. It reflects the openness of topic composition. The first two articles are typical argumentative essays, with well-written titles, clear arguments, good at decomposing opinions, clear and broad ideas; various argumentation methods, well-founded and cited. It should be pointed out that although the various arguments involved in Example 1 are relevant to the topic, they are not new and lack the sense of the times. The third article adopts the form of subtitles, selects materials, reveals the meaning, and is more concise in language, leaving more space for readers to think, and has a profound artistic conception.

Excerpt 6. Dare to show weakness means daring to be responsible and honest

Qi: Some people with professional skills are best to admit their shortcomings in other areas, while successful people You might as well talk more about your failure record. People with high status may wish to show their limited experience in front of people in low status. As for those who have succeeded by chance, they should declare their luck.

A college student wrote down his weakness of "not getting along well with others" in his job recruitment letter.

For some people, this is a failure. However, unexpectedly, the recruiting unit hired him instead. In the eyes of the recruiting unit, the fact that this college graduate told his personal weaknesses was a sign of his honesty and trustworthiness. For employees of a unit, this is a rare and essential quality.

"Showing weakness", intentionally exposing certain aspects of one's own weaknesses, is often a useful way of life. In this sense, isn't "showing weakness" also a kind of wisdom?

Since "showing weakness" is a kind of wisdom, we must pay attention to the choice of methods.

People with high status may wish to show their weaknesses in aspects such as limited experience, lack of knowledge and ability in front of people with low status.

Successful people may wish to talk more about their failure records.

People who are skilled in certain professions would be wise to admit their shortcomings in other areas.

As for those who succeed by chance, they should declare their luck.

The strong "show weakness", both for themselves and the weak, can gain something.

Why do you say this? Because the strong are willing to "show weakness" and act like the weak, people will naturally be modest and prudent, and others will be willing to accept it. In this way, the strong will become the long-term winner and make the strong stronger.

For the weak, they can gain comfort from it and gain psychological balance, so that they can consciously learn from the strong in a calm manner, and thus make progress and improve.

Light of wisdom: A person who is truly willing to "show weakness" must be a person who puts his career first and dares to take responsibility, an open-minded and magnanimous person, a person full of humanity and wisdom, A person who understands the world in a shallow way