Is it shameful to change dormitories in universities? But the present environment is really unbearable and distressing. What should we do, ladies and gentlemen?

If a person lives like this.

If you are alone, live like this. In the self-study classroom at dusk, golden light shines on the basketball court through the window of the ancient university campus. Listen to the sounds in the distance. The quiet and warm mood slowly rippled. . Hold a book and a cup of light tea. . Comfortable mood.

If you are alone, live like this. Don't listen to May, Miriam Yeung, Eason Chan and Jacky Cheung. Don't read Zhang Ailing, read newspapers and magazines, and be a person with rich heart. Be a deep-seated person. Whether you are happy or not, don't write it on your face, but keep it in your heart.

If you are alone, live like this. In any case, you must be independent, you must be strong, and you can't ask anyone to do anything for you. You should concentrate on your work, or learn to make money early, or try to get along with strangers, or stay in your own world without being disturbed. Stick to your own style and not be changed by anyone.

If you are alone, live like this. Go home to see your parents regularly, and don't get angry with them, let alone quarrel. Make a sincere friend, plan your future in advance, and set big and small goals for your present life. Try to be a responsible and capable person. Positive and confident.

If you are alone, live like this. Maybe you'll be lonely. Maybe it will be inexplicably sad when it gets dark. However, we should always remind ourselves to have a strong and brave heart. We can paralyze ourselves through work and study, even if we keep helping others do this and that, but we must enrich ourselves.

If you are alone, live like this. You underestimate feelings, fame and fortune, and all the intrigue. You don't know what you want. But don't underestimate happiness. Facing the direction of happiness and sweat, run. Can't give up. Don't be depressed. . Give yourself happiness by your own strength.

If you are alone, live like this.

You can be lonely, but you can't be lonely.

You can be lonely, but not empty.

You can be depressed, but you can't degenerate.

You can be disappointed, but don't give up.

Walk in the fading, do it and cherish it.

Recommend some very good books.

1, "What did you study at university?" Author: Qin Biaoxi

2, "How to study in college" Author: Zhou Brief Introduction: These two books show and analyze various practical problems in college life: planning, study, major, skipping classes, work-study program, network, love, sex, postgraduate entrance examination, studying abroad, job hunting, graduation, entrepreneurship, time management, interpersonal relationship, financial management, civil servants. ...

3, "Perfect University Required Course" Author: Any, Introduction: Tell the story of two Peking University students' four-year college life, and put forward some suggestions and opinions.

4, "How to Stand Out in Universities: A Guide to the Success of Top Students in First-class Universities" Author: Carl Newport Introduction: The author investigated the top students in first-class universities such as Harvard, Princeton, Yale and Stanford, and distilled their success secrets into 75 concise rules.

5. Tailoring Life-Exploring the Road of College Students' Graduation Choice and Life Planning. Author: Xu Yi, etc.

in fact

In any school

Mediocre students are all the same.

Students who are not mediocre also have their own glory.

How can universities earn their tuition back?

Kai-fu Lee: How to earn back college tuition (this is too good, so I turned around)

All kinds of universities in China can be said to be peerless' noble universities'. According to the per capita income and affordability, the annual college expense ratio of the relatively poor population in China is 8: 1 that of the American people. In other words, college tuition in China is eight times higher than that in the United States. However, the high price can't stop the thirst for knowledge of most ordinary students in China. Everyone, regardless of each family, parents may support their college children. In fact, we don't always have to look forward to graduating early to earn money to reduce the burden on our parents. On the university campus, you can earn back about 4000-20000 yuan of college tuition every year. Whether you make money directly or indirectly, it will be presented in the form of physical value in a short time or a long time.

1, try to save time, because time is money. I think as an adult, your understanding of this old saying must be clearer than when you bite your pen in primary school. You'd better get rid of those meaningless activities that occupy your time in college, such as class cadres, student associations, boring literature and sports, student unions and so on. Although they will say that this is an exercise for you to go to society, 40% of this activity is a waste of your time, and the rest is more or less the so-called exercise for you. And part of this exercise is to exercise you to kill time and do something meaningless.

What is hidden in the library is piles of bricks instead of books. Instead of taking bricks, you spend money on bars, dating and shopping. Your family is very rich, so you are free. However, there are still quite a few students from well-off families or ordinary families. If you take these as the theme of college life, you are ruined. There may be a book in the library that will change your career direction and even change your confused life of getting paid in the future. This is no joke. A university is a university after all, and it will never make up for it with some idle books that have no practical value. If a book appears in physical form, it is about 3- 100 yuan, and the accumulated knowledge in it is definitely more than 3- 100 yuan, while the average library has at least 500,000 books. You often hang out in the library. After a few years, you can calculate that you didn't make a big profit. In fact, there is money everywhere on the job search road, depending on whether you can pick it up. Some people are so stupid that they just can't see the money if you put it in front of them.

People of insight say that college students should study hard during college time and should not take part-time jobs. I didn't know rice was expensive. These seniors may not know how many parents of students are struggling in the face of priceless tuition fees, scrimping and saving, setting up stalls, avoiding urban management, being bullied and willing to work for others. And they enjoy stable wages or benefits, hold power and relationships more or less in their hands, and let off two idle farts after eating and drinking-part-time students ignore them. When you work part-time, the income you get is not only tens of dollars or hundreds of dollars, but more importantly, you understand how cruel this society is and how difficult it is to make money. This is actually the most vivid and incisive lesson for teachers who are trying to persuade students to put away their eagerness to grab and indulge and study hard. Part-time job is not only to make money, but also to gain experience. You have learned all these skills, and if you can't find a suitable job in the future, you will be full. It is difficult to make money by further developing it. Of course, part-time jobs should not only do this, but all walks of life should do more part-time jobs. In this way, you will learn more and build more interpersonal relationships. You will have a wider road in the future.

4. Interpersonal relationships are intangible assets. Personally, this asset is also my most valued asset. And interpersonal relationships vary from person to person and from region to region. Everyone knows that bad friends cannot be made. But interpersonal relationship is like sowing, where you go, you sow. Making friends is good for you. It's good to make friends, but pay more attention to yourself. After all, you can't have the heart to hurt people, and you can't have the heart to prevent people. There are many wolves in sheep's clothing in this world. Friends, making more friends in your hometown will be more beneficial to your personal development. If you want to develop in other places, such as Xi, Luoyang and Qingdao, then you should make friends with the students here at school. But you should remember that you must try not to offend anyone when you make friends with local people where you are determined to go in the future. Of course, you still have to be close to the sages. . Making a particularly good friend in college can even exceed the tuition fee for three or four years in college. Because a close friend and good friend can provide you with some opportunities to make a living in society, he gives you a chance to make a fortune, that is, you give him a chance to make a fortune. Pay more at school, others will remember your goodness, which is especially beneficial to you in the future.

5, learn more majors. It seems that everyone knows. But few people can really do it. Even the author is incompetent. One more skilled person may cause one less company to refuse to hire you. You should turn yourself into avalokitesvara in college. You can learn anything you want. This society needs talents with comprehensive quality, but it can't be done by a small army that "attacks seven or eight guns and dozens of people". Therefore, grasp the limited time of the university and strive to stabilize the future work. College tuition is worth it. So if you want to get your tuition back and study more, you will make a lot of money.

6. You may think that the lectures given by some experts and professors are all nonsense. However, most people want to attend their lectures. I wonder how much it will cost. Since the school leaders invited you, don't miss this opportunity. At least everyone knows that it will be good to eat free food. Whether the professors like it or not. After all, they are elders and successful people. They have crossed more bridges than you have. So don't be too self-centered.

Sophomore, decide whether you are a talent or a scum.

I occasionally read an article on the Internet today, which touched me a lot. I want to share it with you. I hope it helps you. Let's work together! ! !

How are you getting along in your new school?

Originally, this letter should have been written a long time ago, and there were many things that should have been said a long time ago, but I didn't write or say it. It's not that I don't want to, but that I know you hate an empty missionary. So, I am waiting, waiting for your own life, waiting for your understanding of life, waiting for your reflection on life attitude. These things are only a matter of time. At the end of the semester, when you are busy preparing for the final exam, I think this letter can be written, and these words can be said. I believe that you should feel the same way as me, and your thoughts should be able to reach a depth.

You have experienced the third year of high school, but it is not black for you, but a feeling of more tension than usual. Deep down, you haven't really realized the significance of fighting for your goals. In this pale process, you lost an opportunity to temper yourself.

It is nothing for a person to lose an opportunity, but it is in this loss that many people lose their successful lives. So, class, what have you lost? Black is depressing, depressing, but it represents a medium maturity and atmosphere behind it.

Remember the students who studied in * * College at the graduation ceremony? When talking about the feelings of university life in our class, he said, "There are two kinds of people in universities: talents and scum." So for those of you who have been in college for a semester, I want to ask: Are you talents or scum? If I guess correctly, you will definitely answer me: I am neither a talent nor a scum, somewhere in between. If so, I think: you are degenerating into human scum. Do you think this is extreme? We need to go to extremes on this issue. In this semester, do you have a lot of time at a loss, a lot of time lying in bed in the dormitory, a lot of time chatting on QQ, and a lot of time fighting in online games? A semester passed, and suddenly I found that I didn't listen carefully to several classes, although all the classes I gave you were above the lecturer level; Suddenly I found that I didn't read a few books carefully, although your university library has a lot of books; Suddenly I found that I had learned nothing, although there was a lot to learn in college. Are you worried about passing the final exam instead of getting good grades, and are planning various methods that will not stand out: surprise study, cheating in exams, buying wine as a gift, and praying alone? ...

Don't say that you don't understand in class, don't say that teachers don't care, don't say that majors are not interested, don't say that schools are too bad, and depravity doesn't need reasons, just excuses.

If I remember correctly, your annual tuition is more than 5,000 yuan, and the highest is 9,000 yuan. Plus your living expenses and other expenses, most of them can reach 1 10,000 yuan or more. Now you are in college and receiving a high-cost education, but how much output did your parents get from your high investment?

Most of you come from rural areas or small business families, and not many people have rich family wealth. Every penny you use now is the hard-earned money of your parents, even the money borrowed everywhere, which contains incomparable hardships and love for you. On their old faces scarred by years, there are also a pair of hopeful eyes for you, muddled and even a little vague.

Hope can turn into disappointment, and disappointment can turn into despair, but who is the decider of this change?

Responsibility is not given to you by others, but determined by your mature thoughts. You all say that you have grown up and matured, but I think that at the age of 20, you are just an external maturity. You have a responsibility to your parents that you can never shirk, but you gave up your mission in inaction and degeneration.

After the end of the semester, when you go home for the Spring Festival, your parents still love you, are still full of hope, and still exhort you, but you don't apologize at all, don't even talk about your study, and don't even show them your report card. You hide in a corner and sign their names by yourself.

Liar, a hypocritical liar, a liar with no sense of responsibility, a liar who can become scum, I don't want and don't want you, a group of energetic students to become like this. I have always stubbornly believed that you can be the pride of your family.

It is difficult to build a thing, but it is easy to destroy it. Students, please remember and assume your responsibilities to your parents.

This semester, many students have reflected such a problem: I don't know what I want to do in the end, or I don't work hard at anything. This is a common phenomenon among students who have just entered the university, because you have lost your goal. The reason for this is the following：

First: you have been admitted to the university. You have achieved your ultimate goal of dominating primary school, junior high school and senior high school. For many students, college is the last stage of your study. After finishing college, you have to find a job, but for students who have worked for 12 years, it still seems so out of reach.

Second, the teaching methods in universities are completely different from those in other periods. There are no teachers around you in the university, for fear that you have learned nothing. Whether you learn or not is entirely your own business. You're an adult. Without repeated explanations and unfinished homework, you feel that the class is empty for you. What should I do if I learn? What should I do if I don't learn? Instead of making yourself study so hard, let yourself live a little more freely.

Third: there is too much time left for yourself in college. From morning self-study to evening self-study, there are teachers who arrange your tasks properly. Up to now, no one has told you what to do, leaving you at a loss. Most of you lack spiritual independence and good self-control, and you can't grasp these seemingly excessive freedoms at all.

Fourth, counselors in universities are completely different from former class teachers. The former class teacher had to take care of everything, just like a demanding nanny, because we regarded you as children who had not grown up; Nowadays, counselors don't care about anything but roll call because they treat you as an adult. In this process, there is a huge disconnect, and you can't complete this transformation psychologically and intellectually.

Fifth: Most of you lack clear and definite life goals. You don't know what kind of person you want to be or what kind of career you want to be. From the ideal of primary school, to the future of junior high school, to the university of high school, and then to the confusion of university, you have completed the transformation of your life goals in this process, and the last thing left is dead bugs. I think it is the combination of these five points that makes you lose your goal. However, a ship without direction is not downwind.

You should find your goal, not immediately, but in the shortest possible time.

Here is a suggestion for you, hoping to help you find your goal.

Step 1: Put aside all obstacles, start from your major and figure out what kind of work or career you want to do in the future. Find a blank sheet of paper and record your final decision. Please do not hesitate. Graphic advertising designer? Animator? Web designer? Network programmer? Software development engineer? Communication engineer? Architect? Mold design engineer? ……

Step 2: Make full use of the network, recruitment inspiration in the talent market and other channels to fully understand the professional skills and other skills needed to engage in the job you set. Most of the theoretical knowledge of these skills is learned from books. What you need to do is to make a list of books for yourself in order from basic to profound. Please write this on paper, too.

Step 3: Assign yourself study time according to the order of books and records. Of course, most of the time you can allocate is your spare time. And put it into practice every semester, so that you have a study plan every semester.

The fourth step: according to the study plan, study in a down-to-earth way and practice with all possible conditions.

I believe that if every student has a goal, you will live a full and busy life and gain a lot. So please set yourself a goal.

Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you're gonna get! In fact, of the above four steps, the first, second and third steps are very easy to achieve, and the fourth step is the most difficult and really not easy to achieve.

First of all, there are too many college students around you, living a chic life that their peers yearn for. To reach the fourth point, you need to overcome the influence of the big environment.

Secondly, there are too many temptations in universities. There is another itchy sound in QQ; In online games, there is a killing sound, which makes people feel very excited; Under the street lamp by the lake, there are pairs of lovers who are closely related; The table is full of money that seems easy to get ... to reach the fourth point, you need to refuse these temptations and walk through the university like an ascetic in the eyes of others.

Moreover, you should be able to tolerate loneliness and loneliness, which seems out of place in college life. But successful and great people are lonely, and their patience has cultivated their super perseverance and extraordinary wisdom.

There is an animal called vulture, which has tax bills and sharp claws. But with the increase of age, its beak will grow longer and longer, so that it can't bite its prey; Thick webbed meat grows between its claws, connecting them together and unable to catch prey. It is an unchangeable law that you will die without food. For it, death seems to be the only way out However, it has made a choice that can shock mankind: it repeatedly bites its beak on hard rocks and breaks long parts until it regains its former sharpness; I pecked at the webbed meat between my paws with my beak, although my blood was flowing and I was trembling with pain. This process will last for more than a month, and then they will fly proudly in the sky as before.

The process of pain, greatness and rebirth. Isn't life the same?

Maybe someone will ask: why do I have to struggle painfully when others can live a chic life? I'll change it to another question: Does the university enjoy life or shape itself?

When many students first entered the university, they had the experience of running for the offices and cadres of the student union and various societies. Afterwards, many students lamented: unfair, everything depends on the relationship. I would like to ask, if schools are still like this, what will society do? Doesn't society play politics, relationships and money more thoroughly? What makes you stand in society in the future? It doesn't matter if you want money. If you don't have money, what else? At the beginning of college graduation, you either work in management or in technology. But you have no power, it doesn't matter, and you have no money. Isn't it Conan's dream to be engaged in good management and earn more than four figures a month? Your best choice is to engage in technical work, but you need real materials, because it doesn't depend on who has great power, hard connections and much money.

Recently, Chongqing TV Station is replaying the TV series "Mountain City Bangbang Army". I believe many students have seen this TV series. I gave it to you then.

What kind of feelings did you leave behind? Funny, comedy. But this kind of humor and comedy is different from Mr. Fool. It is the poverty, helplessness and self-improvement of the working people at the bottom, which makes people cry after laughing. You all look down on their work in your hearts, or you will be asked to do a big job for a month. Will you go?

I don't think you will go. However, when you graduated from college, you suddenly found that you didn't learn a really good skill except getting a college diploma. How much better will your work be than awesome? Maybe it's just a nice name. Maybe anyone can do it. Will you still complain then?

Each of us wants to live a high-quality life, to let our closest relatives live a carefree life, and to leave traces of our own value in the world, but these can not be achieved through enjoyment. God gave each of us hands and a brain to create and think. This period of time in college is your best study time, so please give up enjoyment, try to reshape yourself and save strength for the future takeoff.

Since we are talking about college life, we should fall in love. The university gathers adolescent boys and girls, and love inevitably happens here. But I don't know when it started, but this normal thing that can't be normal has never been questioned: today's college students are full of feelings. The criticism of major media has intensified. Nowadays, college students are mixed with most utilitarianism, desire and indulgence in their emotions. When they graduate every year, lovers eat their last meal, hug and kiss for the last time, then turn around and leave, embark on their own journey and forget this relationship as if it had never happened. Love is only regarded as a need.

You are now in the first semester of freshman year. In the second semester, many people will want to catch love or be caught by love. But I hope your love is sincere, earnest, pure and true. If you think he is handsome and want to fall in love with him, please think twice; If you think she is beautiful and want to fall in love with her, please think twice; If you feel lonely and want to find someone to fall in love with, please think twice; If you fall in love with someone just because you heard a few words from a friend, please give up. In fact, the word "love" has clearly indicated its object: the following word "friend" shows that you should know him (her) well and he (she) should be your friend; It means that you should choose carefully among these friends; "ノ" means that you can only choose one of them as your lover and the others as your friends. Please cherish your emotion, otherwise it will become very cheap. What is love? You should know this in your hearts. I think: being attracted because of Excellence, being loved because of attraction, and learning to love because of being loved, this is the process of love.

At this point, what I want to say is almost finished. These 4,000-odd words look very tired, and I sincerely hope to bring you more or less help. If you find it useless, please tear it up and throw it away. Please forgive my rudeness. If you find it helpful, please keep it and watch it quietly for a few times.

Ten suggestions for young people to avoid detours

1. Buy an alarm clock and wake you up on time. `

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At any time, self-drowsiness and unpunctuality will become a stumbling block to your work and career. Learn not only to be punctual, but also to be ahead of time. Just like when you go to a place by car, the scenery along the way is so beautiful that you can't help but get off and have a look. Later, although I still arrived at a place, I didn't arrive on time. The "alarm clock" is just a simple sign and reminder. Real flexible and practical time is in everyone's heart.

If you don't like your present job, either quit or shut up.

When you are young, you are prone to arrogance. Can't do big things and don't want to do small things. Don't get into the habit of being picky. I am too lazy to take an umbrella on rainy days, and I am afraid of getting wet without an umbrella, showing dissatisfaction everywhere. Remember, if you don't do it, you must do it well.

Everyone is lonely sometimes.

Learn to endure loneliness, so that you can grow. Young people are used to laughing and fighting. When they come to a strange environment and face all kinds of people and things, they are at a loss, and sometimes there is no place to talk. At this time, don't be impetuous, learn to meditate and learn to endure loneliness. Think in loneliness, mature in thinking and sublimate in maturity. Don't lose your mind because of loneliness, do boring and useless things and waste your precious time.

4. Be prepared for bad luck when you are lucky.

One day, a fox went outside the vineyard and saw juicy grapes inside. But there is a fence outside. You can't go in. So it fasted for three days, lost weight, and finally got into the vineyard and had a good meal. When he wanted to leave the vineyard contentedly, he found that he was too full to get out of the fence. I believe no one wants to be such a fox. Retreat is equally important. Eat dry food, hold an umbrella on a sunny day, accumulate bit by bit, and follow the trend. Some things look worthless today, but they may be worth a hundred times one day.

5. Don't be as fragile as glass.

Some people always stare at themselves, and they can't see far if they are tall; Always like to complain, but also annoying others. Where is the sweetness without bitterness? Not as fragile as glass, but as transparent as crystal, as brilliant as the sun and as strong as wintersweet. Since you open your eyes and enjoy the coolness of the wind, don't complain about the tiny grains of sand in the wind.

6. Shut up.

Don't talk about yourself, let alone others. Talking about yourself is often arrogant and hypocritical, and you lose yourself in name. Talking about others is often entangled in trivial right and wrong. Drinking and chatting with colleagues and friends after work every day is not a good thing, because talking about colleagues and friends is often a topic. It is always bad to speak ill of people behind their backs, especially their shortcomings, which will degrade your personality.

7. Opportunities are never "lost". If you lose them, others will get them.

Don't wait for anything, let alone hope for "opportunity". Opportunities are only relative to those who are well prepared and good at creating opportunities. Perhaps, when you are regretting and complaining about losing an opportunity, the opportunity is being seized by the same "unlucky ghost" opposite you. If there is no opportunity, we must create opportunities. If there is an opportunity, we must seize it skillfully.

8. If the phone keeps ringing, you should call out.

Many times, the phone will bring you unexpected gains. It is not a vase, but just an ornament. Make new friends and don't forget old ones. With many friends, the road is easy. One of the great secrets of communication is initiative. Good popularity and good reputation often contribute to your career, by going up one flight of stairs.

9. Don't get married just because you are of marriageable age.

If you want to get married, you must find a partner who can be your soul mate and complement each other. Don't fall in love because of indulgence and games, don't affect your work and career because of love, and don't hinder your life because of a hasty failed marriage. Emotional things are often lost because of small things.

10. Write down what you want to do in your life, put the list in your wallet and take it out often.

Life should have goals, plans, reminders and a sense of urgency. String together one small goal after another, and it becomes your big goal in life. Life has become rich and the environment has improved. Don't forget the seemingly thin list in your wallet.