Wonderful life, success lies in the choice of psychological path.

For every normal person, as long as he is alive, he needs to have the ability to make a living. This is a need, an instinct. Simply put, you need to work, whether for yourself or for society. In our life, everyone will encounter the opportunity to choose. A person who is good at choosing will correctly grasp his life goals, otherwise, he will miss them. A person's life is also a process of choice. Because each of us has different backgrounds, living environments and experiences, we have formed different concepts and values. Then the choices you make in life are different, and it is very important to make the right choice. At every crossroads in life, we need to make careful choices. Choose carefully, choose carelessly, choose correctly and choose wrongly. If the choice is different, the result will be very different. Different choices determine different lives. Choice becomes an important factor that determines the quality of our life. Whether the choice we make is correct or not determines the success or failure of the event, and then determines our own positioning. Life has to go through setbacks and choices. Since you have to choose, you must persist and be patient.

One day, I read a story in a book: an elderly man said to two young people, now I will give you five thousand yuan each to go out and live on your own. How will you spend the money? One chooses to buy a computer, so that he can play his favorite games, watch his favorite movies and live his favorite life there every day. This is a person who doesn't know how to think about tomorrow. Of course, there is no future. There is also a young man who chooses to make a study plan that suits him. He pays the tuition first, and there is not much money left. Because the school is far away, he still needs a certain fare. Such a small living allowance will make his life very difficult, but he said it was his own choice. Obviously, this is a very simple story. The young man in front is undoubtedly a simple-minded hedonist. He only thinks about his present and wants to live the life he yearns for immediately, regardless of his future life. Young people in the back, if they choose the learning mode that suits them, will also learn some knowledge and skills, master some knowledge, and have the opportunity to find their favorite career in their later lives. He chose a road full of thorns and difficulties, but it can make life shine.

In the face of life choices, we should learn to choose, and seek gold in the sand. Life now comes from previous choices, and development tomorrow comes from today's choices. So sometimes, it is not difficult to do things right, but it is difficult to choose the right thing. Once our choices are wrong, success will be farther and farther away from us, because choice is more important than hard work. Information collection is the basis of choice, and having a large amount of information is optional. Sometimes all the confusion and confusion in life is because you put yourself in a small circle, collect a lot of information, enlarge the circle, and you will find that the outside world is beautiful and there are still many ways to go. Determine your life goals, ask yourself what you want, and believe that what you want will be realized. A person who has no goal will often be at a loss. Your choice is to locate yourself and find your own direction. In today's society, there are many roads to success, but all the roads are not given by others, but the result of your own choice.

The theme of life is choice. In this complex world, the most important difference between the strong and the weak, the successful and the ordinary people is the choice of life path. No one is born ordinary, and no one is born great. No matter what kind of environment, we are free to choose our attitude. Should be the most critical choice, because this choice will affect everything we do. Use your wisdom carefully, make a correct judgment and choose your own right direction. Face it with a normal heart and handle it with a cooperative attitude. Through your own participation, you will find that you still have such power to infect people around you and let them ignite the courage and enthusiasm of life with you. This kind of power cannot be displayed and possessed when you are alone. Every day, we are suffering the consequences of our choices. No one can replace the ups and downs, joys and sorrows, and taste and experience by yourself.

I once heard a friend tell such a true story. I am recruiting in the talent exchange center. I met a woman in her thirties and asked her if the commodity manager you recruited here had any requirements. From the appearance, I feel that the woman may only have a junior high school or high school education, have no formal employment quality in enterprises, and may have worked as a general salesperson. She dresses very simply and speaks carefully. My friend was surprised when I saw her resume. It turns out that she graduated from a famous national key university in southwest China. 1999 graduated, majoring in chemistry. Look at her resume again: X-year chemist, XX department clerk, X-year office worker (handyman). Judging from her experience, she has been in the traditional industry, not engaged in technical work. From the experience, none of them are professional. Asked if she knew anything about commodity management, she said she didn't. It would be difficult to find a job without the knowledge support of the corresponding recruitment management positions. He can't imagine how such a talented person can find a job in warehouse management with such a low salary.

I think, for everyone, survival should be greater than success, before success. A person who has not solved the basic survival problem needs to settle down first and find a job that can support himself. Man is not air. He should eat when he is hungry and wear when he is cold. This is an unavoidable practical problem. At the same time, I feel sorry for her. If she chooses to find an institution or a professional counterpart when she graduates, it will definitely be better than now. If she chooses to keep learning and update her knowledge, then she will be better than now. So from this story, life really depends on choice. In the face of every life choice, even if our casual choice deviates, we can make corresponding adjustments and correct it in time. Don't think about the past days, the opportunity is still far away. People will not set limits for themselves, so there will be no fences on the road of life to limit their play. So as to minimize the loss caused by wrong selection. Every choice in life can't be right and perfect, but the key choice can't be wrong. The key lies in the direction of progress. With the right direction, people won't get lost.

A clear head lacks self-confidence. If you want to have a better development platform because of the pressure of employment after graduation, you have to find ways to learn new knowledge and constantly enrich and improve your knowledge level, instead of thinking that this is fate. The so-called fate is only in your own hands. I have a friend who works in a newspaper after graduating from college. She did a good job in editing and interviewing, but she was not satisfied with herself. She went on studying and recharged herself. Through her continuous efforts, she was admitted to the civil service of the Communications Department a few years ago. Many people don't understand, saying that you have done a good job in the newspaper and are well paid. Why do you have to endure such pain? As we all know, the competition in the civil service examination is very fierce. Sometimes there are hundreds or even thousands of people competing for a position, and the whole examination process is very formal and rigorous. Being in a foreign land, she knows that no one can help her, so she speaks on her own merits. Although she suffered a lot and sacrificed a lot of time, she got the life she needed. All this stems from her self-confidence and diligence. Think of the young man who chose to buy a computer for the first time. In the endless game, he will only lose his health and enterprising spirit because he is addicted to the game. Knowledge is very important, but knowing what knowledge is is more important. Changing the environment and changing yourself is, to a great extent, thinking, knowledge can be learned, and thinking is rare.

Our life may be tortuous, some detours are the result of choice, and some happiness is also the result of choice. Facing the choice is the most difficult and painful time. This is also the time to test us. Active choice is definitely better than passive choice. Instead of choosing the so-called excellent answer, choose the answer that suits you. In fact, the correct choice also has certain rules. The key is to see if you summarize or not. There is no obvious difference between tangible life and intangible thought, fiction and fact. Choice and result are always mutually causal. The most troublesome thing in a person's life is not to get or have, but to find out how much I need. What do I really want? There are countless roads and choices in life, but there is only one life, and there is no turning back after walking. Every step of life is to write your own history. A person's life is a process, so if a person lives blindly without any goals, it is very terrible. The boundary of self-achievement is often the boundary of self-thought. Think high, you can be high or low. The best person to motivate yourself is actually yourself. If you understand this truth, you will fly higher and farther. ...