Liu Tong whose youth is not confused.

"I talked about a relationship and broke up because I didn't have enough money. Later, I tried to make money, but I never met that person again.

Because I don't know the rules, I am squeezed out by my colleagues. Later, I understood the rules, but I would never use this reason to make things difficult for my new colleagues.

I always quarrel with my parents because they always think I'm not so good. Later, when my life got better and better, I realized that they were just afraid that I would not live well alone.

Over the years, I have been trying to understand: to understand the world more completely and to understand myself. "-Liu Tong

1, when we try our best to express pessimistic things with an optimistic attitude, you will find that the maze will meet the light as soon as it goes to the exit, and it will be as bright as when it returns to the starting point. We are all the same, looking forward to the future, getting rid of the past and working hard for the present. Will be embarrassed, smart, but more scared. Not afraid of turmoil, not afraid of change, not afraid of sudden. Whose youth is not confused, in fact, we are all the same.

As long as you persist in one thing for a long time, persistence will gradually become a habit. Things that need to be pushed hard become commonplace, and things that were originally determined to start become logical.

No matter how lush the trees are, they all grow from the roots, and no matter how many problems that bother us, they are all caused by one problem. Maybe all our parents planned for us because we didn't give them enough sense of security. The other half is lukewarm to us, perhaps because we have never given each other a sense of freshness. The leader is critical of us in every way, perhaps because we always have something to catch.

At that time, I wanted to leave everyone and run away from home when I quarreled. In fact, these rebellions are not because they don't want to be with you, nor do they want to understand a person's feelings. Disappear for a while just to let you know how it feels to lose me. Maybe only when you lose it will you realize the value you have. So whether I am good or bad, please cherish the opportunity to have me.

Finding a job is the same as getting married. If you expect to go out with your resume and find someone to go home and marry you, either you look like a goddess and you are dumbfounded, or what you do is confusing, otherwise no one will do such a 250-dollar thing. And those who can get married smoothly have already tried to get married, and have long been attached to two of a kind. Don't blame yourself for not finding a job. In fact, you are not ready to start a family at all.

6. When I was studying, I envied many people every day. His decent speech, his clean collocation, her warmth and humor, he and she cherish carefully. Sometimes I wonder how useless I am. Later, in a new environment, I imitated their conversation. Looking back at their collocation, I try to be interesting and respect everyone as much as possible. I want to be the person I once envied. In fact, people who can see the beauty of others are not without merit.

7. Every time I go home, I will look through the letters you wrote to me. Read carefully and feel the way you frown with your pen. Every sentence is the most complete you at that time. I don't know where you are today. Think of yourself as a pen pal. My mother asked, these letters are useless. Do you still have them? In fact, many things are useless now, and there is only one purpose to keep them. A nice person like you is so serious about me.

8. What kind of person you are, you will meet. You will be your friend. What kind of person your lover is, what kind of life you live. To protect them is to fulfill yourself.

9. You will gradually understand that failure is nothing, because it is better than giving up on your own initiative. Lying is nothing, it's better than your stupid concealment. Being dumped is nothing, it's better than how cheap you think it is to break up first. Before we knew how painful we were, we learned to know ourselves. We learn to understand others before we know how tolerant they are.

10, "Life may be about letting go, but unfortunately, I haven't been able to say goodbye to them properly." Everyone remembers this sentence, and everyone has an unexpected and enjoyable farewell. Many things can't be put down because of unwillingness, and many unwillingness will make people remember.

1 1. The older you get, the more you like to drink a little wine, because some words in your heart are more and more difficult to say. The longer I work overtime, the more I like to walk alone, because I want to know how long I can stand it. At first, a group of people went on the road, and later they needed a person. I had hoped that someone would send me a message, but when I picked up my mobile phone, I didn't know who to call. But only after this period, there is a joke of memories.

12, the person you loved was me, the person you hated was me, the person you cared about was me, and the person you didn't like was me. Just because that person is you, I show myself in many ways in front of you. I am waiting for you to accept everyone hopefully, instead of being scared away by me. Only selfish you will love the best of me, and only tolerant you can tolerate the worst of me.

13, doing the same thing is different, and you are not far from promotion. What I am most afraid of is knowing what to do tomorrow today, what to do next week tomorrow, and what to do ten years later this year. The real effort at work is not to carry one thing all the time, but to strive for perfection and let opponents go to work like graves.

14, have you ever been scolded for being quick and quick? Have you ever been scolded for being impatient? Have you ever been called naive? When we were young, we often suffered such comments, but we were unable to refute them. In fact, you are just thinking about the future, working hard and hoping to change yourself frequently, so you will change your posture slightly. You know, when you change, it always makes the world a little uncomfortable.

15, a friend asked: "Why is my life so difficult? ! "Life is hard. Studying, taking the college entrance examination, looking for a job. Working overtime, cooking and competing for posts. Car loan, mortgage, hard to find someone. The boss scolds, colleagues crowd out, and parents get old. When I have many friends, I hate that I have no money. I hate having no friends when I have a lot of money. In fact, most people do, but you think everything is difficult. They just take everything for granted.

16, if you want to live a happy life, everyone advises you not to care about other people's comments. But not everyone can do this. Since you can't care about the external evaluation, please do your best to do the things at hand and let others have a good evaluation of you, instead of always refuting other people's bad evaluations.

17, once loved someone, called to write a love letter to send breakfast, turned on the water to send gifts to work, and finally broke up. One message said: Anyone can do these things, but you can't. After this time, I won't remember you next time. What you need to do is take the time to make yourself better, instead of always being stuck by each other. The last word is that others can't compare with you.

18. About writing resumes: Except the name, 80% of resumes are similar in terms of awards, nationality, height, subject and school position. 80% are transparent covers and colorful plastic clips. The first sentence of the recommendation letter is to thank the interviewer for taking time out of his busy schedule. Those words that everyone can use are written without thinking. Once you use them, the interviewer can only silently classify you as an assembly line product.

19, if you want an experience that you have never had before, you must give up something. There is no absolute solution for both sides in this world, only what you want more. If you want to be comfortable, you have to give up the challenge. If you want to move on, you must give up your stay. If you don't want to be laughed at, you can only live once.

20. There are very few people with really strong social skills, and most newcomers have only three successes. When faced with something that has never been done, some people dare to undertake it as if they had succeeded five times. Once things are done, they will succeed at least seven times. The rest will say, look, they are already very powerful. In fact, at first, you were all the same, except for a little less fear of death.

2 1. If you live in the eyes of others, you will get lost in your own world. It's not impossible for you to demand yourself with other people's principles. But there are millions of others, some smart, some stupid, some smart and some stupid. You can't distinguish these by your own principles, then you can only let others live in your world with your own life.

22, 22 years old, met a good brother, only to know that a person's salary can be as high as 10 thousand. At the age of 25, I met my sister, and I know that the world can be as wonderful as you wish. At the age of 27, when I met Zhang Dad, I realized that being a leader doesn't need to put everything first. You should let your colleagues trust you. When I was 3 1 year old, I made more challenges before I realized that giving up was actually a victory. The deepest loneliness in growing up is not darkness, but only seeing yourself.

23. In recent years, some friends quit their stable jobs, divorced their abusive husbands, sold their houses and traveled around the world, applied for full scholarships by part-time, broke up with their boyfriends for many years, left their parents and began to wander alone, published their own picture books, and formed bands to hold song clubs. They all lived well because they made their own decisions.

At the age of 24 or 20, we want the world to know us. At the age of thirty, we began to understand the world. We begin to know that happiness is just a day to get along with life and get by with the world. Whose youth is not confused, we can hold our heads high at the age of twenty, and we can learn to bow our heads at the age of thirty. Because every time I bow my head, I am sure of myself.

25. After graduation, many things have been subverted. It turns out that the school flower will also become ugly. It turns out that the upper berth and the lower berth can also fall in love. It turns out that finding a job can have nothing to do with majors. It turns out that not everyone is qualified to do hidden rules. It turns out that everyone is equally anxious about the future. It turns out that they really can't get a degree certificate without attending classes and taking exams. It turned out that the salary of their first job was too low to squeeze into the job fair. It turns out that it is difficult to get married after graduation. It turns out that reading is really good.

26. Whether you are looking for a job or an object, if you are like others, why must you be the person you choose? You have to be different from others. Being different doesn't mean that you can ruin yourself, be different and act out of line. "Different" means "not equal to good". The resume is more exciting, the expression is calmer, the speech is more accurate, the study is deeper and the viewpoint is more objective. Little by little, it will be different from others.

27. It is not because I like listening that I keep repeating that song, but because I will think of you when I listen to that song. Not only do I like the same type of people, but this type of people will remind me of you. You can leave in your way, and I can approach in my way. You don't have to pity me. After all, I later found out that there are many people like you and many people who are better than you.

28. Loneliness is different from loneliness. Loneliness means there is no one around you, and loneliness means there is no one in your world. A person's loneliness is addictive. If a person is lonely for too long, he will forget himself and the feeling of the best person.

29. In any group, there are always a few people who eat to death, and there are always a few people who are resistant to manufacturing and stress. In fact, you can survive in any camp, the key depends on what kind of person you want to be. People who eat to death will die more and more. People who resist construction and compression will become more and more resistant to construction and compression.

30. We always hope to find someone to understand ourselves on the road of life. We often fail. But one day you will understand that as long as we change our expression a little, more people will understand ourselves. Everyone's youth is confused. Don't blame others for not giving you a chance. In fact, you have never given others a chance to understand you.

3 1. Admitting your own shortcomings requires not courage, but self-confidence. When you know yourself well enough, are not afraid of exposure, and can accept everything about yourself, you dare to say "I'm really not that good now". If you dare to say that, you must have a better self in your heart.

If you firmly believe that what you are doing is obviously right, then don't explain it to the misunderstood person. Because they are not targeting your business at all, but your people. So, all you have to do is smile on the surface, but don't treat them as one of your own in your heart.

Everyone should respect himself, and don't let himself do or say anything just because he is insignificant. If you don't care, you will affect others and don't care about you.

34. Money can't buy talent, but talent is! Yes! Very! Yes! Money! Money can't measure dreams, but dreams! Very! Value! Money! Money may not buy good ideas, but it can buy good ideas! Sure! Can sell money!

When you are young, there are actually no more answers for you to choose from. There is only one reason behind various options, that is, the word "try". You choose a, and the result is an attempt. You choose B, and the result is an attempt. So when you are young, it doesn't matter what you choose. The key is that you dare to try. If you don't choose, you get points, and if you choose, you get points. This is the simplest question, but many people have gone too far on this issue.

36. No one will spend his life with the perfect person. They all choose to spend their old age with real people. Therefore, those who use "perfection" to force themselves have no future in their later years. It is more reliable to be a real person while you are young.

37. Living in this city, a lot of love, waiting, ideals, caring, and finally lost time. In fact, this city lacks everything except time. We have no time to fall in love, wait, fight for you and accompany you to the future. We always want to find a sense of security in a very short time-a sense of security that you know is not the best, but you have to compromise.

38. When people cool their tea, you will feel sad. Later, you found that others were not only left behind, but also finished their tea. You feel sad that people go to the empty building, and then you find that others not only can't see people, but also the building is taken away. A lot of things are like this. When you feel miserable, think of those who are even worse, feel bored when waiting in line, and look at the people behind you, you have to tell yourself that you are happy enough.

39. I used to complain about my bad luck when I encountered problems. Later, I understood that doing what I didn't do may lead to growth, doing what I didn't expect may be a breakthrough, doing what I don't want to do may be a change, and doing what I dare not do may be a commitment. It is natural and comfortable to do what you have been able to grasp, and it is very rewarding to do what you have never done, regardless of the outcome.

40. Many people's attitudes towards work are particularly similar to those of men towards women. They only know that they like beautiful, virtuous and well-built women. But they don't know where these women are, what they love, how to chase them, and whether they are married or not. They will never take the initiative, that woman will never be his, only you have dreamed all your life.

4 1. It is more important to find a position that is willing to train you into an excellent employee than to find a good position. It is more important to find someone who is willing to treat you as a princess rather than a prince. Whether the person you choose is good or not is very important, and more importantly, whether he treats you well or not.

42. When you face the world squarely, you will hear many voices and see many roads. It doesn't matter who makes the sound, what matters is the content in the words. It doesn't matter which road you choose, what matters is to have a good look at the scenery on the road.

43. There will always be a person in our hearts, not him, but someone else. At first, we all tortured ourselves, blamed ourselves and hated ourselves for not letting go of this person. Later, I learned that it is not that I can't let go of anyone, but that I can't let go of myself who misses each other.

44. Looking back and recording all the growing doubts, I can finally tell myself for sure that the real sense of security is to do what should be done at the right age and at the right time and let nature take its course. Don't rush forward suddenly, don't look back and forth, don't look left and right. If you do everything now, the road will naturally open.

45. I can always see that others are bad, and the bad ones are people with aesthetics in their hearts. In other words, they all have standards for their work, and they know what is good and what is bad. Most of these people are smart people, but they put too much energy into others and tell themselves how to improve. Turn critics into praises, and life will be developed.

46. In this society, a person who can only criticize does not mean that he knows much, but that he is idle, which means that he likes to stab others with a knife. When we criticize and give an antidote, please also give suggestions. This is the real helper. Don't get angry when you meet someone who just pokes and doesn't care. In the end, he will be isolated by everyone.

47. If it's really bitter, you won't have time to shout tired. If it's really hard, you have no time to feel ashamed. You have time to complain because you haven't suffered enough.

48. Once a person is lonely, he wants to find someone who can fully understand himself. Loneliness comes from knowing yourself well enough, because knowing yourself well enough, I hope the people around me are the same. If you grow up in this world, you will be more satisfied. If you always want to be a person who knows yourself completely, you are doomed to be lonely all the time. This is the price of growth.

49. There is always a time when we want to find someone like ourselves, and then we often feel that we are the most lonely in the world. Later, they said: similar people are suitable for having fun together, and complementary people are suitable for growing old together. Only to find that it is.

50. Some people will hate you because of your shortcomings, but some people will like you because of your truthfulness. We don't have to let people who don't like us like ourselves, but we must insist that people who should like us find themselves.