Prose of suffering producing sweet fruit

if we face hardships correctly, we can make them work for us. Treat hardships positively, and you will become stronger. Just like the relationship between your hand and the spring, the strength is up to you. Only by making yourself brave and full of fighting spirit will hardship yield to your hands, otherwise the result will be completely opposite.

a person, no matter who he is, will never welcome suffering from the heart. However, when suffering comes as an uninvited guest, we'd better not refuse to see it, because since it has come, it will stop at what purpose it will achieve. At this point, the best thing to do is to open the door and beat each other with your enthusiasm and courage. At this time, you will find that this guest is becoming more and more gentle and more polite to you. Finally, it will not only not make you upset or even hurt your body and mind as planned, but will sincerely give you a great gift of life-success.

As long as we face suffering positively, suffering is not terrible at all. On the contrary, it is easier to slide into the abyss of depravity without suffering.

Lincoln, one of the most famous presidents in American history, did farm work with his brother in his hometown in Kentucky when he was a teenager. At that time, the farm was still plowing the land with horses because of the limitations of the times. On this day, Lincoln led the horse in front, and his brother held the plow in the back. The horse they used was lazy. Although Lincoln led it in front, it still stopped and worked listlessly. According to this efficiency, I don't know when the corn field on the farm will be plowed. Just as Lincoln was worried about it, the horse, which had been pulling the plow slowly, suddenly walked fast.

This was beyond Lincoln's expectation, and he didn't understand what was going on until he went to the field and saw his brother pat a horsefly to death on the horse with his hand. It turned out that the bite of the horse fly made the lazy horse get up quickly.

For a person, suffering can be used to speed up his success, just like a horse fly that bites a horse. The difference is that after the horse fly is shot to death, the lazy horse will still be lazy. But a person who has experienced more and can face suffering positively will become stronger and stronger. He will become able to shuttle between sufferings with ease, and he will forge an impressive golden body in the painful "blast furnace".

In Japan in the early 2th century, a child was born in a wealthy family in Nagano Prefecture. Is he the oldest in the family? It's a bit like the tradition in China. The youngest child is the most favored. If the child is a boy, it is easy to become very naughty. He is such a child. Under the pampering of his parents, he becomes not fond of reading, only likes to be naughty, and likes to catch any "inspiration" that flashes in his mind to play tricks on others. Moreover, he often fights with children in the village, so he is often criticized and educated by teachers. Later, once, he actually stabbed the teacher with a knife.

The child has become like this, and his parents are very disappointed and regret spoiling him.

When he was 23 years old, he came to Tokyo alone. Naturally, he couldn't find a good job, and finally he got his first job as a salesman. However, when he paid the deposit and membership fee and was ready for a big fight, he realized that he had met a liar. The liar took the money away and disappeared, and he was in trouble because he had no money.

this is the biggest difficulty he has ever encountered. And what awaits him next is a more difficult situation. He spent three spring and autumn periods in this state of being unwilling to be ordinary but having to be ordinary.

When he was 26 years old, he came to Meiji Insurance Company for recruitment. The senior examiner who just returned from studying salesmanship in the United States dismissed him, only throwing out a sentence: "You can't do this job!" "

this made him very annoyed, but he thought he would fight for it. He is not convinced, let alone admit defeat. In the end, with his efforts, the company reluctantly hired him, but he was just a "trainee salesman", which was actually the lowest-level handyman: he had no salary and no desk, and the boss could ask him to do something unrelated to his business at any time. He can only get a commission by getting insurance, but unfortunately, in the first seven months of joining the company, he didn't get a list, so the company certainly didn't give him a penny.

In this case, he must find ways to save money for himself in order to keep himself alive. In order to save the fare, he stopped taking the tram to work and walked instead; In order to save money, he stopped eating lunch; In order to save rent, he sleeps on a bench in the park at night. This once "prodigal son" who was born in a rich family has become a man who is now firmly facing suffering. Although he is in adversity, he still smiles at everyone every day. He still starts to get up from the sleeping bench at 5 o'clock every morning and walks to work happily. However, it is his living condition and optimistic spirit in the face of suffering that touched his first customer, the owner of a big hotel.

Since then, his insurance promotion career has entered a brand-new period. At the end of this year, he achieved a performance of 168, yen, which made everyone in the company sit up and take notice of him. Since then, his performance has been rising, and he has finally become the first insurance salesman in the company.

This man is Yuan Yiping, who has set the record of the first national performance of Japanese insurance industry for 15 years in a row and is recognized as the "god of sales promotion" in Japan. And this person who has achieved remarkable results in his career was once a small punk who ran amok in the village at the beginning. No one expected that he could achieve such an achievement in the end, even he himself had to admit that it was suffering that changed the trajectory of his life, and it was also suffering that finally made him taste the rare sweet fruit of life.

It's just a fact that suffering befalls you, but it doesn't mean the final result. The key lies in whether you can face it squarely and then overcome it. Bravely overcome suffering! If you can do this, you will feel that your life is actually a tree that grows in the poor soil of suffering, but in the end it bears extremely sweet fruit; If you can do this, suffering will lose its original meaning in front of you, but will become a valuable capital for your success in life.