I have a friend who lives in No. 2 Bridge and is considering working at your current company. How is it there? Is there a shuttle bus?

Be thick-skinned. Don't be afraid of rejection. Create your own opportunities. Have the courage to confess. Think of girls as rubbish "What's so great about just being a woman?" Give yourself confidence

I'll give you some "methods on how to get acquainted with girls" I hope it helps

How to get acquainted A girl

Many young people think that it is difficult to get to know a girl. In fact, as a person who has experienced it, I think it is more difficult to get along with and fall in love after we have met. My marriage problems once caused my parents a lot of headaches. Now that I have achieved success, I would like to share my experience for netizens’ reference.

This topic has nothing to do with talking about military affairs, but in order to allow netizens to live, work and be patriotic correctly, I think it still has positive significance.

I declare that what I say is all from my experience and is by no means "obscene".

There are several principles explained.

When you want to get to know a girl, you must determine that she is a girl from a good family, not a street gangster. This is very, very, very important and can save you a lot of trouble. The basic method is very simple. As long as she is an office worker, there will basically be no problem.

Be bold, even if it sounds ugly, you are thick-skinned, and don’t be afraid of being looked down upon. Many gangsters have good girlfriends for this reason. So, be sure to let it go. Remember, when you talk to a girl you don't know and she's just as scared, you have absolutely no reason to be afraid. Moreover, as long as she is a good girl, the way she rejects you will not embarrass you.

A girl actually really wants someone to pursue her. Gradually you will realize that even if she has a boyfriend now, she will not reject a new suitor.

There must be tricks, but not too much. Pretending to be an honest person is the best image packaging. Of course, what happens next depends on fate and strength.

I had the experience of pursuing my deskmate when I was in middle school. Now that it has no practical significance, let’s start with college.

When I first started pursuing a girl, I just went over to talk to her. For example, if I saw a girl in the same class who was studying in the evening and she was very good, I would go over and say, "Classmate, can you come out and relax? I want to talk to you." I can say with certainty that there is no rejection 100% of the time. Later, I also helped other people connect. The classmates said this is called "raw knock".

You can do this later at work, but you have to see clearly how the other person feels about you. When I was in college, I saw a girl who looked like a student at a bus station. I looked at her, but she avoided my gaze, but looked back secretly. I thought it was funny, so I went over and asked, "Are you waiting for the bus?" She did. So she answered. I asked her name and phone number, and she told me everything. Unfortunately, she was a girl in her senior year of high school. Not only for little girls, but also for girls who are already working. The actual conversation is very simple, "Are you waiting for the bus?", "Can we get acquainted?", etc., simple but effective.

Once when I was in Beitu, I saw a very beautiful girl coming out after borrowing a book. I went over and said, "Did you borrow XXX? I also like this book very much." That's how we met.

Because I am a good judge of people, even if I was rejected, I would not be embarrassed. The most embarrassing thing was once, I said 5 or 6 words and she didn’t reply, that’s all.

When using this method, you must make eye contact with her beforehand so that she can have a basic impression of you and not make her feel too abrupt.

But there are times when I make mistakes. I often see a woman at the bus stop after work. I think she is very beautiful. As a rule, I go there after meeting her eyes.

"Miss, can I get to know you?"

"What do you want to do?"

I felt a little guilty at this time and didn't know what she meant. Even though he has experienced many battles, nervousness is inevitable.

I just pretended to be honest, "I want to be friends with you, this is... not too much!"

"Of course it's too much! You didn't see that I'm pregnant ” (The world is spinning)

Later I met her at the station on the way to work, and sure enough her belly was getting bigger and bigger.

Alas! I was in such a bad mood during those days, and I thought to myself, "Why are you so late!?"

Wanting to get to know a girl, except for being introduced by someone, is actually "raw", but because sometimes there are some skills .

"To be inspired by a scene" is to have a flash of inspiration on a specific occasion.

Once, I was waiting for the bus and it started to rain. I happened to bring an umbrella, but a girl next to me didn’t bring rain gear. suitable. I said, "Miss, let me lend you my umbrella." Seeing your kindness in helping, she must have refused in good faith, so I continued, "I'm fine with this little rain, so you can use it." She couldn't shirk it. He just said, "Let's use it together." After going back and forth, we got to know each other.

I have had the experience of getting to know girls, such as helping girls squeeze into the bus and dancing with a fan in the sweltering subway.

A very special time was in the subway. The zipper on the back of a girl's skirt was opened, revealing her flowered underwear. Everyone was watching. What should I do? I boldly went over and wrote on the newspaper, "Miss, the zipper of your skirt." I put it in front of her, and she immediately blushed, quickly zipped it up, and said softly, "Thank you." When she got off the bus, I followed her and wrote "Miss, I really want to get to know you" on the newspaper without saying anything, and placed it in front of her. It's that simple.

For a while, I was waiting for the shuttle bus, and someone from another unit was waiting for the shuttle bus in the same place. There was a girl who was very nice, but there were a bunch of light bulbs, which required some thinking. I pay attention to the direction she comes from every time, and then head 300 meters further in the direction she comes from next time, and the attack window will open. When I saw her coming, I went up to her and said, "Do you recognize me? I'm also waiting for the bus at XX Bridge." That's how we got to know each other.

"Surprise the situation" seize the favorable conditions generated in a specific environment and take decisive action. It is difficult to have a specific model for this method. It all relies on improvisation and tactics. Girls often lose their guard in certain circumstances.

Decisiveness is the most important, because opportunities arise in an instant and can be lost in an instant. A famous host was a young reporter when she first started interviewing our boss. Our colleagues all thought she was pretty good, but we couldn't talk to her. After the interview, she packed up her equipment. I thought the opportunity had come, so I hurried over and said, "I'll help you get it." She hesitated for a moment, and then one of her followers was very polite (and quite irritating), "Don't bother. We'll do it ourselves." She said, "We'll do it ourselves." Because of my mistake, my colleagues laughed at me. After reflection, I still think that it was too late to start, the interview was over, and the time left was too short. If positive action had been taken earlier, the effect might have been better.

To "make fun of things" is to act like a director and actor, cheating on girls, but there is a trick, which is to be a good director and a bad actor, so that girls can see that you are When acting, let her feel proud of exposing you, and make her think that you are cute and silly. Is this difficult to understand? Please see the actual combat below.

Through tracking, I found a girl working in the maternity hospital, probably a nurse. So I lurked on her way to get off work and deliberately created a chance encounter. Seeing her coming over, I said excitedly, "Hey! Do you remember me? You gave me a doctor." She was surprised: "How is that possible?" I said, "That's right! Have you forgotten?" "She said angrily: "I work in a maternity hospital." I immediately became more excited: "That's right! I was born in that hospital." She was happy when she heard it. At this time, I pretended to be embarrassed and said, "Why am I talking nonsense." Then I seemed sincere and stuttered: "Actually... I just want... to get to know you, but I don't have the chance to talk to you, and I don't know what to say. ..." She said: "You can't just say no, why are you going around the corner?" That's how we got to know each other.

Through this example, have you gained a new understanding of the principle of "use tricks first, show sincerity later"?

In the past, there were always perverts who disguised themselves as talent scouts from film and television companies and advertising companies to lure young girls. Can we learn from "stones from other mountains"? The following example embodies "learning and applying in practice".

The girls at Beijing Dance Academy all have good looks. The best thing is their figure, with slender legs and tall upper body. Although the breasts and buttocks are not big, they feel plump and shapely. As soon as I saw them, it was like seeing a fresh "green mango", and I wanted to pounce on them and take a bite (hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha).

That day I saw a girl who was alone, so I went over to stop her,

"Classmate, I am a planner at an advertising company. I think your temperament and image are very suitable for one of us. Are you willing to give it a try?" (How cliche)

"Yes, that's great."

I pretended to take out my business card for a long time, and finally said I didn't have it. Bring a business card, then take out a notebook and say that the business card is gone, can you please take your phone number...

Later I called her, and she asked: "Are you some kind of advertisement?" From the company?" (She must have thought carefully, I was facing a test)

I said honestly: "Please forgive me, no. I was attracted to you as soon as I saw you that day, but I was attracted to you at that time. I can't find any other way to get to know you. And I feel that I may never see you again after passing by you. I am afraid that I will leave a lifetime of regrets. Please forgive me for being rash and listen to me again on the phone. I'm really happy to hear your voice."

The result? The result is that the little beauty fell into the trap.

There is another example similar to this, so I mention it specifically because I was making a bet with someone else at the time.

Some college students went to intern in another department of our unit. There was a girl who was very cute. My colleagues challenged me, "If you can get her phone number, I'll treat you to dinner." I said, "VERY VERY EASY!" .

I picked up the phone and found her, "Are you a classmate from XX? I saw your resume and thought it was very good. We are considering it. Have you found a good employer now?"

"Not decided yet?" "Oh... Do you have more direct contact information? We will look into it and let you know." "XXXXXXXX, this is our home phone number. If I am an old man who answers it, it is my grandma. , you said you were recruited by the company, she will tell me." (It seems that the old lady is quite strict with her precious granddaughter, and she can't resist my resourcefulness)

My colleagues are not convinced and say that you are a complete loser. Liar, only if he can ask her out. I said how difficult is this!

Later I made an appointment with her to meet. As for how to say it on the phone, it was the same as the previous two cases, so I won’t go into details. You can restore our conversation now by following the steps above.

But the trouble was that the boss found out about it later and scolded him.

"Sunshine always comes after the storm." Through summary, I found that with the wonderful use of "playing the game", girls will not only not be angry, but will appreciate your wit and be moved by your sincerity.

Sometimes I am really moved by the innocence of girls from good families, and I am also worried about their innocence. Fortunately, I am not a pervert, otherwise, there would be so many corpses and many injustices!

"Pull out teeth from the tiger's mouth". It's scary to hear this name, maybe it's a bit too much, but this is my most proud move, please see the actual combat below.

The securities company where I opened an account has a pretty good girl at the capital window, but she is surrounded by her colleagues and surrounded by a bunch of customers handling business. How should I start? It felt a bit like pulling teeth out of a tiger's mouth.

I frowned, thinking about it. I queued up as if waiting for business. When I got there, I handed her a piece of paper and said, "Miss, I have a question, can you answer it?" She spread it out and said, "Miss, I am a customer of this company and I have been paying attention to you for a long time. You are a very good girl and I want to get to know you. Can you give me your phone number?" She hesitated slightly and wrote on the paper. I wrote a few words on the note and handed it back. At that time, my heart was beating loudly. If she refused, she would have failed. But when I opened it, I saw "XX, XXXXXXXX", including her name and phone number. Hey! Done!

Is it that simple? There are simpler ones!

When I go to a company to do business, I see that the receptionist is very beautiful. What should I do? I took out my cell phone and dialed the number in front of her. I had already detected her name through her "dog tag". "XX, I am a customer of your company. I think you are a very good girl. Can I buy you coffee after get off work?" "But I don't know you." "I often come to your company to do business, but you never pay attention. Me. But if you want to know who I am now, just look up.

"She raised her head and happened to see me placing a cool POSS not far from her. I shook my phone slightly towards her and said, "How's it going? I'll wait for you at XX after get off work. ""All right. "? Niu.

Some people may wonder, "Is it that simple? Girls are so gullible. "Answering this question involves a basic principle, that is, all of these are tricks for girls from good families. They are kind-hearted, so they are often easily confused. Similar to shrews, female gangsters, and pheasants, they only know money, and those who pretend to be rich are Difficult; on the contrary, it is easy to pretend to be sincere, chic, and profound, and girls from good families are often deceived by this.

It is similar to the method of "pulling teeth from the tiger's mouth". As long as the target is determined to be a girl from a good family, the chance of winning is often great. , even if the other party refuses, no one will know about it, and I will not be embarrassed.

This is my most secret killer move, specially dedicated to netizens. Think about it, what other occasion can I "pull out a tooth from a tiger's mouth"?

I once said to netizens, “Vibrant things don’t last long, only mediocre things are real. "This is my personal experience. This involves the most original and practical way to find friends, "a thread of connection".

I went to a work unit and talked with a eldest sister in her 40s. At this age The eldest sister always has the urge to drag the girls around her down. I thought the girl next door was good, so I asked her directly, "Who is that girl over there?" "It's our financial director." ""oh! Sorry to ask, does she have any friends? "The eldest sister's eyes immediately flashed. "Are you interested in her? Let me ask you? "That's great!" "In this way, life-long matters are resolved in this moment.

Some people ask, since you know so many people, why didn't you decide your life earlier? This is what I want to remind you, it is the matter of picking up girls that you have done too much. Addicted, this will delay things! At first, I am timid, but later I become bolder and more experienced, and I will become addicted after practicing too many times. I often want to chase a beautiful girl when I see one, and sometimes I will be interested in 2 or 3 at a time. Although girls from good families are easy to get along with, they are also very sensitive emotionally. She will notice if you are distracted even a little bit when you are dating her. Moreover, because it is too easy to get to know girls, remember not to overdo it. Pursue!

Writing this, I am summarizing the principles.

The most fundamental thing is to choose a girl from a good family. This is not only because it is easy to get started, but also because it is a good choice. The basic conditions for finding a partner. As far as the acquaintance stage is concerned, a girl from a good family at least knows how to refuse politely and will not embarrass you. Such a girl is more suitable for netizens who are still in the early stages of their career. Therefore, you must learn to look at the nature of people. , this is so important, but there are no specific standards, you can only explore it in practice.

I also have this experience. When I first started to interact with girls, I was really nervous and uncontrollable. , I felt that my smile was stiff, but it gradually got better. Even if I failed and was looked down upon, I would laugh at myself and say, "I'm sorry, I got the wrong person!" "Hurry up and run away, who knows the embarrassing things?

Netizens who talk about military affairs often say how to fight with Taiwanese independence elements and Japanese pirates. If you think about it carefully, a girl is 1,000 times gentler than those bad guys. Times, if you are nervous about dating girls, how can you start talking about the great cause of reunification?

Getting rid of the nervousness requires a process, which is the growth of social experience. You may have experienced it when you just left school. I am often nervous when applying for jobs or negotiating business in unfamiliar places. As my experience increases, the temperament of a so-called mature man will naturally show up. My experience is that at first, I feel that girls are superior. Later, I became condescending, and I often guessed what girls were thinking, and it was because of this that I had no specific way to overcome the initial nervousness. What should you do if you repeatedly make up your mind but finally give up? Find a good friend to talk to. He will definitely encourage you and even help you. With help and encouragement, you will finally take the first step. In the first step, you will find that the seemingly insurmountable mountain is just a hurdle.

Remember, you must be full of passion for the girl you like, but you must have a show-off mentality when you attack. , because excessive enthusiasm will often cause your performance to be abnormal! Pay attention to your appearance, keep your facial expression calm, and don't smile too much.

You can understand this development process through the description of an ace pilot in World War II: "I was very excited when I took off for the first time in combat, but when I encountered an enemy plane in the air for the first time, I was extremely nervous. What? I didn't care anymore, I just tried my best to follow my lead aircraft. For this, I got the first compliment, "The formation is maintained very well"! It was different after that. Every time I took off, I shot down a few more! I have the urge to fly enemy planes, and this has become easier, because I can find out which one is the novice in the enemy formation. As soon as he is alone, he will be in danger. I am glad that I was wise enough to follow the lead aircraft when I was a novice. It is very dangerous and difficult to fight against the enemy's trump card. Sometimes after a long fight, I barely have the strength to step out of the cabin after landing..."

There is also the need to "learn and use it flexibly, and fight with others" Keep pace with the times." I have my own preferences, and my experience with girls from good families may not be applicable to other types of girls; it may work well for Beijing girls, but it may not work for Shanghai girls. We must change the enemy and ourselves.

The reality has changed a lot compared to the days when I was pursuing girls. I have to analyze new problems and find new solutions based on principles.

How to continue writing secret tips for picking up girls in the Internet age, text message age, and car age is also a question I am considering.

There are often reports that a certain criminal used online chat to deceive or even kill many girls. I was always puzzled at first. Why are these girls so easy to be fooled? Later, I summarized my own experience and found that most girls fantasize about romantic love, are easily deceived by sweet words or vows of eternal love, and easily believe in seemingly sincere promises. Society has entered the information age, but the nature of girls has not changed.

Some websites have text message dating channels. I think this is the most ruinous place for girls. It goes against a woman's nature to let a girl scream "I want a date" like a cat meowing in spring. When a boy takes the initiative to date, a girl will inevitably face a bunch of applicants, and she is often spoiled for choice. In the end, it becomes a competition of height, appearance, and financial resources, and it is difficult to win. But since there is such an opportunity, netizens can still give it a try. I'm considering whether to write a "how to date again" for netizens to refer to in order to seize the short-term performance opportunity.

I think the biggest difficulty is that girls today are more open-minded than before and make friends earlier. It's like you are commanding an army and need to attack a target where the enemy's situation is unknown, or attack a strongly fortified enemy, which is very difficult. This requires you to show your courage, mobilize your wisdom, and seize the missed opportunities.

Thankfully, the more tutored, high-quality, and good-looking girls are, the more picky they are. This problem is illustrated by the increasing number of single white-collar workers in the city.

So, as long as you face all problems with a positive attitude, you will gain something.

How can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain!