Who is the best person not to befriend in the countryside, as far away as possible?

Let me say a few words for reference only.

There are many idle people among the peasants, and it is easy to get rid of them. I think it's better not to be intimate friends with these people.

1, wandering, eating, drinking, fighting, doing nothing, staring blankly, ignorant of civilization, unreasonable, the countryside is called a loafer.

Don't make friends with young people who have no revenge, no ideals, love learning, work hard and start a business. They are full of friends and friends, ignorant. Life is responsible and requires hard work. Life is a process of carrying a heavy load. Work hard early and relax early.

Don't talk to people who are full of right and wrong, saying that parents lack affection, provoke others' relatives and make friends. A family needs harmony and stability, so that we can have the energy to think about how to do something. Every day, in the right and wrong between people, my thoughts are bound and I can't get out.

4. Don't befriend those who despise others. There is a lot of envy and jealousy in the countryside. When you do better than them, you won't be blessed or praised, but you will be good enough to see others, a hidden evil. Go out for a walk. People say you are quite free. When you get dressed, people say that you have made money, and you are very proud. You invite people to dinner, but people say you are ugly anyway.

Although the rural economy lags behind the cities, it is also a place where the hidden dragon crouches tiger and the genuine fish are mixed. If you want to live well in the countryside, you'd better stay away from the following people:

First of all, we must stay away from gossip. Although the countryside is economically backward, it is also a place with many rights and wrongs. Especially in rural areas, a group of old ladies are very busy when they are busy, but whenever they are free, they will stir up the whole village with their mouths, which is what rural people call "mother-in-law", that is, what you said in front of one person, and another person changed your words to a third person, and the third person will oppose you. In such a village, chickens fly and dogs jump because of this. Our neighbor is such a woman, and her way of survival is to curry favor with village cadres. I remember a woman in our village (call her Xiao Wang for the time being) said in front of her, "Our village head takes care of his sister-in-law." I didn't mean anything by it, just telling the truth. She changed this sentence into "someone in our village said you were having an affair with your sister-in-law" and told the village chief, so the village chief's wife angrily asked Xiao Wang for responsibility. Xiao Wang didn't say that, so naturally he didn't admit it. Then he took the village chief's wife to gossip with the women in the village. Everyone talked about the lives of three women. As a result, three women got together and began to cry and sing in the village. Therefore, if you want to live a quiet and smooth life in the countryside, you must avoid these gossips, otherwise you will be entangled.

Second: We must avoid those unreasonable village tyrants. Although there are fewer such people in the village now, there are still such people in every village. It is extremely unreasonable for such people to bully the weak and fear the hard in the village. Some people think that attaching to these people in the village may make their life easier, but they often shoot themselves in the foot. Zhao Laosi in our village is a particularly unreasonable village bully, and everyone in the village avoids their home. Later, a family named Wang moved to this village. This family is new here, perhaps afraid of being bullied by the villagers. In order to live a better life in the village, they turned to the bully. So their family seems to be the servants of the village tyrant, serving their family for free. But after half a year, I don't know why, but the bully family took the family named Wang into the hospital. Therefore, the villagers all say that you should never associate with those unreasonable bullies, or you will always suffer.

Third: Never associate with people who love to drink, but you can't drink well. Some people think that if you want to have a wide range of friends, you must make friends with people who love to drink. However, I think the place where people drink is often the place with the most right and wrong, especially when they meet some people who can't drink well. Our neighbor Xiao Wang is a great drinker, and he can't hold his liquor well. He also likes to invite friends to their house for drinks, so a group of drunkards get drunk and then fight in their house! Once, a young man got drunk and hooked up with little Wang Gan. When he punched down, Xiao Wang's front teeth disappeared. From then on, the two families became strangers who ignored each other. So, I think, if you want to make less trouble in the village, you'd better stay away from people who can't drink well.

In addition, we must stay away from those who don't take the right path, do illegal things and gamble, because once we get involved with these people, we will also be dragged down by them. In a word, rural life is a palette. If you want a better life, you should draw where you should, and don't scribble where you shouldn't, otherwise it will be a mess.

Rural areas are different from cities, where people have little contact. Even neighbors who have been separated from each other for decades may just be nodding acquaintances, but the countryside is different. Relatives, families and neighbors in rural areas are more complicated, and there are many things that reciprocate and help each other at ordinary times, so the relationship will be more complicated; Therefore, we should pay more attention to interpersonal communication and avoid offending others or even getting into trouble because of trivial matters. So, who should the countryside stay away from? In my opinion, the following three kinds of people are not worthy of deep friendship, and the farther away from them, the better.

1, befriend face to face and gossip behind your back.

The enthusiasm of rural people is vividly reflected, but some people have a good face-to-face relationship with you and talk to each other for a long time. But in a blink of an eye, he will speak ill of you behind your back, even out of thin air, maliciously slander you, and embellish your comments on other families with the client, thus worsening your relationship with the client. There are many such little people in the countryside, so you should be careful. The best way is not to criticize the third party behind his back, nor to chat with people who often criticize the third party behind his back. In rural areas, many people who are used to taking surnames are also swords and shadows.

2. Country bullies

Village bully looks awesome. In fact, we should stay away from them. In fact, the country has been emphasizing the elimination of evil. Maybe one day, we will target village tyrants. In order to avoid getting involved, we should stay away from them. At the same time, village tyrants often bully honest people, and honest people will get angry, so be careful.

3. People addicted to gambling

Gambling is very popular in some rural villages, such as playing mahjong, craps and pushing Pai Jiu, and the stakes are high. Some people are addicted to this kind of gambling, so we should try to stay away from it. Because gamblers are more and more psychological, they will squander if they win, and make a big bet if they lose, hoping to get back to their money. When we lose everything, we will borrow money from people around us, and we must resolutely stay away from such people.

Generally speaking, rural people have diverse personalities and complicated relationships, so they should stay away from some people in the process of communication so as not to get into unnecessary trouble.