Is it really good to be kind to everyone?

Emerson once said, "Your kindness should have some edge." . Kindness is as beautiful as a rose, but it needs a thorn. So, there is no need to be nice to everyone.

First of all, kindness is a virtue. As a person, we still have to choose to be a kind person, because kindness will not fail you after all.

Secondly, our kindness should have a bottom line. Because intelligence without kindness is cunning, and kindness without right and wrong is stupid. The bottom line of kindness helps you protect yourself while being kind to others.

Kindness does not mean that you want to be a bad person, but that you have to submit to humiliation and bear the burden; Nor does it need to be kind to others and value peace without principles; What's more, there is no need to ignore the facts, blindly praise and applaud loudly. You can be kind to everyone, because your kindness can help others and inspire others; But kindness is not weakness, you are not easy to bully, nor are you blindly tolerant and submissive. When you are too stupid to use kindness, these kindness are more like thorns in others' eyes. This kind of thorn is as sharp as a sword, which will not only hurt the opponent, but also become a sharp weapon in the opponent's hand, instead of hurting his whole body.

Third, please learn to love yourself before being kind to everyone. Only by learning to love yourself can we love others better. Let them know that they are good to you and you will be good to them. If they are just hypocritical, just hypocritical friendship, just a moral kidnapping between your lips and teeth, then please put away your kindness to them, pick up your shield and weapon, and guard your kindness with your heart.

Finally, Zhang Xiaoxian said: There will always be people who regard your kindness as bullying, your pity as dullness, your tolerance as clumsiness and your behavior as cowardice. However, each of us has our own world and sky, so if others think you are not kind enough, let him go! It's good to have your own sky. You can get rid of those people who think you are not kind. Don't let that haze cover your blue sky!