How to deal with family and friends falling into illegal pyramid schemes

What should relatives and friends do if they fall into pyramid schemes? What should I pay attention to?

What matters should be paid attention to when rescuing relatives and friends who persuade to return to MLM?

1: Don't make public, because "the dirty linen can't be published", the MLM victim cut off his "contacts", that is, "financial contacts", and will hate you because of your "publicity".

2. Don't mention the word "MLM" and use the word "industry" instead, because MLM personnel hate others to mention the word "MLM", which will lead to the breakdown of the relationship.

3. If your relatives and friends are "wavering" about pyramid schemes, I suggest you show them on the Internet or in the media according to the pyramid schemes that TA is engaged in or relevant laws and regulations. You can also call this site to explain the areas and types your relatives and friends are engaged in, so that our teachers can persuade the victims by phone or QQ, free of charge (of course, you should express your feelings to this site voluntarily, and we are very grateful. )

4. For those MLM victims who are deeply trapped in the control freedom of pyramid selling in the north and deeply believe in pyramid selling, remember not to try to persuade them, which will only lead to the breakdown of the relationship, and the victims will resent, reject and resist. Because your practice was emphatically explained when the MLM organization brainwashed the newcomers, it belongs to the kind of performance that is not "reasonable" and "self-righteous".

People who are obsessed with relatives and friends should have a "curious" and "neutral" attitude, so that they will think that they can develop you or persuade you to associate with you, so as to find a solution.

6. For MLM victims who need to ask professionals to help and persuade them, the identity of the professionals must be kept secret, and their persuasion motives should not be revealed. Because let the victim know that you need someone to persuade him, TA will think that you treat him as a patient and TA "feels good" about himself. At the same time, they think that the anti-descendants are "people who belong to the national macro-control industry" according to their organizations.

7. Professional teachers will "package" an identity intervention for themselves according to the actual situation after meeting with the help seekers for details, so as to avoid the rejection, resistance and vigilance of the victims. Because MLM victims have strong insight and observation, they will not easily talk about "industry" with strangers.

What should friends and relatives do if they fall into pyramid schemes?

In the impression of many friends, MLM still stays in the 1990s, as if it is far away from us. When our relatives, friends and classmates fall into pyramid schemes, we exclaim: How is pyramid schemes so close to us? Yes, MLM is around us, and MLM is everywhere! This is by no means alarmist. Now, from the bustling metropolis to the small county town in the hinterland, you can see the activities of MLM personnel. When our relatives and friends are in close contact with illegal pyramid schemes, many friends feel at a loss and don't know how to deal with them. So what should we do when relatives and friends are caught in illegal pyramid schemes? I often encounter such problems when I do anti-MLM consultation and help. Below I will share my long-term experience in anti-MLM with you. I hope you will criticize and correct me, and * * * will work hard for anti-MLM.

For those relatives and friends who have just fallen into illegal pyramid schemes and have not joined them, don't worry too much. Generally, there is no danger to their lives (special reminder: online recruitment of college students in Dongguan, Shaoguan and other places in Guangdong, recruitment of actors, makeup artists and art students in Gaobeidian, Dingzhou, Bazhou and Gu 'an in Hebei, fake Tiens in Fujian, and fake Tiens in Huainan, Xi 'an, Weinan, Sanmenxia, Henan and Xiangfan, Hubei). At this stage, I can't contact my family members, so I call the police myself or go to find them in person, and I don't have a specific address. I am worried about the personal safety of my relatives or friends. This is understandable, but it's no use worrying. What they have to do at this time may be to wait anxiously. After waiting for a week or so, "missing" relatives or friends will take the initiative to contact their families. If he or she is still awake, not brainwashed, and insists on leaving, then MLM organization. If he (she) has been brainwashed and accepted that set of fallacies, he (she) really thinks that he (she) can earn millions in the MLM organization in the future (of course, at this time, he (she) will take the initiative to cooperate with the MLM organization and deceive his family to get online payment (entry fee). At this time, he (she) did not feel guilty about cheating his family and thought it was a rare opportunity. When they cheat money from home, they often find some excuses, such as entering the factory for training, repaying the mortgage, buying a computer, opening a shop, doing business, contracting, and even doing whatever it takes to achieve their goals. They will use sudden diseases, appendicitis and other acute diseases and need immediate surgery; Driving (riding) an accident, hitting someone, etc. The amount of money needed ranges from thousands to tens of thousands (chain sales and pyramid schemes in the south need more money). Of course, some MLM organizations are similar to kidnapping when asking for money, which is a threat. If they don't give money within the prescribed time limit, they will do whatever they want. Moreover, when making a phone call, your relatives or friends will take the initiative to cooperate, pretending to cry on the phone, or being beaten, putting psychological pressure on their families and forcing them to send money. At this time, we must just hold our horses. You must understand that this is just a performance organized by MLM. Your relatives or friends didn't actually do anything. As long as we don't give him or her money, he or she can't join (MLM must pay the membership fee to become an internal member) and won't participate. If you can't join, after a period of time, when he (she) is of no use value, the MLM organization will take the initiative to let people go. Of course, it should be noted that all channels through which he or she can borrow money should be blocked in time, and all relatives and friends should be informed not to lend him or her money.

Our relatives or friends fell in and joined in. What should we do?

First of all, be calm, don't be impulsive, don't blame him (her) blindly, and don't scold him rudely. Learn to understand, it's not his (her) fault, it's those black-hearted net heads. There is nothing wrong with his (her) desire for change and pursuit of wealth, but he (she) chose the wrong path and was used and deceived by others. So what we have to do now is to guide him (her) on the right track. You should change the way you speak. Don't talk too much if you are not sure to convince the other party. The more you talk, the more disgusted he (she) will be. You should learn to reconcile, but reconciliation does not mean recognition. Blaming blindly can only make the two sides more and more antagonistic, which will not help solve the problem. The more antagonistic, the more rebellious, and the less you will look back. You can't threaten to break up or break up. You can only make his (her) "belief" more firm, because he (she) has no way out, and "death" will go out from that "industry". Therefore, we should "move with emotion, understand with reason", move with emotion, pull with emotion, pay more attention to him (her), express your worries, and remind him (her) not to just bury his head in pulling the car, but to look up at the road and be more careful. There are too many liars now. You are afraid of being cheated for him (her). Convince people by reasoning, put facts and reason, expose the beautiful lies of pyramid schemes, and let him or her know the truth. It's difficult, so you can ask professionals from the anti-MLM headquarters to do it.

In desperation, it cut off his (her) popularity chain and capital chain. Destroy his (her) invitation market and ask all relatives and friends not to go. Many friends often have a lot of worries when they just get the news that relatives and friends are doing pyramid schemes. It is extremely wrong to wash one's dirty linen in public. To save face, they don't want to talk about it. Your silence will only make more people deceived, because your friends and relatives who do pyramid schemes can't deceive you, and he (she) can deceive other unsuspecting friends and relatives, which will only make him (her) deeper and deeper. All relatives and friends should be informed immediately not to go, and don't send him or her money to destroy his or her invitation market. This is a vicious move, just as the MLM organization emphasized "cutting off the back road" when inviting them. Every MLM organization has to pay different living expenses in 6 yuan to buy daily necessities and pay telephone bills, so their daily expenses exceed 65,438+00 yuan, and some even more. If he (she) spends all his money, he (she) can't fool anyone (no development, no salary), and he (she) has to leave in disgrace. (Note: destroying the market is a vicious move, and MLM organizations are most afraid of this move. They kill people who destroy their market. Lovers should use it with caution and tell it in secret, otherwise it will lead to revenge such as breaking up. )

Secondly, if you want to rescue your relatives and friends caught in pyramid schemes in time after doing the above two things, you can go in person, and it is better for your parents to come forward, because pyramid scheme addicts are stubborn and they will not come back willingly, so you can bring his or her parents (only one of them, but one with strength) and bring them back by force. Before you go, you must gain his (her) trust. Don't arouse his (her) suspicion, just say to see him (her), and don't say how many people you went to, just say to go alone. If you say that there are many people going, it will arouse their suspicion. It is possible that after you arrive at your destination, the MLM organization will not let him (her) pick you up. Don't tell him (her) when you will arrive at the station before you go, just say that you will go soon. Because this will buy more time for you and your party, you can contact the police at the railway station or the industrial and commercial bureau immediately after getting off the bus and ask for their help. When your relatives and friends are stubborn, the police or comrades in the industrial and commercial bureau can help persuade and help save them.

When everything is connected, you can call him (her) and tell him (her) that you have arrived at the railway station, so that he (she) can pick you up. Of course, in order to ensure the success of the rescue, you can buy a return train ticket first and call him or her two or three hours before the train starts to pick him or her up, so that you can get ready to take him or her on the bus in time if you can't convince him or her, so as to avoid the longer the delay, the worse your rescue will be. When he (she) comes to pick you up, one person stands at the exit and others hide, otherwise you will find that there are too many people to pick you up. Generally, there are two people when MLM organizations come to pick people up. In addition to the referee, there is also a "friend". These two men are easy to deal with. You can take them to the police station or the industrial and commercial bureau immediately and let the police and industrial and commercial personnel persuade and educate them. You can also contact the staff of the anti-MLM headquarters in advance to help convince him or her on the phone.

Of course, our rescue may not be smooth sailing, and we will encounter various unexpected situations. In these cases, first, we must be calm and try to get in touch with anti-MLM professionals in time and ask them for advice; Secondly, we should try our best to get more help. Police, industry and commerce, taxi drivers and even passers-by are all forces that can help you. At a critical juncture, especially when a large number of people from MLM organizations are "chasing and intercepting" and won't let you take your relatives and friends, or your relatives and friends are stubborn and unwilling to leave, we should make a fuss, call the police, ask passers-by for help loudly, and take the initiative to seek all available forces. We must believe that evil will not suppress justice, and justice will always be on our side. If our voice is higher than theirs, what they do is shameful, and they will naturally feel guilty and slip away quietly.

In the process of being forcibly taken away, maybe your relatives or friends who are obsessed with pyramid schemes will try their best to resist, because he (she) will think that you are a stumbling block on his (her) road to success, destroy his (her) good deeds and block his (her) financial path. At this time, you must be patient and seek the help of flight attendants or police along the way to prevent him (her) from escaping. You can't go home lightly.