Should my sister be beaten or scolded for disobedience?

Beating and cursing is not the best or preferred method to deal with my sister's disobedience. Here are some more effective suggestions:

1. Understanding and respect: First of all, we must understand and respect the sister's personality and emotions. She may have her own thoughts and feelings and need peaceful and understanding communication.

2. Establish positive communication: establish positive communication with your sister to understand her needs and feelings. Through frank dialogue, find out the root of the problem and jointly find a solution.

3. Give positive feedback and encouragement: Give positive feedback and encouragement when your sister behaves well or makes the right decision. This will help to build her self-confidence and enhance her willingness to take active actions.

4. Set clear expectations and rules: Set clear expectations and rules with your sister, explain the importance of these rules, and explain the possible consequences of not following the rules. Ensure that these rules are based on respect and understanding, not punishment or authority.

5. Provide guidance and support: provide support and guidance when my sister faces difficulties or challenges. Help her learn the ability to solve problems and learn how to keep a positive attitude in difficulties.

6. Example: As a parent or guardian, set a positive example for your sister through your own behavior and attitude. Show how to deal with problems in a mature and respectful way and how to express your views and feelings.

In short, when dealing with disobedience, the key is to establish a positive interactive relationship through understanding, communication, guidance and support. Avoid using punitive methods, such as beating and cursing, because this may damage the trust relationship with your sister and lead to more problems.