Why do you want to be a glib woman?

Most successful people are eloquent, while most unsuccessful people are not good at talking. If you learn to speak (believe me, you can certainly learn to speak), you will succeed. If you think you are already a successful person, if you can speak better than now, you will be more successful.

1. shows sufficient understanding. We like to talk with people who can understand us best, because they clearly express that they care not only about what you say, but also about your feelings. When you tell people that you have changed your new job, you hope they will say, "Oh! Great! " Instead of saying, "Oh, really?"

Expressing a sense of humor is popular everywhere, and it is no exception in conversation. The "rule" of a speech is-don't keep a straight face for too long. Don't mind joking with yourself. In fact, people who are best at talking with others often tell some small jokes about themselves.

3. Have your own conversation style. An important feature of a conversationalist is his unique style and effective communication. I suggest you find the most comfortable way to speak, and then give full play to it.

Finally, please shut up. No matter how talkative you are, sometimes it's better to shut up than to talk. If your intuition tells you, it is better to say less, then bear it!

The following is the positioning of several women in different occupations on their own way of speaking.

Miss Ding, 25, is a TV host. My personality is extroverted, and I have rich facial expressions when I speak. Moreover, proper gestures can not only make the whole person look vivid, but also make people feel approachable, which can help me get into the role quickly when I go out for an interview and bring the conversation into a certain atmosphere. Sound is very important for a person's external decoration, but it is often easily overlooked. So I think everyone should pay attention to the shaping of their own voice. Without training in this field, they can gradually find their own way of speaking through usual observation and accumulation.

Miss Zhang, 28 years old, is the manager of the company. I usually speak slowly and softly. My biggest feature is that I love to laugh. My friends say I seem to be laughing when I don't talk. An important condition for me to recruit a company secretary is that my voice should be soft and kind, and I can't have bad speaking habits. Because when answering the customer's phone, Miss Li deals with people through language, which represents the image of the company and is not sloppy at all. When I was a salesman in a training company, I also emphasized that when selling products to customers, we should pay attention to communication and observe whether customers are listening to your introduction. If you find that the other person doesn't keep up with your thoughts, you should adjust your language in time.

Miss Yao, 24, is a graduate student at school. Gentle and introverted, speaking and doing things slower than others. A common reaction to me is that I speak slowly, which I think can express myself more clearly. The relationship between classmates in school is relatively simple. I talk to my classmates directly and don't have to worry too much about what I say. At a party, a friend was in pain because of his lovelorn love. Everyone was trying to persuade him. I didn't think he should get stuck in it, so I spoke to him in front of everyone. After I came back, an elderly friend kindly advised me not to speak too straight in the future. But I think people should say what they are. If I suddenly become self-serious now, my classmates will definitely think that I have been hit by something. I like my sincerity and enthusiasm now, but this does not prevent me from adjusting myself according to the needs of the environment in the future.