My date was cheated. What should I do?

It's uncomfortable and depressing. This post should be regarded as the release of my mind. If there is a drawer that can be read, I also thank you from the bottom of my heart for listening to my story.

The problem is, I am a girl, and so is my date. We are currently a senior majoring in international trade. It's been more than two years since I first realized that it's almost time to run in, thinking that the other party can really work hard for the future. In the last year, I rented a house at school for a year. She wants to take a psychology exam, but I'm fine. My uncle started a foreign trade company and can go directly to work in Foshan, Guangdong.

Just two or three months ago, she tried autumn tricks at school. Her spoken English is excellent, her expressive ability is strong, her emotional intelligence is high, and she always smiles optimistically, so she has also been offer by many foreign trade salesmen. At this point, she intends to give up the postgraduate entrance examination and take part in the work directly. At the same time, our company is also recruiting. My little brother asked me to go to school and find some better students to apply. I think she gave up the postgraduate entrance examination and applied for a job as a foreign trade salesman (she told me before that she didn't like the major of international trade), so I want to recommend her to my little brother's company for a trial interview (in fact, I am selfish, and I want her to be with me, and the treatment given by our company is better than that of most enterprises in autumn). Of course, she won the offer of our company by virtue of her excellent strength, and I am very happy to know this news. But at this time, she has another enterprise that she really wants to go to, which is a joint venture of CIMC Shilianda. In Shenzhen, Guangdong, the treatment is also good.

She chooses between my home and Shenzhen, and her family also wants her to go to Shenzhen. After weighing, she chose Shenzhen. I told her that I was sad that she didn't choose me, but she said that this was her life and her choice should be respected. I agreed, picked up my mobile phone and sent a message to my little brother saying that she might have gone to another enterprise in Shenzhen. At this time, she stopped me and said that she had thought about not liking the atmosphere of that enterprise in Shenzhen. I saw that she was hesitant, so I made a comparative analysis with her about our company and that one. Later, it was found that our company was not worse than there except for a private enterprise. She also feels that it is more because I am here, at least I will not be alone when I am wronged. So she finally chose our company and pushed away Shenzhen. My little brother told me that the students he recruited must be treated like me. I also believed it, patting my chest and telling her that I would never treat her badly. She will be more stable in our company and will not be fired so easily.

But just two days ago, our company suddenly sent her a private letter, saying that she was informed to cancel the offer because of the company or something. She was confused, and the screenshot was sent to me as soon as possible. I was also confused. She felt a great blow and deception! Think I used her to cheat her from the beginning. What about me? I have been trained by my brother for more than ten years, and my tuition and living expenses are all paid by my brother. I trusted him very much, but at this moment, my faith collapsed.

I don't know what to do. I called my brother to confirm the situation. He said that this is a two-way selection process, and it is normal for companies to choose candidates. This is the cruelty of the workplace. But I think this is wrong! This is a credibility problem, which is caused by the company's unexpected good planning!

I called my date again, and she was very angry, crying and cursing over and over again. I was shivering and cold. I hesitated for a long time and could only say "I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I didn't know this would happen, I didn't know this was the result", and then I listened to her shouting goodbye and cursing again and again until I hung up the phone. Looking at her on WeChat and qq over and over again, I feel very distressed and uncomfortable. I listened to all this with great sadness until she deleted me. At that time, I really hoped it was a dream.

Later, I endured sadness, pretended to be calm, and asked my brother-in-law, no, the company boss compensated. I think this is the only thing I can do for her. I really don't know what to do. Finally, the company also promised to give 2000 compensation for the follow-up job search. However, when I asked her on WeChat, she decisively refused. . . . . .

Looking at people who have been together for two years, they stumbled and finally planned their future, but suddenly they became strangers. She suspected that I was plotting against her, and I was very sad. I lost seven pounds in two days, and I was shivering every night. Why did we get along with each other for two years and suddenly become like this? Now consider giving up.