How is the difference in growth rate after graduation caused?

College graduates are faced with the choice of life, how to choose their own life direction, the trouble of forming a family and so on. I didn't feel this way when I was in college. After graduation, various problems followed. How should we face this dilemma and how to solve this thorny problem? Maybe you still think you are just a child, and these problems are still far away from us. Maybe you will feel that everything will be all right in the end, or you can muddle along as usual in college. Or you are ready to go to Ma Pingchuan.

When we stepped into the society, we found that the society in the ivory tower was just a joke. As the saying goes: "the ideal is full, and the reality is very skinny." When I came out, I found that everything had changed and I felt that every place was so strange. At this time, you should not complain or make excuses, but pack your luggage and find your own direction in the distance. Ten years later, you will find that your former classmates have become different, and they can't believe their changes. So what causes the changes between classmates to be so great that some people become more successful and others become more "ordinary citizens"? Let's start with the reason.

Ability: Everyone's ability varies widely. Some people are suitable for this and some people are suitable for that. In short, you are good at one thing. After graduation, we should recognize our own abilities and specialties, so as to give full play to all our talents and better integrate into society. If you do a job you don't like, then your future will certainly not be too bright. If you do what you like, you can definitely visit Ma Pingchuan on the way (provided that you are willing to work hard). A clear understanding of your abilities will definitely make you grow faster than others after graduation.

Positioning: The problem that every graduate faces after graduation is how to give himself a good positioning. There are many people who use their effective advertising words to "talk less and do more", but in fact college students are just the opposite. How to give yourself a good position? When you go out for an internship in your senior year, you should pay more attention to what you will do, where your limits are, what society really needs and what you have. Knowing this, you can almost give yourself a good position. After giving yourself a position, you will know what you should do, what you need to learn, what you need to make up for, and realize your own shortcomings, so that change is feasible. In this way, your growth speed will be greatly accelerated.

Attitude: Graduated from university, young, not knowing much about society. Give you a job and you start to find fault with it. What kind of achievements can you make? You should put down your attitude. Although you graduated from college, you are only a pupil in society. Let go of your attitude and learn how to survive better in society with an open mind. Whenever a new bad environment appears, the person who changes his attitude first must run ahead. You grow up faster than others, and the decisive factor is that you should change your attitude of "being the only one" and learn from others with an open mind.

Opportunity: In addition to the "hard conditions" mentioned above, there are also "soft conditions" that affect us, that is, environment and opportunity. I think when a person's efforts reach a certain level, the opportunities in your life will follow. It is also important to have a good opportunity (such as meeting someone who has a great influence on your life and pointing out a way for your confused life), which will increase your growth speed. So opportunity is also an important factor that affects your growth.

Environment: the environment has the greatest influence on people and is the least easy to find. If you accept it, you can only go with the flow. If you create an environment for yourself, then you can absorb the good aspects of people around you and discard the unfavorable factors, so as to achieve yourself better.

There are many factors that affect the difference in growth rate after graduation. I only realize part of it, and the rest needs to be discovered by yourself. Others will always be others.

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