What should I do if my classmates take this incident of mine as a joke?

This happened in March 2019. I was the director of the human resources department in a chemical company. Yawen was my subordinate. She was mainly responsible for the recruitment department!

When I received the information about the job fair of Beijing University of Chemical Technology, there was only one day left. Because Beijing University of Chemical Technology is a key institution in the construction of the 211 Project and the 985 Advantageous Discipline Innovation Platform, the company leaders attached great importance to it and asked me to participate in person. I decided to take Yawen with me on a business trip. As soon as the staff would arrive, I quickly booked the first high-speed train the next morning.

I found out at night: G520 needs to get on the train at Hankou Station. The company is in Wuchang, so I have to get up an hour earlier.

We set off at 5:30 the next morning, but the car broke down on the road. We almost stepped on the high-speed rail, but it was closed when we got on.

We took a breath at the door and then started looking for seats. Yawen and I were seated next to each other, me by the window and she by the aisle. Yawen was in front. When he found his seat, he found that there was already someone on the seat. He had a big belly. He looked like a pregnant woman, and she was not yet a month old.

After Yawen saw this, she immediately put her finger on her mouth and said "shush", and she signaled me not to say that the seat was already occupied.

The pregnant woman seemed very tired and kept her eyes slightly closed. After I entered, she closed her eyes again and rested.

I gestured to Yawen and asked her: "What should you do?", and she gestured back to me, meaning that she was going to the restaurant to try her luck.

I signaled to her to come back if she couldn't find a seat, and I took turns with her to go to the seat and take a rest.

At that time, although I didn’t quite understand Yawen: it was okay to give up your seat, but at least you could give a hint to the pregnant woman, otherwise she might not even know that the seat was occupied. But I still appreciate Yawen’s move, it’s particularly heart-warming.

G520, departs at 7 o'clock in the morning and will arrive in Beijing around 11:30. If there is no seat all the time, you will have to stand for four and a half hours. Not to mention a girl, I am a boy, too. A very painful thing.

When Yawen went to find a seat, she even brought her laptop with her. She said she wanted to check the materials used in the job fair.

Ten minutes later, Yawen sent me a message saying: She found a seat in the dining car to reassure me. I reminded her: take care of yourself, the bus leaves too early, you can take a nap.

Seeing Yawen settling down, I also squinted for a while. At about 8:00, I got up and walked around, and stopped by the dining car to see Yawen.

When we arrived at the dining car, I discovered that Yawen was sitting on a stool where the flight attendants rested temporarily. There were always people coming and going, so naturally there was no way to rest. She must have been staring at the computer, checking and Modify information.

I asked her to go to my seat and have a good rest. She said: "It's okay, Minister, go and sit down! I'm fine like this!"

I asked her why Without reminding the pregnant woman, she smiled slightly:

Minister, my mother told me: if you want to do good things, tell others actively, subconsciously you want to be praised and grateful.

If you get used to it and don't get praise from others in the future, you will feel very disappointed and even no longer want to do good deeds. In fact, if you do these good things within your ability, you will feel happy.

I suddenly felt that Yawen’s mother’s words were so philosophical, and I couldn’t help but admire this little girl born in the 1990s.

I returned to my seat and looked at the pregnant woman again. I was guessing: She must be feeling very happy. She would definitely be glad that she was lucky enough to sit for several stops. , the person in this seat has not come up yet.

This feeling of helping others in obscurity is quite pleasant inside. This kind of happiness will not be reduced or devalued because of whether the other party said thank you or whether the words were sincere. Yawen's mother must be a very wise mother.

G520 only passes through two major stations: Zhengzhou and Shijiazhuang. When the car arrived at Shijiazhuang, I was going to ask Yawen to take a rest on his seat.

I arrived at the dining car and found an aunt in her sixties sitting where she had been. I walked through the carriage and found Yawen standing at the junction of the carriages holding a laptop.

I asked her to go to my seat to rest, but she said: "It's okay, it's okay. I just stood up. I've been sitting all morning and I want to stretch my muscles!"

She handed me the laptop. He said: "Minister, I just made a lot of changes. I won't know if I don't check them. The time is too tight and there are a lot of mistakes. I looked at them several times. You can take them back and check them! After checking them, I will look for them after I get off the car. Print it somewhere.”

What else can you say when you meet such an employee?

He is caring and responsible for his work. Yawen’s position in my mind is much higher.

Back at her seat, the pregnant woman had obviously rested.

Perhaps she didn’t quite believe that she would have such good luck, and she muttered in a low voice: This is the last stop, why hasn’t anyone asked for a seat yet?

Hearing what she said, I couldn’t help but tell her: Hello, actually your seat belongs to my colleague. She saw that you were a pregnant woman, so she didn’t tell you.

When the pregnant woman heard this, she immediately felt very sorry: "Ouch, ouch, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I mean, how come this seat is not occupied? When I bought the ticket, it was There are no more seats."

The pregnant woman said anxiously: "Please let her come back quickly. I have been sitting here for more than three hours, and I will be at the station in an hour. I can stand for a while. ! You let her come back, I have to thank her, there are not many good people like this now!"

I smiled and said to her: "It's okay, just keep sitting. If she wants to hear your thanks, she will remind her at Hankou Station