Who knows the whole story?

That article is very long! It seems to be called "having such a child"

My collection is a bit messy, see for yourself!

Between the gains and losses of life

Everyone stands in an equal place, only to see if you are willing to climb up. It's really unfair if you stand there in a cool breeze and watch others climb up in a sweat, and then say that the world is unequal and unfair after others climb up.

In this world, honesty is a ray of sunshine, which can illuminate a person's mind. Honesty is a bridge between people's hearts, a flower that shows the virtue of the soul and a realm of life.

Breakthrough can succeed! In fact, on the road of life, at the crossroads, the key to success lies in whether you can grasp yourself and break through yourself! Who knows you best in this world? Who can convince you the most? Who do you trust most? Who finally dominates your brain, hands and feet? It's yourself! It's yourself! Everything is your own! You are your own "legal person" and plenipotentiary, and you should take full responsibility for your own life. Only in this way can you break through the shackles, cross the obstacles and make your life move from ordinary to brilliant!

Contentment is true, but it also depends on the situation. When you are hungry and worry about survival all day, what can you talk about? Therefore, only when you have enough to eat and wear warm clothes can you be satisfied. Contentment is a state of mind.

When the cold wind is howling at night, it is a happy feeling to have a fully heated room, or to be read, or to sit still and meditate, and then listen to the sharp whistle of the wind outside the window and the clang of the window sash.

Happiness in the world, in fact, does not need how much you get, nor how much you have. A peaceful and contented heart can make you feel and enjoy all the beauty in the world.

● The most expensive thing in this world is not gold, but human dignity.

There is such a child who has a gambler's father. When he was a child, he often saw such a scene. No matter how others mocked or even insulted his father, his father still had the cheek to borrow money from others with a smile on his face and a pleading look.

To this end, my mother ran away from home. He also lives in exile and supports himself by working for others. When he grew up, he started a company through his own efforts. From then on, he often took out some money to help and save families like him and children who grew up in such families.

Someone asked him why he did it. He said, because I know how much a father who loses his dignity will affect the growth of his children, and how much disaster a family who loses his dignity will cause to a person.

● Someone asked Shi Tiesheng's occupation in a wheelchair. Shi Tiesheng jokingly said: Sick.

Yes, the disease cost Shi Tiesheng a lot.

However, the Shi Tiesheng we see is a writer who really thinks with life and has a deep understanding of life. In this world, countless lives have been tortured and destroyed by diseases, but Shi Tiesheng touched his deep and strong soul and his optimistic spirit through countless shocking words such as "I and Ditan".

A few days ago, there was a story on TV:

There is a businessman in Qingdao who urgently needs to sew special ropes for luggage. The businessman called a rope seller in Baigou, Hebei, and asked him to send it out the same day, because the businessman had to sew the package of goods before the next night and then export it with the ship.

The man didn't dare to neglect, and quickly took the line to Bazhou. However, when he arrived in Bazhou, the bus to Qingdao had already left. The man quickly called the other party to tell the news, but the other party was very anxious and asked him to do everything possible to transport the line to Qingdao, otherwise the businessman would lose his blood if the goods didn't leave.

Now it's the man's turn to be puzzled, because the total value of the thread the other party wants is only 150 yuan. If he goes by plane, he will certainly suffer. However, the man finally chose to fly there. When he appeared in Qingdao the next morning 1 1, the merchants were already waiting at the airport, and they were in tears.

After returning from Qingdao, the man did not expect that in the following days, many customers would come to him to do business, and most of these customers were introduced by Qingdao businessmen.

At the end of the program, the man said with emotion: In this world, when you really suffer for someone, what you get is far greater than what you lose.

When a beautiful girl was in college, she read in the newspaper that primary school students in Guizhou needed help, so she began to pick up cans and mineral water bottles on campus, accumulated a certain amount and sold them, then sent the money to the children.

Not many students understand her behavior. Sometimes, she will even be looked down upon, despised and despised by others. However, she doesn't care about this and still looks for every corner of the campus in her spare time. No matter what others say, she only has children in her heart.

It was she who was diagnosed with leukemia in a physical examination. Children in Guizhou did not hesitate to take out their pocket money, 50 cents, 1 yuan, and sent it to her in bits and pieces. When the society learned that such a caring girl had suffered misfortune, they all lend a helping hand.

The earth nourishes everything with a broad mind. After everything fell into the mire, it finally presented everything given to it by the earth with its own body. In this world, when you warm others with love, others will warm themselves in the same way.

The Enlightenment/Text of Silly Bamboo

There is a bamboo, complaining bitterly, because the craftsman wants to pierce several holes in it. The craftsman still cuts and carves with a sharp knife in his hand, but he doesn't listen to bamboo's complaints. He wanted to make a flute out of bamboo, but he couldn't stop halfway. He said to bamboo, you stupid bamboo, if you don't have these holes, you are just an ordinary bamboo. These holes may seem to hurt you, but they will turn you into a flute. The sound from your body will warm many people's hearts. My carving just makes you a valuable and useful tool for the benefit of the world!

Any musical instrument with strings can't play a sound if its strings are loose. What kind of key do you need to play, you have to tighten the string to adapt to that scale, otherwise you can't get into the key and play beautiful music.

Throughout history, behind every great man and every success, there are many experiences of failure, depression and bitterness, and they have suffered the bitterness, humiliation and torture of the world. In his deeds, he must also experience a series of failures, because success belongs to the last chapter.

There is a famous saying in the Bible: "If a wheat does not fall into the ground and dies, it is still a grain. If it dies, it will bear many grains. " To make life more meaningful, there is often a price to pay, just like a painting on porcelain, it needs to be burned to last forever; The cedar trees on the mountain must be shaken by the strong wind to take root deeply; Wheat must be ground to make bread; The soil must be cultivated before it is suitable for planting; Only when sages have experienced many difficulties, even those woven with sweat and sweat, can they achieve results.

Imagine: isn't this the process of a bamboo? To achieve something, you must first experience an axe and a hammer and carve it in various ways. After understanding this truth, don't be discouraged on the journey of life, even if you hit a wall or kick a stone. The moment before dawn is the moment when we are about to succeed. Only when we are in trouble, if we don't change our thoughts and mentality, can we embark on a bright road to success.

Happiness is actually within reach.

A few years ago, I read a report that a newspaper in a western city asked the society for the answer "Who is the happiest person in the world". Donations were enthusiastic and people from all walks of life responded. The newspaper organized an authoritative jury to vote in different answers and finally got three answers. Because it is difficult to adjust, opinions cannot be unified, and alternative answers are retained.

According to the number of voters and the number of votes of the authorities, the newspaper released the final answer of "Who is the happiest person in the world". I remember the general order is this:

First of all, give the child a smiling mother. She just took a shower and is holding the baby.

The second is the doctor who finished a successful operation for the patient and watched the patient leave the hospital.

Third, urchins who build sand castles on the beach look at the fruits of their labor.

Another answer is the writer who wrote the last sentence of the novel.

The news caught my eye, and my first reaction seemed to be that someone poured Chili oil into my throat, choking and hurting, and I panicked. When I calmed down and combed my thoughts, I realized that my reaction at that time was a kind of sadness that went deep into the bone marrow. I am a happy blind man!

Why? I am ashamed to say that, in a sense, I have all four situations in the answer to a certain extent. I am a mother, and bathing my baby is almost my daily requirement in my early years. After a busy day, I carried the child to the washbasin in the twilight, filled him with soap and wiped him all over. At that time, there was no baby bath that didn't hurt your eyes. This step should be very careful. After drying the water droplets on the children, I have to fill them with talcum powder ... I used to be a doctor, having operated on many patients and watching the cured patients walk out of the hospital gate. I've been through it countless times. I was very naughty when I was a child. Although I didn't build a complicated sand castle on the beach, I definitely played tricks such as digging a hole in the sand of a nearby construction site to hide a "baby". When I saw the above report, I had published several works and was an amateur author, so I hardly experienced the moment when the writer finished writing the last sentence, which occupied a place in the alternative answers.

How comfortable and glorious it is to combine four kinds of wealth! The public thinks that the state of happiness is integrated into an ordinary person like me. It's a pity that I am stubborn, and I have never felt happy, but I feel very sad. At that moment, I was really inexplicable pain! Finding something wrong is not a small problem, it is a big problem. This is a matter of principle and quality of life.

What the hell went wrong? Is it the newspaper or me? If the problem is not solved, all my efforts and struggles will be to build a tower on the sand. I will never taste the nectar of happiness in my life, and I don't know if I am blessed. From the most optimistic point of view, even if what I do is helpful to others, I am still unhappy and unhappy. Sad and helpless, I admit that I turn a blind eye to happiness.

I want to change this situation and start over. From then on, I am good at looking for happiness with my eyes, grasping happiness with my hands and trudging on the road of happiness with my feet. I am responsible for my own happiness.

These words are easier said than done. Maybe I am used to misfortune and disaster, and I am always in a tense rainy day. In the past, I thought that happiness was mostly earth-shattering and timeless, and I was indifferent to tiny, ordinary and fleeting happiness. I began to examine whether my grasp and perception of happiness is accurate and train myself to enhance my sensitivity and enjoyment of happiness. Happiness is also very strange. When you look at it mysteriously, it is very rare and short-lived. If you have a normal heart, you will find that it is actually very simple and sloppy, and you often pass us by like an old acquaintance.

This discovery has benefited me a lot, and I know that happiness is within reach.

Philosophers have said that what is lacking in life is not beauty, but the vision of finding beauty. Let's imitate his words: there is no lack of happiness in life, just a lack of vision to find happiness. Happy blindness, like color blindness, reduces the gorgeous world to fuzzy black-and-white photos. From my own personal experience, I have reason to believe that happiness is not a state that can be achieved by some external label or technical means, but an internal grasp and eternal sentiment.

Son, you must have a great one.

A German TV station offered a high salary for the "Ten-second thriller" activity. Many journalists are eager for this, and the collection activity has become the focus of people's attention for a time. Among many entries, a lens named "Lying" won the championship with absolute advantage.

The author who shot this 10 second shot is a young man who just entered the job. Everyone is eager to have a quick look at this work.

A few weeks later, the winning works were broadcast on powerful TV programs.

That night, most people sat in front of the TV and watched this group of shots. At first, they were waiting, curious or talking. 10 seconds later, every pair of eyes was filled with tears. It is no exaggeration to say that 10 minutes after that 10 second, Germany was completely silent.

The shot is like this: at a railway station, a switchman is walking to his post to switch for a group of slowly coming trains. At this time, at the other end of the track, another train approached the station from the opposite direction. If he doesn't turn around in time, the two trains are bound to collide.

At this time, he looked back and found his son playing at the other end of the track, and the train that started to enter the station was running on this track. Whether to save his son or pull the trigger to avoid a disaster-he doesn't have much time to choose. At that moment, he solemnly shouted to his son, "Lie down!" At the same time, I rushed over and pulled the switch

In the blink of an eye, the train entered the scheduled track. On that side, the train also roared by.

The passengers in the car didn't know that their lives were in danger, let alone that a little life was lying on the edge of the railway track-the train roared by, but the child was not injured at all. That scene happened to be remembered by a passerby.

The audience brought it into the camera.

It is speculated that the switchman must be a very good person.

Later, people gradually realized that the switchman was an ordinary person. His only advantage is that he is loyal to his duties and never misses a second.

What is more unexpected is that his son is a mentally retarded child.

He told reporters that he told his son again and again: "When you grow up, there is too little work you can do. You must have one who is excellent. "

The son didn't understand his father's words, and he was still puzzled, but at the critical moment, he fell down-this was the only action he knew and did best when playing war games with his father.

Yes, you don't have to study, you don't know anything, but you must be equally good.

The topic of life

This is a test question when Motorola recruits new employees. One of the problems is: you are driving. On a stormy night, you pass a station and three people are waiting for the bus. One is a dying old man, so poor! One is a doctor. He once saved your life. He is a great benefactor. You dream of repaying him! There is also a woman (man), the kind of person you dream of marrying. Maybe if you miss it, you will never have it again!

However, your car can only take one person. What would you choose? Please explain your reasons.

Think about it and look down. ...

Everyone's answer has their own reasons. ...

The old man is dying. You should save him first. However, every old man can only die in the end. You let the doctor get on the bus first, because he saved your life, and you think this is a good opportunity to repay him. At the same time, some people think that they can repay him at some point in the future. However, once you miss this opportunity, you may never meet a woman (man) who touched you so much again.

Of the more than 200 applicants, only one was hired. He didn't explain his reasons, but he just said the following:

"Give the doctor the car keys and let him take the old man to the hospital, so I will stay and wait for the bus with my dream lover!"

Everyone I know thinks the above answer is the best, but no one (including me) thought of it at the beginning.

Is it because we never want to give up the advantages we already have (car keys)? If we can give up some stubborn, narrow and advantages, we may get more.

The consequences of puppy love

/kloc-fell in love for the first time when I was 0/3 years old. He is a soldier, twice my age, 26 years old. He is tall and handsome, just like a movie star. Especially when he drove a jeep to his mother's shop to buy things, the posture of jumping out of the car was very handsome.

I used to hate watching the shop for my mother, but since I developed feelings for him, I stayed in the shop almost every day after school. He comes once a week and stays for ten minutes at a time. This short moment is my paradise. I kept asking questions, pouring him tea and water, and I was very attentive. He won't stay long, and there's no reason to stay too long. When he left, I was reluctant to go until the jeep disappeared from sight, and I went back glumly. Sometimes when the shop is free, I keep a diary, writing his thoughts, unspeakable love and bits and pieces about him. I believe these diaries will be shown to him one day to let him know my feelings for him.

I spent half a year in the pain of waiting and the joy of meeting each other.

One day, he came to the shop again and bought me a bike. This is his promise, there is no place to buy a 22-type bicycle in town! And I have long longed for such a car. It was my birthday. Watching him ride his bike, I happily touched here and there. He said to me, "Little one, it's all yours." Then, he patted me on the head with a smile: "I'll tell you one thing, I won't go shopping in the store again."

"Why?" I suddenly froze.

"I'm going to be demobilized and go back to my hometown."

Tears welled up in my eyes, and I suddenly said to him in despair, "I want to go with you."

He froze: "You come with me? Why? "

I wiped a handful of tears and said fiercely, "I want to marry you." I will marry you when I grow up. "

He smiled, and the more he laughed, the worse he almost shook his head. Suddenly, he stopped laughing and said seriously, "Come on, get on the bike. If you can ride back on that poplar tree, I'll take you away. "

I glanced at him and got on the bike without hesitation. I have never ridden a bike before. He gave a hard push and the bike started. I ran like an adult pedaling a bicycle. I must ride to that poplar tree and marry him. But the car is rickety, and there is a steep downhill ahead. I can't brake.

That day, I was black and blue.

He came running, helped me up and said, "You know what? Puppy love is like riding a bike for the first time, and this is the consequence. "

The man left and I haven't seen him since. But I will always remember the consequences of puppy love.

Monkeys and mango trees

Once upon a time, there was a beautiful mango garden full of ripe fruits. A group of monkeys passed by the tree, saw mangoes and entered the orchard. They picked mangoes, took a few bites, left them impatiently and went to pick another one. Suddenly a monkey screamed. It turned out that it was hit by a big stone. The monkeys turned around and found the gardeners throwing stones at them. They hurried into the nearby forest and returned immediately after the gardener left. But they just started eating mangoes, and stones rained down on them. The monkeys had to run away.

This scene reappeared again and again, and finally most monkeys were injured. So the Monkey King called a meeting of all the monkeys. "I've had enough!" It said: "We come from Ha Numan's noble lineage, and a monkey was beaten like this for a few fruits. It's really outrageous. What do you think? " The cleverest monkey said, "We should have our own mango tree so that our wives can eat the fruit flatly." . I heard that mango trees come from mango seeds. Mango trees will grow when people bury seeds in the ground. We can steal a mango, bury the seeds in the ground and plant our own trees. "

The monkeys agreed that it was a good idea, so they sent the most flexible monkey back to the orchard. It dodged a few stones from the gardener, picked a giant mango and ran back to the forest with it. The monkey dug a hole, put the seeds in it, and then covered it with soil. Then they sat around the pit and stared at it, waiting for the tree to grow. 10 minutes passed and the tree still didn't grow. Some little monkeys couldn't sit still and sneaked away. Then some big monkeys also ran away. Finally, the Monkey King shouted, "Come back! Where are you going? " "We don't want to wait any longer. There are so many mangoes to eat in the orchard. " "Don't you understand? Eating other people's fruit has no future. We must have our own tree. I believe it will grow up soon. "

So the monkeys waited all day, but nothing happened. The next day passed and nothing happened. "It's not normal to wait so long!" A monkey said, "Dig it out and see what's wrong." "Be patient." The Monkey King said. The third day passed and nothing happened. All the monkeys begged the Monkey King to let them dig out the seeds and see what would happen. Finally, the Monkey King agreed. When the monkey dug down, the seeds were exposed, but the newly sprouted buds were broken.

"Look, children!" The Monkey King said: "The wish will not come true overnight. We have the dream of having a tree and seeds, but we have no patience to realize our dreams. "

The power of humiliation

A black boy, born in a poor black single-parent family, suffered great humiliation at the age of seven.

Once the teacher asked the students to donate to the "community fund". A few days later, the little boy was holding three dollars earned by picking up garbage in his hand, waiting excitedly for the teacher to call his name, and then he could proudly walk onto the podium and donate his hard-earned money. But the teacher didn't pronounce his name. He was surprised and asked the teacher why he didn't say his name.

The teacher snapped, "We are raising money to help you and poor people like you. This classmate, if your father can afford your extra-curricular activities of five yuan, you don't need to get relief money. Besides, you don't have a father ... "

The little boy rushed out of school with tears in his eyes. Humiliation hardened him. Since then, he has studied and worked hard. He is Dick Greg, a famous American black radio host.

Poverty and humiliation can destroy people's self-confidence, but they can also make people forge ahead. See if you choose to go downhill or uphill.

Trees that grow slowly are more successful.

He was born with dystocia, which was once considered an ominous sign. I can't talk when I am over 3 years old. His parents are worried that he is dumb. They took him to the hospital for examination. Later, he finally spoke, but he didn't speak fluently. Everything he said seemed to be said after careful consideration, even when he entered school at the age of 9. After school, the teacher rated him as "mentally retarded and undisciplined", and his classmates were unwilling to associate with him. The teacher even said rudely to his father, "Your son will not succeed in the future!" " He wants to play truant because of his inferiority complex.

Father took him to the suburbs to play. Father asked, "Do you know the names of those two trees?" He said listlessly, "I don't know." "The tall one is Sabah, and the short one is fir. Which do you think is more precious, son? " "It should be Sabah tree, look at it so high." "Wrong! If you grow fast, the wood will be loose; Slow growth, wood is not easy to sell! Besides, a greedy tree can't grow into a useful tree. Although the Sabah tree started to grow wildly, it grew slower and slower after three years. I have never seen a Sabah tree above 10 meter. Fir is different. Although it grows slowly, it has kept growing and its life span is very long. It is not a problem to live for tens of thousands of years. " After that, his father took him to a big tree. This towering thousand-year-old Chinese fir tree is still full of vitality and lush foliage. He looked up and said to his father, "Dad, you want me to be a tree, a fir tree that grows slowly but always rises, right?" Father nodded with satisfaction.

He doesn't want to play truant any more. Once in a handicraft class, he made a small bench with great effort and was laughed at by his teachers and classmates, but he still took it home to his father with great interest. Father is as happy as he is. Because through this rough little bench, the father saw his son's resilience that persistence is victory. Who is this little boy? You must have guessed that he is Einstein, a great scientist who is famous at home and abroad.

Don't judge the result yet.

Because of his poor family, he dropped out of school at the age of 20 and entered the society.

It was during the economic depression, and it was very difficult to find a job. A well-known pharmaceutical company has just posted a notice to recruit staff, attracting dozens of applicants, and he is also among the job seekers.

Recruiters are numbered one by one, and he ranks in more than 30. Job seekers come out of the recruitment room in frustration and say, "The conditions are very harsh. Without a college diploma and more than two years of work experience, they will not accept anything! " Hearing this, the candidates outside shouted and many people left. He didn't meet the application conditions either, but he didn't leave.

Soon, several applicants walked out of the office: "The age should be over 25!"

The applicant dispersed again, but he continued to wait patiently in line. The examinee at the back asked, "I don't think you can reach 25, can you?" He nodded. The man added: "It will definitely be eliminated, it is better to leave!" He smiled and said, "The opportunity is rare. Even if it doesn't meet the requirements, give it a try! "

As a result, his life was changed by the courage to "try". He doesn't meet the requirements in all aspects. Although he was not recruited as a clerk, the hiring manager hired him as a drug salesman because of his good image and glib mouth. After joining the work, this young man with no social background and education, with the courage to try, took the civil service exam while selling medicine. In just ten years, he changed from an ordinary drug dealer to a politician in Hong Kong.

1998 during the Asian financial crisis, he dared to use foreign exchange reserves to intervene in the stock market and defended Hong Kong's financial system with extraordinary courage, wisdom and strategy. He is Donald Tsang, the current Chief Executive of the Hong Kong Special Administrative Region.

Later, on many occasions, someone asked him: Does success depend on luck? Donald Tsang said, "In the past, people said that it was almost impossible to get to Central by boat from Tsim Sha Tsui, because the swift current would take you to the seaside. I don't believe it. I tried it once, and unexpectedly found that although I can't go to Central by boat, I can go to Wan Chai or West District, which is also a good place to stay. Don't judge the results first, as long as you have the heart to try, whether it is as you wish or not, life will always surprise you! "

Mediocrity and brilliance are often only one step away: in the face of that opportunity, some people think of their own shortcomings, think of possible failures, shrink back, turn around and walk away; However, some people bravely push through the door, even if it is a scourge and full of thorns, they must find their own new way out-life, so it is different.

Break through the glacier of life

Last autumn, watching the scenery gradually depressed, I bought two pots of evergreen trees and put them in front of the window.

"Can these two trees be planted in a pot?" I asked the gardener.

"yes! But you must dig a hole in the ground in winter, put down the tree and the basin together, and dig it out in spring. "

I didn't do what he said. I think it's unreasonable. I thought, "What's the problem as long as I water it on time?"

However, winter is not over yet, and my tree has been frozen to death by ice and snow.

After thinking for a long time, I finally understand-

Trees growing in the north can survive the cold winter, not only because there is slight sunshine in winter, but also because the earth can provide them with continuous warmth.

The gardener taught me to plant flowerpots in order to get the protection of "the warmth of the earth".

Although the Arctic is very cold, fish swim well in the water under the iceberg. Although the Antarctic is cold, there are still volcanic lava rolling in the depths of the earth.

We always think that the warmth of the world comes from sunshine, but the earth under our feet has amazing heat.

We often think that external help is the most important thing, and the real power from the deep heart is the power that enables us to survive in the ice and snow and get reborn.

When the weather is not warm, the earth warms first, so there are many flowers that can drill out the ice and snow.

If the human feelings are not warm, the heart will be warm first, and the troubled times will be clean.

The true meaning of success

Someone asked a wise man, "Excuse me, how can I succeed?" The wise man smiled and handed him a peanut: "Squeeze hard."

The man squeezed hard and the peanut shell was broken, leaving only peanuts.

"rub it again." The wise man said.

The man did it again, and the red seed coat was worn off, leaving only the white fruit.

"Pinch it with your hand again." The wise man said.

The man squeezed it hard, but failed to destroy it.

"Rub it with your hand again." The wise man said.

Of course, nothing can be erased.

"Despite repeated setbacks, I have a strong and unyielding heart. This is the secret of success. " The wise man said.