Can a man with low income get married if he has a house?

Hello, I'm Zhou Xiaopeng. I love the founder of our college. I am a psychological counselor, focusing on solving emotional and psychological problems in marriage and love.

Now some men have bought houses at home, but because of their poor ability, their income is lower than that of ordinary women. Is it worth marrying in the face of such a man who has a house but can't provide reliable security? Can you get better living conditions after marriage? This needs to be considered from several aspects in order to comprehensively judge whether this man can bring himself a happy marriage.

First of all, judging from this man's personality, we should know that there may be innate factors in the problem of ability, and not everyone is born with strong ability. If this man's ability is not strong, his income is very low, he is still content with the status quo, and even some people are lazy and unwilling to make progress, then such a man does not recommend you to get married even if he has two or three houses.

Marrying a man who is content with the status quo and does not make progress will undoubtedly push his later life to the abyss. Apart from all kinds of difficulties in life, the most important thing is that you can't find a partner who can make you better.

Secondly, this man has a house at home and good economic conditions, but his ability is really low, but he has the spirit of being willing to endure hardships and struggle. I suggest you marry such a man. Simply put, society is progressing, and if people don't progress, they will inevitably face the problem of being eliminated sooner or later.

There may be congenital deficiency in ability, but hard work and hard work can make up for it. In other words, if a man is willing to work hard, even if he is really incompetent, he can make money by moving bricks and delivering express delivery. It is indispensable for a man to have a fighting mentality.

In addition to the man's conditions, the woman can also measure from her own conditions. If you are capable and self-sufficient, you can even help others or the man's family. Regardless of the man's ability, he loves you and cares for his family. Although he is willing to change himself for you, he might as well try to work with each other. In this era, women's earning power is not weaker than that of men, and family patterns in which women are stronger than men are often seen in life.

A man who can satisfy three points is worth marrying. The first is that he is good enough for you, and the second is that there is no problem with his character, even if his ability is almost poor. Third, we must have the basic principles of being a man, and we must also have practical and honest conditions if we are not lazy. Having a house doesn't mean anything, it just provides you with a place to live. Lack of ability doesn't mean that the other person has a character problem. Sometimes things like ability can only be brought into play when you meet the right field.

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