Seeing Friendship from Ode to Joy: Why did Xiaoqu choose Andy as her sister?

What impressed me most about Ode to Joy is what kind of people can become friends.

Watching the complete drama, it is not difficult to find that Xiaoqu has a different attitude towards everyone. In her eyes, Fan, who loves to wear fake brand names, is a "fishing girl", and Guan Guan, who runs with Andy every day, is a nerd, prude and an idiot. Only Andy is "Dear Andy" on the 22nd floor.

Yes, Andy has always been valuable.

In the first few episodes of the TV series, Qu Xiaoyu had a party and had a good night. Guan Guan called the downstairs property to stop it, and Qu Xiaoyu perfunctory. Later, the police came to warn them to disturb the people. Qu Xiaoyu thought it was Guan Guan and the little earthworm who called the police. He asked him rudely: All the gifts are collected. How about later?

However, it was Andy who called the police. Andy didn't eat people's mouths.

Most importantly, Andy is also the master, and Xiaoqu has no chance to be condescending.

Although the acquaintance was not so pleasant, Xiaoqu soon discovered Andy's value.

In the elevator incident, Andy looked pale, but he still calmly guided everyone to all kinds of common sense of survival;

In the negotiation of GI project, Xiaoqu asked Andy for remote guidance and finally won the agency.

Andy's suitor, Bao Xiao, can take photos with him casually, making his boyfriend jealous.

Even Andy's holiday resort can be exchanged through Qu Xiaoyu, so that Bao Xiao can introduce the key person in charge of the project to her.

Andy's friends are really "useful" to Qu Xiaoyu!

However, Xiao Qu Kong will also help Andy. After letting Xiao Qu-Kong know that Andy was hacked by the Internet, people who were anxious for a few days couldn't help it. Only Xiao Qu-Kong's wrist is still flexible, and he turned off the spray perfectly in less than 1 day.

Xiao Qu's willfulness does not give any face to others on the 22nd floor, except Andy.

So even if Xiaoqu and Guan Guan, Xiao Ye and Xiao Ye have eaten many times, she won't talk to them about emotional things at work, because these three people can't help her, and they can't even have the same topic.

When I was in high school, my good friend took a temporary leave to go home and get an ID card. In our place, she is under 18 years old, which is not allowed by the policy. She can apply for an ID card in advance because her family has acquaintances in the Public Security Bureau. When my mother heard about it, she asked me to apply for a certificate with the help of her family. It's hard for me to talk. I don't think I should disturb my friends.

Mother was very angry and said, what friends do you make? You can't help so little!

I had a big fight with my mother.

After entering the society for several years, I found that being a "useful" friend is also a part of personal ability and value.

Although you don't want to deny it, the fact is that any long-term relationship is based on accurate value matching. The same is true of making friends.

When we make friends, we are initially attracted by the advantages of friends, such as humor, kindness, intelligence and so on. But in the end, most of the two people who can become girlfriends have always been "useful" to each other and can "trouble each other" with confidence.

I'm sorry, you can comfort me,

You are confused, and I can wake you up by scolding you.

I'm in a financial crisis, you throw money at me,

You have been hurt emotionally. Come to my study to heal.

Of course, I will always try to make myself strong and try not to bring trouble and negative energy to my friends, but when I really encounter something difficult to carry over, I hope you can appear behind me with a phone call.

Of course, I will treat you in the same way.

This is why Xiaoqu chose Andy as her sister: they can share happiness with each other, and no matter who is in trouble, there is always another person who can help her.

They are always evenly matched.