What if my husband is having an affair?

Question 1: How to deal with the husband's affair is the best way? 1 Find yourself as soon as possible. No matter whether your husband is cheating for a while, or his body and mind are divorced from the love track between you and him, sharing what should belong to you with other women is absolutely the biggest and most direct harm to you. Nothing breaks your heart more than the betrayal of your husband who has always trusted and loved you so much. But since things have happened, we should always face them. It is better to face them actively than passively, so that at least we can maintain more dignity. At this time, don't rashly file for divorce, and don't condemn it as moral corruption without analysis. Don't mistakenly think that your husband's feelings have completely shifted, thus pushing your still-loving husband into the arms of others and disintegrating the marriage that could have been saved. If you want to bear the burden of humiliation, strengthen your spirit, influence your husband with an inclusive heart and sincerity, and let him return to your arms, this is cruelty to you, and you don't have to be so great. You have your own dignity. But you can't always indulge in helplessness and self-pity. You need to get rid of it and replenish nutrients for your injured soul. Take part in more parties or outings. These activities can distract your attention and, more importantly, help you find yourself. Give each other a space to think. A few days before the incident came to light, you and your husband were at their lowest or most anxious mood. You don't want to face it, you can't accept it, you are in pain, and you don't know what to do. At this time, the best way is to separate from your husband for a while and give you and him a space to think calmly and sort out your emotions. You can go on holiday or find a place to stay alone for a while to avoid making wrong decisions on impulse. When the husband hesitates to weigh, don't make things public, socialized and open, but try to solve the things between the two. Men are most afraid of their wives tearing their faces. If you push your husband to the wall and let him "look inside and outside the mirror", he is likely to sever the friendship between husband and wife for several years and throw himself into the arms of a lover or mistress. Be brave to leave your husband for a while, don't make excuses to escape, things must be solved. If you feel that you have sorted out your emotions and can calm down and deal with them, take the initiative to have a frank talk with your husband. Find out the crux of your husband's betrayal Is it because you are too busy to take care of his indifference that you make him dissatisfied and try to find comfort from others, or is it because of his own reasons? What is your husband thinking now? Can we put aside our marriage? Don't ask too much about the details of your husband's infidelity, because those will not help solve the problem, but will only increase your inner pain and injury. You face it bravely, mainly because you want to find out the reason why your husband cheated, so that you can handle it correctly with him. If your husband still takes care of both sides, makes up his mind and delays solving it indefinitely, you must come up with an opinion and let him make a clear choice within a time limit. You should let your husband know that nothing in the world is perfect, everything goes well and everything will be lost, especially marriage. If you want to keep your marriage, you must focus on renewing the love between husband and wife. Half-hearted can only make marriage worse and worse. Finally, it may not be so easy to ask a professional to tell another irrelevant person about this kind of thing between you. However, this method is often very effective. When you pour out your frustration and helplessness to your good friends, they are often on your side and one-sided, so it is impossible to propose constructive solutions. And the expert's advice can be judged fairly, so as to find an effective solution. Don't use coercion or revenge. If your husband is ready to give up his lover, it is particularly important to give him a transition period and let his feelings cool down. Trying to cut off his emotional connection with his lover by coercive means will only make him more miserable, which is likely to be "wildfire burns them endlessly, and spring breeze blows high." Don't vilify and insult your husband's lover in front of him, otherwise it will only make him feel embarrassed and humiliated, and then make him think that you are narrow-minded, and don't settle accounts with your husband's lover, otherwise it will only make things worse, but it will be self-defeating, because revenge is the most undesirable stupid thing. Maybe your revenge is successful, and you can get temporary comfort when you see that the person who betrayed you has been punished. But soon you will fall into depression and deeper pain, which is like adding a burden to the snail's shell, which is not good for you, him or her. If you really can't get through this, it's ... >>

Question 2: What should I do if I find my husband having an affair? He sympathizes with women. Every time he comes home, he does housework like a child who has done something wrong. In the past, men didn't do housework, and women did all the housework. Women are surprised to see men take the initiative to cook. The man said that he hadn't been in the kitchen for a long time and wanted to find the feeling when he first got married. Men still date their lovers. The lover is a girl of the men's team. At first, girls didn't want to marry men, just to find something. One day, the girl said, "Let's get married." The man was surprised. Men all know that getting married is not a simple matter. If you want to marry a girl, you must divorce your wife. His wife is so kind to him that men are embarrassed. A girl wrote a love letter and put it in a man's pocket. She wants a woman to find out when washing clothes. If she quarrels with a man, she should file for divorce first. But women don't look at men's things at all. They took them out and put them on the table. The man came up with his own idea: torture women. When a man wants to add an extra spoonful of salt to the dish when cooking, a woman will argue with him if she can't eat it. As long as there is an argument, things will be easy. Divorce often begins with a quarrel. On this day, the man added an extra spoonful of salt to the dish. The man couldn't help asking, is my cooking delicious? The woman nodded and the man smiled awkwardly. One day, a man had a whim, why not play a trick on his lover. Play with her. Men put food in bags and take it to work. Put the food in front of the girl at lunch. The girl took a bite with chopsticks and spit it out angrily. Say loudly, is this a human dish? Help yourself. You're not a man if you don't eat. At this time, the man thought of his wife eating. He thought to himself that his wife must feel very wronged. She kept her pain in her heart and didn't want to talk about it. In the evening, the man came home and cooked several dishes for his wife. I tasted it myself, not salty or light. While eating, the man asked, "Dude, is the food delicious today?" The woman smiled. The man hugged her gently and said, "In the future, I will cook the best meal for you every day."

Question 3: What should my husband do if he has an affair? Are you old enough? I don't think you can think rashly like a young man in this situation. If your husband still cares about his family, such as paying all the money, you don't have to think so much. It doesn't matter whether he is really having an affair. Sooner or later, he will have enough fun, because mature men distinguish family and extramarital affairs clearly, and what you are doing now is right. Don't quarrel with him, it will only push him further and further. This is what any woman doesn't want to see, so I think you should treat him with an inclusive attitude now, so that he can feel that home is the warmest, and that you are the lover who knows him best and loves him most, which can't be replaced by anyone, so that you are the winner of life!

Question 4: In the face of her husband's infidelity, 10 tells her wife what to do. How do you react when a woman finds out that her most loyal husband has cheated on her? It is wrong to make a scene, fight, cry to parents-in-law, and ask friends for help, no matter who makes a principled mistake in marriage. Life needs tolerance and forbearance, but sometimes it needs catharsis. I understand women's yelling, but I object. The three common magic weapons that ordinary women want to conquer men are "crying, making trouble and hanging", which are extremely artistic and skillful. Be careful that after the man you love is derailed, it is easy for women to be confused and suddenly lose their opinions. As if the sky were falling, they would "seek medical advice" everywhere, leaving their scandals nowhere to hide. Of course, any kind of behavior and measures will have advantages and disadvantages. The key is how to prescribe the right medicine. Some men will mainly persuade, apologize, correct mistakes and guarantee. But some men are very resistant and may not be able to forgive their wives and save their families. Noisy is an instinctive reflex of many women, but it is not a good way to solve the problem. It's okay to put some pressure on men appropriately, and it's normal to talk to relatives and friends. However, the key is to grasp a degree, to have your own position and self-digestion, and to evaluate the consequences. Emotion is counterproductive. Second, it is emotionally unacceptable for a man to cheat and divorce directly. There is a kind of woman who is extreme and thoughtless, which may be related to her own experience and personality. In her opinion, it is not easy for two people to be together. Now that we are married, we should be responsible and loyal to each other. In the face of men's betrayal, being firm all the time is an insult to her and emotionally unacceptable. It's not that she doesn't want to save it, but that she always competes with herself, pushes herself into a dead end, and then kills hope and happiness by herself. In some women's eyes, men are their dreams, and the pursuit in her heart is almost harsh and perfect. When in distress, the firewall also loses its function. In the depths of their marriage concept, some deep-rooted things have already quietly formed, which is the only bottom line they always adhere to. Even if the marriage barely continues, it will never eliminate the shadow formed in the mind. After all, it is a latent fuse. Such a day naturally looks very tired, so it is better to get rid of it as soon as possible. Their hearts are completely in a vacuum, or they can live in a lie, but they can't see the dark clouds, otherwise there will be a storm. Third, if you cheat, I will cheat and seek a balance in revenge. Adapt to life. Women are more or less vengeful, but these women are too strong, seemingly dull and calm, never start work in their mouths, but they are brewing repeatedly in their hearts, like snakes and scorpions. Anyway, I'm afraid of these women. What you did was wrong, and I followed it on purpose. When you complain about me, the old and new accounts are counted together. This is called a tooth for a tooth, blood for blood, and deal with a man as he deals with you. You give me a junior, I give you a fifteen, you are good and I am bad, and life has always been muddling along. You are not afraid of me, and I am not afraid of you. Who can't live without who! Men are very stingy in the relationship between men and women. They can steal big fish and meat outside, but women are not allowed to steal a bite of soup. In the final analysis, the fundamental reason is that women's social status is lower than that of men. I once reminded some playboy men that "when you are anxious to sleep with other people's wives, you might as well put yourself in their shoes." By rights, you cheat, I cheat, and we're even. It seems reasonable, but after all, we are all doing something wrong, which is not feasible in today's mainstream consciousness, and it is also the sorrow of women's choice. Fourth, it doesn't matter, I feel that men are like that. I admire that kind of "broad-minded" woman, which sometimes makes men puzzled. When they found out that men were cheating, they were indifferent and took it for granted. I don't know why they form such a view of marriage. Is it related to your background knowledge? It still has something to do with his debauchery. Anyway, he doesn't care about his man's stupid things. "It doesn't matter" is not a good sign in marriage. There should be more "so-called" between husband and wife, so that there can be fish and water. Feelings are the most selfish in marriage, and no one wants to share them with others. But once you have an "indifferent" attitude, you may get sick. Fifth, find a mistress to duel and put all the responsibility on the woman. Such a woman is irrational and tenacious. She put all her troubles on mistress, even sheltering her own man. She always thinks that her man is a good thing, and it is impossible to be framed without meeting a fox. She thinks that the fault lies not in men at all, but in women ... >>

Question 5: How will you deal with your husband's infidelity? Recently, my friend's husband had an affair. He was sad, sad and sad, which really made me understand that it is really difficult to be a woman, and it is even harder to be an excellent woman.

A good woman is not willing to be mediocre. A woman who is unwilling to be mediocre certainly hopes that her husband will be less mediocre and even get ahead. An excellent woman, with an excellent husband beside her, looks like an innocent girl in public, and her heart is so sweet, gee. ...

Wait a minute! When an excellent husband stands out, when an outstanding talent stands out, when a woman happily pushes her husband into society, when ..., new troubles may follow. ...

Excellence belongs to society. Singers, movie stars, dance stars and so on are all loved by the whole society. Your husband's Excellence is also enjoyed by the whole society-including those gorgeous women. When a good man appears in the sky like a full moon, don't women look around and stare at him like stars holding the moon? Listen, a girl sings loudly: ten men, seven stupid, eight dull, nine bad, one everyone loves. Sisters jump out, even if sweet words deceive him, love him well and never let him leave again. Look, how terrible it is! Not counting this, there are female compatriots who openly claim that it is not easy to meet a good man. I can't have it all, but I must have some. Ha, how dangerous!

Although it is clear to all the women who have created and owned excellent men, and the husband they love is also loved by other women, it is another matter that no woman really loves her husband. What if your husband is really having an affair? Let go? It seems that my heart is unwilling. Why should I give someone else the person I worked so hard to create? Don't let go I don't feel well. Seeing that my husband has another woman in his heart, I don't feel like swallowing a caterpillar. What should we do?

Remember there is such a story:

Hulu's wife has a friend named Ji, a smart and beautiful woman, and her husband is also a handsome and capable man. After years of marriage, they have been inseparable. One day, Ms. Ji washed clothes for her husband and found a letter in her pocket. She took it out and took a look. The light blue envelope was written by a girl in beautiful handwriting. Looking at the content again, she couldn't help but have straight eyes, weak limbs and numbness. What are we doing? My husband is having an affair! The clever Ms. Ji fell into painful thinking. She thought angrily that as soon as her husband came back, she would attack him and ask him to be honest. Then I thought, what if he confessed? Divorce or endure? Divorce? I can't bear it. After all, she still loves her husband deeply. Put up with it, and you look too timid. Will you treat her like a human being in the future? Thinking about it, she decided to swallow this bitter wine for the time being, endure this tone and spy for a while. She quietly put the letter back in her pocket. Two days later, she received another letter. After reading it, she put it back, still quietly. In the later days, almost every two or three days, she remained calm, more considerate and took care of her husband. After half a year, the number of letters gradually decreased, sometimes once a week, sometimes once every two weeks, and the tone was not as hot and touching as before. Ms. Ji was relieved. One day half a year later, Ms. Ji found another letter. The woman in the letter told him in a sad tone that she would get married in a month, and told him the address of the groom's house and the date of the wedding. She hopes to see him at the wedding. After reading it, Ms. Ji was relieved at first, and then went on the rampage ―― more than a year of resentment, sulking, anger and anger erupted like a volcano. Now that that woman has a husband, it's time for her to settle accounts with him.

After her husband came home, Ms. Ji patted the letter on the table: Tell me honestly!

Husband took a casual glance: don't you know? That's all.

Adding fuel to the fire, Ms. Ji was so angry that she went straight to the roof. She said angrily, That's easy for you to say. Give me all her letters!

Husband opened the drawer conveniently. The light blue envelope is full of drawers, there are hundreds of them.

Ms. Ji was shocked! I was surprised that there were so many letters, and I only intercepted a small part; To my surprise, my husband, who has always been careless, was so careful that he packed these letters neatly and numbered them one by one. What surprised me even more was that my husband treasured these letters. I don't know how many times I've watched it, and some of it has been damaged. My husband also patched them with scotch tape.

She asked her husband: how to deal with it?

Husband said: burn it.

When her husband was about to light the fire, a curiosity caught her: What did these letters say? You can't burn it She put the letter aside and left it to her sole discretion. Future days ... >>

Question 6: How should a husband treat an affair? The closer you get to him, the colder he gets. First of all, the two of us will never get along again. In the past, we trusted each other and both knew how to leave some space for each other and keep hobbies that the other party did not necessarily participate in. We can handle our work separately or play together. We all like such a relaxed relationship, but he betrayed my trust. After what happened, I never dared to give him such space again. I will put him under my nose and won't give him a second chance to make a mistake. More importantly, I must not let myself regret it any more (I always feel that his affair is partly due to my negligence). So he said he wanted to play with his friends, so I wanted to play together. He said he was going downstairs, so I accompanied him. I know he doesn't like being stared at all the time, but why do I like it? I'm not interested in some things, but what can I do? People say that once a playboy man has an affair, it may happen for the second time and the third time. The more impatient he is, the more subconsciously I catch him. But he is a businessman with many social activities, so I can't keep him around all the time, so I try to find out who he is with and what he is doing where I can't see him. Like a spy, I secretly smelled his clothes, rummaged through his bag, and checked the text messages and phone numbers in his mobile phone. Like a policeman, he used all his language skills to ask about his schedule and whereabouts. But the more I do this, the less he wants to communicate with me, so he tries to avoid me and find a reason to go out alone. On the other hand, my heart is more panicked and wronged. In short, the more I want to master everything about him, the farther away our hearts are, the more forbidden areas between us, and the colder our relationship is. When we were together at night, I felt bad, too. To tell the truth, I have been disgusted with his physical contact since that incident, and I feel uncomfortable at the thought that he has touched other women. Although I told myself that things have passed and I should learn to forget, some emotions are just out of my control. In addition to guarding him like a thief, I stabbed him with words irresistibly. At the beginning, it was obvious that he had an affair, which hurt me deeply, but my parents and in-laws advised me to make up, saying that only by showing the right amount of generosity can we save the situation. If it weren't for my personal experience, ordinary people wouldn't understand the "stupid" behavior of this woman betrayed by her husband, and let the neighbors of the company know it, because I wanted to do the same, make a hullabaloo about, smash things, and make people all over the world scold this sad person, but I finally endured it, but the evil spirit didn't come out and I endured internal injuries. He owes me. My wound has not healed yet. How can he pretend as if nothing had happened? Now he's like having an absurd dream, announcing that he's awake. He's turned over a new leaf, unscathed. But I'm still troubled by this nightmare, and it's hard for me to scold it, because when people wake up from their dreams, what they have done doesn't count. If you care, you are unreasonable. However, whenever I think about it from the beginning and look at my husband's relaxed appearance, I get angry, so I blurt out bad words and show his disloyalty with sand and sticks. At first, my husband could bear it. After all, he made the mistake first, and he had to let me vent. But after two times, he quit and asked me, "this matter has passed, and I have admitted my mistake." Since you have accepted it, why is it endless? " Do you have to turn us into an enemy-to-enemy dialogue? "Speaking of which, I can't say anything more. If this continues, the hard-won face of husband and wife will be gone, but I sneer at myself: you have passed there, but I have not passed here. Do you know what I suffer every day? I'm not a sensitive and suspicious person by nature, but now I'm so scared that I think of my husband's infidelity at the slightest sign. Every woman around him makes me secretly nervous. Some things I didn't notice before can now be regarded as signs or possible evidence of his infidelity. For example, once my husband was taking a bath in the bathroom and his cell phone rang. I picked it up and answered it. The other party hung up as soon as they heard my voice. I became suspicious and asked my husband whose number this was. The husband looked at it and said he didn't know. Maybe someone dialed the wrong number. I didn't dare to be careless, secretly copied this mobile phone number, and later dialed it to confirm that the other party did dial the wrong number. On another occasion, after work, he called to have dinner with a client and didn't come back until after 9 pm. I called him, but he didn't answer; I kept calling, but he never answered; A little ... >>

Question 7: What should I do if I find my husband cheating? There is a heated discussion in the society about how my husband or husband should cheat. Teacher Yang Fengchi, a CCTV psychological interview expert, said this:

Specific to the way to deal with her husband's affair, there are roughly three strategies.

By improving your thoughts and behaviors, let your lover think that you are better than that affair. There is no need to keep an affair, and he will come back to you naturally. This is the best policy.

The middle policy should be grasped, but we should pay attention after grasping it. Don't cry and make a fuss easily, but let the other party make a statement and choose what to do. If the other party expresses remorse and is determined to break off the relationship and live a good life, then let bygones be bygones and never mention it again.

Why?

Because the lover has an affair, it is definitely not the lover's business. You must share the responsibility with him. The less you delve into it, the more embarrassed the other person is to play with fire again.

The worst thing is to cry when you catch it and make a scene; The other party expressed the determination to repent, but still clung to it. The other party said, anyway, you always think I'm having an affair and I can't live any longer. You go, I'll find another one.

There is a lady like this. When she suspected that her lover was out of control, she followed him secretly. When she caught him, she was crying. Her lover said that she had repented, but she still insisted. At this time, my wife has been promoted in the unit. She said, you haven't been promoted yet, and it will be more dangerous for you to be promoted again. I must tell the main leaders of your unit, the secretary of the discipline inspection commission and the secretary of the party Committee, so that they can't promote you any more, otherwise there will be big problems. My wife tried to persuade her, but she still couldn't. As a result, she went to the unit leader and made a scene. Originally, my wife wanted to repent, but later insisted on divorcing her: "You have become a pest, and I can't live with pests." After the divorce, her ex-husband was very kind to her, gave her a big house and lived in a small house by herself. When letting his son choose to live with his father or his mother, he thought twice and followed his father. Finally, she became a person who lived in a big house.

Then her ex-husband got married again. When she was looking for someone else, they said you were out, so stop it. Looking for a son, the son also has a problem with her, saying that a good home will make you fall out. Why did dad have an affair? You usually come with him, make a hullabaloo about, and then quarrel. If I were my father, I would have an affair.

As a result, the ex-husband didn't understand himself, and neither did the son. Before the divorce, the family was well-off, and the pressure on the property, water heating, electricity and telephone charges of this big house was not too great. The ex-husband earns more money than her. Now that I'm divorced, I have to pay for the property and heating. She used to earn less money, and her living standard plummeted after her marriage.

Now she regrets that it was wrong to divorce so much. Later, someone introduced her to someone and met several people. At first glance, she is worse than her ex-husband. She thinks it's better to live alone than to marry someone. She said, I am in pain now, staying alone in this house every day. Thinking about my ex-husband, I feel a little sorry. I have gone too far and my ex-husband's promotion opportunities have been ruined by myself. Thinking about children, I feel sorry for him and let them grow up in a broken family; Think about your own night scene, which may be even more bleak. She is in an awkward position in both emotional life and material life.

Fourth, don't easily equate cheating with cheating. The average person's reaction to an affair is particularly strong. They feel greatly hurt and think that the other person has betrayed themselves. If two people live together, everything is fine, and one party is still looking for new love for a long time. Obviously, he (she) will have a systematic denial of his lover before he (she) will affirm the opposite sex. We should carefully judge whether to continue living with him or her. If this person has been separated from his spouse for a long time and the affair is accidental, there is no need to delve into it too much.

In fact, many people may never have an affair, but they have no sense of responsibility and love for their families, which has also caused considerable pain to their families. By contrast, can having an affair kill all the advantages of this person? The parties to an affair often feel that it is because they are hot-headed and have no control over themselves. But at that time, I didn't want to hurt my lover intentionally, let alone betray him (her). For example, some people study abroad, live alone overseas for many years, and have a little intimate relationship with someone in the local area. The other party should not only blame, but also understand.

Teacher Yang mentioned from the perspective of ordinary life ... >>

Question 8: What should I do if I find my husband having an affair? Ask first. Do you have any kids？ And is your husband's affair blatant or underground? If it is underground, it means he is still afraid. If you have children, just bear it. After all, for the children. If there are no children, then leave. Don't let yourself be wronged again. Women should also learn how to leave resolutely. Remember my premise. Do you have any kids？

Question 9: What should I do if I find my husband having an affair? ! ! Think clearly whether to win the marriage defense war or give up the war and let go! ! ! Nine skills to prevent husbands from cheating.

Men are easy to cheat, and women try their best to prevent them. So, how can you keep your husband away from cheating? This question seems difficult to answer, but it is actually very simple to solve. As long as you grasp some small details in your life, your husband will naturally not cheat.

First, give your husband face everywhere. What is a good woman? See what men think. Many men are looking for a wife who "goes to the hall and goes to the kitchen". Eight words seems easy, but it is difficult to do. The most basic thing is that you should always give your husband enough face. No matter in front of friends or family, don't forget that he is a man with strong self-esteem. When you go out for dinner and then go to the party, you must dress up neatly. Don't embarrass your husband in front of others, so he will love you more.

Second, be more considerate. Men need more love and care from women. If a woman doesn't know how to stick to her husband, then they won't go for long. A smart woman knows everything about her husband, such as what he likes to eat, what color clothes he likes, and so on. These seemingly small things are symbols of caring for her husband. If you cook a delicious meal when your husband comes back from overtime, he will feel very happy. If you want to catch your husband's heart, you must first catch his stomach.

Third, remember some special days. It sounds like something you should remember as a man. But how many women know the importance of doing so? Such as my husband's birthday, wedding anniversary and so on. It is better than anything to send my blessing to my husband at the first time. Such a careful wife, which man is willing to give up.

Fourth, don't forget to kiss goodbye when you go out. Whether you are going out or your husband is going out, saying goodbye is more important than anything else. Kissing goodbye always reminds the other person that someone loves him deeply. Husband will also remember how good his wife is. If you can do this, you must be a good woman.

Fifth, tell your husband that you are happy and give him a smiling face. The most important thing for a pair of people who love each other deeply is to give each other a happy life. If you are sad every day, your husband will think that you are unhappy with him, which will gradually lead to a result of letting you go. So smile at him every day and tell him that he is happy every day. Your husband will be full of confidence in your future, so that everything can be full of motivation.

Sixth, be patient. Two people together, mutual tolerance, will be happy. We often say that we should tolerate each other, but how many people can do it? In fact, everyone has their own shortcomings. Don't forget you have one yourself. Don't think that everything you don't like is bad. For example, if you don't like smoking, it is definitely not good for your boyfriend to smoke; But if you are a smoker, you may have a different opinion. So you need to learn to be patient and give each other time to change for you.

Seventh, we should know the taste of life. Nowadays, people's lives are very tense. If falling in love is like fighting, how can they be interested in playing such hard games! Therefore, lovers should cherish the opportunity to get together. If they have a holiday, they can go out and relax. They can also listen to music quietly and drink red wine together, which can make each other find happiness in the busy world. If you don't find each other, they will come to you!

Eighth, pay attention to how to dress. People who like themselves will naturally care about their dress. In front of your husband, don't think that you can just wear a dress casually. In fact, they will care about what you wear. Remember to dress according to your age, figure and personality. Sexy without exposure, and of course, keep showing your most beautiful figure!

Ninth, we should know how to encourage and support each other. As the saying goes, a friend in need is a friend indeed. If a woman can share weal and woe with a man, then a man thinks he will have special respect for this woman. Encourage your husband when he encounters setbacks, and he will think that you love him very much. In addition, encouraging each other often will further our relationship, so this is also very important.

Grasping a man's heart is actually grasping the feelings and details that men pay attention to. Everyone can do it, depending on whether you are willing to do it with your heart. If you really do the above nine, then you can rest assured that your husband will not cheat!

I hope I can solve your problem. ...& gt& gt