Classical Chinese family instruction

1. What are Lin Juemin's letters in classical Chinese to his wife?

Original text:

Meaning is called hoo:

Today I use this book to say goodbye to you! When I wrote this book, I was still alone in this world; By the time you read this book, I have become a ghost of the underworld. I wrote this book with tears and pen and ink, so I can't stop. I'm afraid you won't pay attention to my intentions, say that I will die without you, and say that I don't know that you don't want me to die, so I will bear the sorrow for you.

I love you, that is, I love you enough to die. Since I met you, I have been wishing all lovers in the world well; However, there are red clouds everywhere, and the streets are full of wolves and dogs. How many can win? Sima Chun can't learn much. As the saying goes: the benevolent "is old, and people are old; Young and young, and young people. "I love you and help the whole world love what they love, so I dare to die before you, regardless of you. You care about my heart, and when you cry, you care about the people of the world. You should be willing to sacrifice your well-being and mine for the happiness of the people of the world. Don't be sad!

Do you remember? One evening four or five years ago, I tasted this sentence: "Let me die first, and I will die first." You were angry when you first heard the news, but after I explained it, I didn't say that my words were affirmative, but I didn't answer a word. I mean, with your weakness, I can't stop losing my sadness. I will die first, leaving my suffering to you. I can't bear it in my heart. I'd rather you die first, and I'll be sad. Hey, honey! Who knew my minions died before you? I really can't forget you! Recalling the house in the backstreet, I entered the corridor and passed the front and back halls, with a 30% to 40% discount. There is a small hall and a room next to it, where you and I live together. I got married for three or four months for the first time, and around the day of hope in winter, the moon shadow was screened out of the window and vaguely disappeared; I am holding hands with (you), and I am serious in a low voice. Why don't you say anything? Why not complain? Think about it today, extra tears. I also recall six or seven years ago, when I fled back to my hometown, you cried and said to me, "I hope I can tell my concubine if I travel far in the future." I am willing to follow you. " And I promise you. When I came home more than ten days ago, I just wanted to talk to you about the trip. I was opposite you, but I couldn't say it. I was even more afraid that you would be drunk every day because your body was sad. Hey, honey! The sadness in my heart at that time was beyond description.

I really want to die with you. First, judging from today's situation, natural disasters can die, thieves can die, thieves can die on the day of partition, traitors and corrupt officials can die, and in today's China, there is no place in the country that can't die at any time. At that time, either let me watch you die or let you watch me die. what can I do? Can you restrain yourself? Just won't die, just won't meet, will only make the eyes of the two places into bones and fossils. How many times have you seen ancient second time around? It's harder to die, so what do you do? Today, I am lucky to be with you. There are countless people in the world who have died unjustly and don't want to leave. They love our generation, how can they stand it? I dare to die spontaneously, regardless of you. I die today without regret, and people with their own comrades can't succeed in national affairs. In a flash, Yixin is five years old and an adult. You are good at caressing him and making him filial to me. I doubt what's in your belly. Women will be like you. I am very comforted. Still a man, then teach him to take his father's ambition as his ambition, and then there will still be two holes after I die. Lucky, lucky! After my home, I will be poor, poor and bitter, just living a quiet life.

I am speechless for you today. I live under the grave and hear you cry, so I can cry together. I don't believe in ghosts on weekdays, but now I hope there is. People nowadays also say that telepathy is correct. I hope what they say is true. Then when I die, my spirit is still with you, and you don't have to be sad without a partner.

I have never talked to you with ambition in my life, which is my fault; However, I am afraid that you worry about me every day. I sacrificed my life to worry you, which is beyond my capacity. I love you so much that I'm afraid I can't finish what I planned for you. You are my lucky, why not be lucky to be born in China today! I am lucky to have you, so why not have today's China! A pawn can't stand loneliness. Hey, honey! There are still thousands of unfinished things, which can be simulated. I can't see you today! You can't leave me, but you always get me in your dreams! One is fear! Xin Wei reads six nights and four drums in March, which means to write Chinese calligraphy.

Mothers at home are all literate, so I hope to ask them for advice if you have any questions. I will be lucky to do my best.

2. Translation of Classical Chinese Family Instructions Jiang Duanyou Family Instructions Translation:

Ordinary people know the origin of food when they eat. Grain is a difficult process for farmers to harvest after sowing. It only grows when the weather between heaven and earth is favorable, and then it matures into raw food. None of this is easy. Delicious meat is obtained by killing animals, and the suffering is beyond words. I really can't bear to eat when I think of it, let alone choose the good and the bad, which leads to disgust. After a hearty meal, no matter whether it is eight treasures or miscellaneous medicinal materials, they are all regarded as rotten things. Therefore, no matter how rich your family is, you need to be frugal, and you will be self-sufficient if you can fill your stomach. You know, there are countless people outside the door, people who work hard and can't get a full meal, and people who are hungry all day and can't get food. I can't just sit around and enjoy the food. What choice do I have? If this can be done, it will not only be easy to be satisfied with less desires, but also be of great help to learning. I once said that few people who want to learn Taoism or study hard and ignore food can live a long life directly. Besides, you will die in a short time, so don't learn Taoism at this time, restore your nature, return to your source, and only satisfy your appetite and fatten your body. This is really an empty world. There is nothing to do after dinner. It is good for everyone to read an article or two at will through Shi Wendian, which is better than using your mind elsewhere.

When dealing with people, you should choose people who are upright and elegant. If you make friends, you will regret it. Besides, you can't stay with those people for a long time, be influenced by them, or be a saint all your life. When talking about others, don't delve into their right and wrong, but think about it and know who is right and who is wrong. Chess is an elegant game. It can be said that it can be played. Don't break your will by talking and laughing with women. This is the last thing you can do. Since you don't respect yourself, you will be despised by people of insight. As human beings, people are despised by others. You have to remember this!

Jiang Duanyou's family motto:

It is not easy for people to know what they eat and drink, and it is not easy to make crops. The taste of meat kills, and its pain makes people think they don't want to eat it. If they choose to like or not, they will be angry again. A full meal, careless and eight treasures, stinking and rotten, rich and frugal with family, enough to satisfy hunger. There are countless poor people outside the door, some of whom have worked hard and have not enough to eat, and some of whom are hungry all day and can't eat. I have no choice but to sit and eat. If you can do this, you will not only want to be easy, but also learn to help. As I said, if you want to learn Taoism, you must overcome difficulties and eat lightly before you can live a long life without geometry. Looking around, you are isolated from the world. At this time, I don't learn the Tao, I return to my roots, I only care about my mouth and support myself. It can be said that you are a world. There's nothing to eat. It's better to read one or two "Shi Wen Dian" slowly than to have ulterior motives.

To make friends with others, choose elegant people. If you cross it, you will regret it and you will get used to it for a long time. You can't be a good person all your life. Don't go deep into the right and wrong of others when you speak, just know what is right and wrong. The elegant play of chess is just as good as saying that women don't participate, and it is most impossible to laugh off their fangs and lose their will. If you don't respect yourself, you will be despised for your knowledge. If you are a man, you will be treated lightly. You will make up your mind to do so.

3. Li Shimin, an ancient poem of family style and family training: first filial piety and then respect; Devote oneself to hard work in order to do good deeds.

Yan Zhitui: Brothers, fractal and even angry people, young, left behind by their parents with their forearms tied, eat the same, dress the same, learn the same and swim the same. Although people in chaos can't help falling in love. And strong, each wife, each son, although there are honest people, not much decline.

Fan Zhongyan: Filial piety should be done, loyalty and courage should be sincere; Brothers help each other and have boundless compassion. Diligently read sages' books and respect teachers; Don't be rude, you will admire your neighbor. Respect the old and the young, and sympathize with the lonely and the poor; Modest and honest, never proud. Don't waste paper, we must protect the five hubs; Do things according to nature and cherish life. Eight virtues in life, self-cultivation and service to the Lord God; Sun Jian's heart is guarded, and a home is a good root.

Su Xun: Entering is filial piety to parents; Be at peace with your neighbors when you leave. If you have questions and answers, you must improve your body here. Don't be ridiculous, don't be arrogant. Don't call the number on the table, just ask respectfully. Old people eat first, then walk.

Ji Xiaolan: One commandment is (late); Second, quit being lazy; Three commandments of luxury; Under the temptation is pride. Observe under temptation and observe four rules: First, study hard; Second, it is right to respect teachers; Three righteousness and love for the masses; Fourth, we should eat carefully.

4. We must be familiar with the translation of the ancient prose and "original text" of Zhu Zi's family instructions before reading, so that everything comes from my mouth.

After careful consideration, make its meaning come from the heart, and then you can get it. As for the doubts about the meaning of the text, if you have different opinions, you should also consider it with an open mind and don't hesitate to choose.

It is particularly unreasonable to make a self-evident statement and let it mean, so as to test it. Don't wait for him to say anything, just let him outsmart himself. It is self-contradictory to cross-examine each other by public opinion and seek their reasonable protection to test their right and wrong, and it will also be pulled away from public opinion and not established.

A large rate of Xu Xing stood, moving in silence, such as attacking wood, the first relaxed and then the program; If the rope is untied, if it doesn't make sense, it will be left alone, as Xu Lizhi will do. So is this reading method.

When reading a book, you must clean up several cases, put the books in order, stand up straight, read the books carefully and clearly. Every word, every word, every word, every word, every word, every word, every word, no rote memorization, just repeated recitation, naturally catchy and unforgettable.

The ancients said, "Read it a thousand times and you will know its meaning." If you read well, you don't need to explain, you know what it means.

I have learned three times, that is, heart, eyes and mouth. If the heart is not here, the eyes will not look at the child carefully, and the heart will not be single-minded. It will only read aloud, which will never be remembered and will not last long.

Of the three, the heart is the most urgent. Since the heart is here, won't the eyes be there? I think there are three ways to read: heart, eyes and mouth.

The heart is not here, and the eyes don't look closely; My mind is not single-minded, but my mouth is full of waves. I must never remember it, and I can't remember it for a long time. Of the three, the heart is the most urgent.

Since the heart is here, won't the eyes be there? All reading should be familiar with it first, so that the words in it seem to come from my mouth. Think about it further and make its meaning seem to come from what I think in my heart, then I can learn something.

As for those who have doubts about the meaning of the article, everyone's comments are confusing, so you should calm down and think carefully, and don't rush to choose. First, list one of them separately and state it, and think along the way of the article to verify the smoothness and blockage of its thinking. Then those who have no obvious meaning and reason will automatically give in before comparing with other theories.

Then cross-examine and refute each other's remarks, and then seek the soundness of its truth to verify its correctness or error. What seems to be right or wrong will also be denied by the public and cannot be established. Generally speaking, stop and look at it slowly, deal with it statically and observe it dynamically. If you attack hardwood, attack its easy place first and then attack its key point; It's like unwinding a tangled rope. If something doesn't make sense, just leave it there for the time being and deal with it slowly.

This is the way of reading. When reading, we should first tidy up the desk for reading, make it clean and stable, put the books neatly on the desk, let the body sit up straight, face the books, read the words on the books carefully and calmly, and read the articles carefully and clearly.

Every word you want to read is loud and clear. You can't mispronounce a word, read one less word, read one more word, read one word backwards, or just memorize it. Read it a few times and it will come out naturally, even if it takes a long time. The ancients said, "When a book is read many times, its meaning naturally emerges."

In other words, if you read the book well, you will naturally understand its meaning without relying on others to explain it. I once said: there are three kinds of reading, called heart to heart, eye to eye and mouth to mouth.

If the heart is not in the book, then the eyes will not read it carefully. Since the heart and eyes are not absorbed wholeheartedly, they just look at it casually, which is definitely unforgettable, even if they remember it, it will not last long. Of the three, the heart is the most important.

The heart is here, can't the eyes be there? .

5. Lu You's "Family Instructions China Ancient Ethnic Regulations" Original text: Children who are sharp behind are the most vulnerable. If so, their fathers and brothers should regard (them) as troubles, not (them) as happiness. They must always be familiar with the classics by simple binding, cultivate their generosity and respect, and don't let them swim with impetuous and thin people. Since then, their interests have become self-contained. Otherwise, we can consider it.

We should always discipline them strictly and seriously, familiarize them with Confucian classics and various books, educate them to be tolerant, kind, respectful and cautious, and don't let them associate with idlers. In this way, after more than ten years, ambition and interest naturally developed.

Otherwise, there is nothing to worry about. These words are medicines and needles for young people to treat diseases, so we should treat them with caution and leave no regrets.

Yan Jiaxun, the original book of saints, teaches people sincere filial piety, prudence and fame, and is well prepared. The Wei and Jin Dynasties came, and all the philosophers wrote, focusing on things, discussing models, and putting their ears on the bed.

The reason why I came back to this place today is not that I dare not follow the example of the world, but that I want to clean up my door and tear up my children and grandchildren. Husband believes in the same words and believes in his loved ones; Walk with the same life and do what you serve.

It is better to forbid a boy from being violent than to be ordered by Fu Maid, and to be obedient than to be taught by his wife. I hope this book is believed by Cao Cao, and it is more virtuous than Fu Maid and Widow.

Moral education in my family has always been a whole secret, but I was lured and taught when I was in a cup. Every time I follow my two brothers, I am gentle, sober, polite and calm.

Give excellent words, ask what is good, encourage short lead long, and be sincere. When I was nine years old, I was a small pot of tea, and my family was surrounded.

A kind-hearted brother has devoted all his efforts and made painstaking preparations. Different people have different opinions. Although I read "Li" and "Biography", I love it very much and am quite influenced by mortals.

If you want to speak out of order, you will be slovenly. At the age of eighteen or nineteen, I know very little, and I learn naturally, which is hard to wash away.

After 20 years, the ratio is bigger. Every constant heart * * * enemy, sex and love compete, night feeling is small, today regrets yesterday's loss, self-pity, and even self-pity.

Think of the fingers of the past, think of bones; It's not an ancient book commandment, but it has been seen by the eyes. So, I left these twenty articles, thinking that you are Cao's people.

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The reason why I want to write this family motto again now is not that I dare to give you any norms for dealing with people, but just to rectify the family style and educate future generations. Believe the same words, because they are said by people close to you; The same order is carried out because it was issued by someone you admire.

Children are prohibited from fooling around and laughing, and the advice of teachers and friends is not as good as that of aunts; To prevent laity from fighting and quarreling, Yao Shun's teaching is not as good as his wife's persuasion. I hope this "family precept" can be observed by you, better than aunt.

The wife's words are wise. My family's tutor has always been very strict and thorough. I was induced to teach when I was a child.

Follow the two brothers every day, serve the twin cities in the morning and evening, speak carefully, behave well, speak serenely and respectfully, just like visiting a majestic king. Parents often encourage us, ask about our hobbies, grind away our shortcomings and guide our strengths, which is both sincere and appropriate.

When I was nine years old, my father died, my family was in trouble, my family was in decline, and the population was depressed. It is extremely difficult for my brother to raise me. He is kind but not dignified, and his guidance and enlightenment are not so strict.

Although I have also read Zhou Li and Zuo Zhuan in the Spring and Autumn Period, I am slightly interested in writing articles, which is greatly influenced by the world. Indulge in desires, speak rashly, and be slovenly.

It was not until I was eighteen or nineteen that I sharpened it a little, because habits became natural and it was difficult to get rid of them in a short time. It is not until after the age of twenty that there are few big mistakes, but they are often duplicity, and kindness is contradictory to private affairs. I found the mistake in the morning at night, and today I regret the mistake I made yesterday. I often sigh that I have come this far because of lack of education.

Recalling my lifelong wishes and interests, I have a deep understanding; It's not like reading a sermon in an ancient book, it just passes through your eyes and ears. So write down these twenty articles as a warning to you.

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The jade edition of this book contains all the essentials of the golden chamber. When a child coughs, Shi Baogu knows filial piety, benevolence, courtesy and righteousness, and guides Xi to treat it.

Where ordinary people can't do it, when infants know people's colors and emotions, they will be taught, and when they do, they will stop. Compared with how old they are, they can get away with it. Parents are dignified and kind, and children are timid and filial.

I see love in the world that doesn't teach. If you can't, you can eat and drink, do whatever you want, and refrain from turning over the prize. You have to laugh and be knowledgeable. This is called law. If you are arrogant and slow to learn, you will copy, and if you have no prestige, you will be killed. When anger grows, they will increase resentment, catch up with growth, and eventually be defeated.

Confucius said, "If a villain succeeds, habit becomes nature." Yeah, yeah.

As the saying goes, "When a woman comes, teach her baby." Honestly.

People who can't teach their children don't want to be trapped in their own sins, but more importantly, they hurt their color and can't bear to suffer. How can Andrew be saved when the disease is an Oracle without the help of decoction? Can those who should also be thrifty and housekeeping be cruel to their own flesh and blood? If you have to! The strictness of father and son cannot be abolished; Love with flesh and blood, not Jane.

6. About the ancient poems about family rules and family instructions, 1, Zeng Guofan's admonition book Zeng Guofan's original text in the Qing Dynasty: the way of self-study is not difficult to raise the heart; It is difficult to raise your heart, but you should also be cautious.

You can be cautious, introspective and innocent, and you can geological ghosts and gods. No one is ashamed, then the heavenly king will be calm.

This heart is always agile and broad-minded, which is the first way to strengthen yourself, to have fun and to keep fit. The most difficult thing to cultivate one's self-cultivation is to cultivate one's mind, and the most difficult thing to cultivate one's mind is to be careful when you are alone.

If a person can be cautious in thinking, speaking and acting, he can have a clear conscience and live up to the conscience of heaven and earth and the questioning of ghosts and gods. If a person doesn't do anything guilty when he is alone, then he will feel very stable, and his mood will often be very happy, satisfied, relieved and safe. Think, say and do carefully (when you are alone) is the best road to self-improvement, the way to find happiness in life, and the basis to remain honest.

2, "Training frugality to show health" Northern Song Dynasty historian Sima Guang Original: The rest are famous for their frugality, and there are many people who lose themselves in extravagance, which is countless. Here are a few people to train you. If you are not a disciple, you should cultivate your children and let them know the customs of their predecessors.

There are many others who have built their reputations because of thrift, and committed suicide because of luxury, so I won't list them one by one. Here are some people to teach you. You should not only practice frugality yourself, but also use it to teach your children and grandchildren and let them know the styles and customs of their predecessors.

3. The original text of Fan Zhongyan in the Song Dynasty, "A Hundred Words Inscription of Fan Wenzheng's Public Instructions": Filial piety should do its best, loyalty and courage should show Dan Cheng; We should do our best to be filial to our parents and relatives and express our loyalty to our country. 4, "Disciple Rules" Li Yuxiu in the Qing Dynasty Original: Parents should call, should not go slow.

Parents, don't be lazy. Parents should listen to them.

Parents' responsibilities must be obeyed. Parents should answer the phone in time, and don't delay it for a long time.

Parents have something to explain, and they should start at once, without delay. Parents teach us how to behave, and we should listen respectfully.

5, "Reading on a Winter Night" Song Dynasty poet Lu You Original: The ancients learned nothing, and they lived for a long time. What you get on paper is so shallow that you never know what you have to do.

The ancients spared no effort in learning, and often achieved nothing when they were old. The knowledge gained from books is not perfect. If you want to understand the truth deeply, you must practice it yourself.

7. Yan's family precepts in classical Chinese are books of sages, which teach people sincere filial piety, prudence and fame, and are well prepared.

The Wei and Jin Dynasties came, and all the philosophers wrote, focusing on things, discussing models, and putting their ears on the bed. The reason why I came back to this place today is not that I dare not follow the example of the world, but that I want to clean up my door and tear up my children and grandchildren.

Husband believes in the same words and believes in his loved ones; Walk with the same life and do what you serve. It is better to forbid a boy from being violent than to be ordered by Fu Maid, and to be obedient than to be taught by his wife.

I hope this book is believed by Cao Cao, and it is more virtuous than Fu Maid and Widow. (I have already said: follow) My family's ethics has always been a whole secret, and I was lured and taught in the past.

Every time I follow my two brothers, I am gentle, sober, polite and calm. Give excellent words, ask what is good, encourage short lead long, and be sincere.

When I was nine years old, I was a small pot of tea, and my family was surrounded. A kind-hearted brother has devoted all his efforts and made painstaking preparations. Different people have different opinions.

Although I read "Li" and "Biography", I love it very much and am quite influenced by mortals. If you want to speak out of order, you will be slovenly.

At the age of eighteen or nineteen, I know very little, and I learn naturally, which is hard to wash away. After 20 years, the ratio is bigger.

Every constant heart * * * enemy, sex and love compete, night feeling is small, today regrets yesterday's loss, self-pity, and even self-pity. Think of the fingers of the past, think of bones; It's not an ancient book commandment, but it has been seen by the eyes.

So, I left these twenty articles, thinking that you are Cao's people. There are still 20 articles. Do you need translation and original text?

8. "Zhu Zi Jia Xun" (original) ancient prose and translation: get up at dawn, sweep the court, and be neat inside and outside; When you are unconscious, you will rest. If you close the door, you will behave well.

Four screens of Zhuzi's family instructions (note): except court: courtyard. Get up at dawn every morning, sprinkle water on the ground inside and outside the court before sweeping the floor to make it clean and tidy; At dusk, you should have a rest and check for yourself whether the door is locked.

(Original): It is not easy to think about a porridge and a meal; It is difficult to keep thinking about material resources. For a porridge and a meal, it is hard to think of it; For half-silk or half-thread clothes, we should always remember that it is very difficult to produce these materials.

It is better to plan ahead than to dig wells in the face of thirst. (Note): Take precautions (chóu móu): Before it rains, you should fix the doors and windows of the house, which means that everything should be prepared in advance.

Everything should be prepared first, like building a house before it rains, instead of "cramming for the Buddha's feet", like digging a well when you are thirsty. Self-help must be frugal, and banquet guests must not stay.

Be frugal in your life, and don't dawdle when you get together for dinner. (Original): The utensils are clean and tidy, and tiles are better than gold; The more exquisite the diet, the more delicious the vegetables in the garden.

(Note): tile (fǒu): ware made of tile. Rare (xiū): Rare and exquisite food.

The tableware is simple and clean. Although it is pottery made of clay, it is better than jade. The food is both economical and exquisite. Although it is a vegetable grown in the garden, it is better than delicacies. (Original): Don't run fancy houses, don't seek fertile land.

Don't build gorgeous houses, and don't try to buy good countryside. (The following gray content can't be taught to children) (Original): Three aunts and six grandmothers are the media of prostitution and theft; Beautiful girls and concubines are not the blessings of the boudoir.

Unscrupulous women in society are the media of prostitution and theft; Beautiful handmaids and charming concubines are not family happiness. Don't be handsome for a boy servant, and don't wear bright clothes for wives.

Babies and slaves should not hire handsome people, and wives and concubines should not have gorgeous decorations. (Original): Although the ancestors are far away, the sacrifice must be sincere; Although children and grandchildren are stupid, they must read classics.

Although our ancestors have left us for a long time, we should still offer sacrifices devoutly; Even if children and grandchildren are stupid, education should not be neglected. (Original): Life is simple, and teaching children is righteous.

(Note): Righteousness: the right way to be a man. I scrimp and save, and educate my children and grandchildren in the right way.

Don't covet unexpected wealth and don't drink too much. Don't be greedy for money that doesn't belong to you, and don't drink too much.

(Original): Do not take advantage of the trade with Shoujian; When you see poor neighbors, you must be warm-hearted. Don't take advantage of small shoplifters when dealing with them. When you see poor relatives or neighbors, you should care about them and give them money or other assistance.

(original): mean marriage will not last long; Lun Chang is a good boy and will die soon. (Note): strange ancient (chu ǐ n): violation.

(Bai Wen): Those who get rich by being mean to others will never enjoy this happiness for long. Those who violate morality will soon be eliminated.

(Original): Brothers and uncles need to be more generous; Young and old, both inside and outside, should be strict with themselves. Brothers and uncles should help each other, and the rich should help the poor; A family should have strict rules, and the words of the elders should be solemn to the younger generation.

(Original): Listen to a woman, is a good flesh and blood a husband? If you value wealth and ignore your parents, you can't be the son of human beings. Listening to a woman's provocation hurts the feelings of flesh and blood. What is it worth to be a man? It is not reasonable for children to value money and treat their parents badly.

(Original): Marry a woman and choose a good husband, and don't ask for re-employment; It's not too thick to marry a daughter-in-law and beg a lady. (Note): lián: A generous dowry.

If you want to marry your daughter, choose a good husband for her and don't want expensive dowry; Marrying a daughter-in-law must require a virtuous woman, not a generous dowry. It is the most shameful to flatter at the sight of wealth, and it is nothing to be arrogant when it comes to poverty.

It's the most shameful to be ingratiating with the rich, but it's the most despicable to be arrogant when meeting the poor. (Original): If there is no lawsuit at home, the lawsuit will be fierce; Don't talk too much in life, you will suffer.

Living at home, no lawsuits. Once a lawsuit is fought, no matter whether you win or lose, the result is unlucky. Don't talk too much in life, you will suffer.

(Comment): Litigation always costs money and time, and even damages property. Even if you win, it's not worth the loss. If there is any contradiction, mediation or reconciliation should be adopted as far as possible.

(Original): Don't bully widows, don't kill birds. Don't bully and oppress orphans and widows by force, and don't slaughter animals such as cattle, sheep, chickens and ducks at will for greed.

(original): eccentric, you will regret many mistakes; Laziness and self-indulgence are hard. People who are eccentric and self-righteous will inevitably regret often doing wrong things; Decadent and lazy, addicted to ignorance, it is difficult to get married.

(Original): If you are naughty, you will be tired for a long time; Qu Zhi is old, but if you are in a hurry, you can rely on each other. (Note): xiá nì √: It's too close.

(Translation): A teenager who is not close will suffer for a long time; Respectfully and modestly associate with people who are experienced and good at doing things, and you can get his guidance or help when you encounter difficulties. (Original): Listen to the speech lightly, and know the inhuman accusation? Be patient and think twice before you act; I don't know if I argue about what is my fault. You need to think calmly.

(Note): v. (zèn): Slander. Don't believe other people's gossip, think twice before you act.

Because how do we know he's not here to speak ill of people? If you argue about something, you should reflect on yourself calmly, because how do you know it's not my fault? You don't want to give benefits, but you don't forget to be grateful. Don't take your kindness to others to heart, but always take your kindness to others to heart.

(Comment): Always remember the goodness of others, and look at the people and environment around you with gratitude, then this world is heaven. Look around ungrateful.