Japanese children basically have no parents to send them to and from school. Why are there so few incidents in which children are lost?

Nowadays, families are generally only children, so children are the "pillars" of every family.

Losing a child is what every family doesn't want! In today's society, there are not a few traffickers who abduct and sell children, and more than 200,000 children are lost in China every year; Japanese children run all over the street; There are very few cases of losing children. Why?

Comparison of child loss rate between China and Japan

According to TV reports: "About 200,000 children go missing every year in China!"

The problem of population loss is the biggest problem in China in recent years, especially the loss of children. Babies, babbling children in prams, and even children aged five or six will be abducted and lost in China. Moreover, the lost child has a 90% chance of not being found back!

In more densely populated Japan, the phenomenon of childlessness is rare, with only about 80 cases in ten years. What causes the gap between China and Japan to be so big?

Why are China children afraid of getting lost, but Japanese children can run all over the street? The four reasons behind it should be clear.

First, a strict legal system.

China's "crime of trafficking in children" stipulates that whoever illegally abducts and sells women and children shall be sentenced to five to ten years' imprisonment. That is to say, if the child abductor is released from prison for 5- 10 years, it will have little impact on his life after he is released from prison, and he can still live a normal life.

A magazine said that the most serious problem of abducting children and women is three years' imprisonment or life imprisonment. What's more, it is only criminal detention and control, and even connives at "traffickers."

Crime of trafficking in children is more serious in Japan (child abduction is the same crime in Japan).

In addition to sentencing, social tolerance will be reduced, information and crimes will be made public nationwide, and Japanese citizenship will be lost, making life difficult even after you get out of prison. Therefore, the phenomenon of abducting and selling children in Japan is particularly rare.

Second, frustration education.

Children in China are generally the treasures of their parents and the hearts of their grandparents; The education advocated is kind and sensible, and there is no particularly rigid requirement for others. In life, everything children encounter has the help of their elders, and they will become dependent. When they are in danger, they often can't think of a better solution and can't solve the problem calmly.

Japanese children are the opposite. In order to exercise children's perseverance, children are even required to wear shorts to school in winter, just to exercise their calm and determined character; Therefore, Japanese children can often handle emergencies calmly, and their anti-frustration education began in kindergarten.

Children in China have always lacked frustration education. Children always want to rely on their parents when facing difficulties. They have lost the ability to face difficulties and will not find a way to solve the problem by themselves.

3, the police patrol, children are not allowed to be alone.

Parents in Japan know that there will be one or several patrol policemen riding bicycles in every street and alley in Japan. They look at the children who are "alone". No matter what the situation is, the patrolling police will come forward to ask clearly to see if the children are lost.

Not only that, when a child gets lost in the street and no patrolman finds it, the child will take the initiative to find the police, and the police will send the child home immediately.

Japanese children have a high awareness of safety since childhood.

Children in China will obediently follow strangers when playing lollipops in the street. The reason is that children have not cultivated safety awareness since childhood.

Japanese parents tell their children not to talk to strangers and not to contact strangers every day. Not only parents, but also teachers, warning every day; And the children can read, and the school will issue test papers. The content of the test paper is some unexpected events, so let the children write out the handling methods. Because of this, Japanese children are often able to deal with emergencies calmly.

Therefore, to cultivate children's safety awareness, parents should learn to use picture books as a tool to guide children from stories and make them easier to remember.