How do couples live in peace?

First, learn to respect.

Learn to respect each other's personality and pay attention to each other's words and deeds. Two people may have different views, viewpoints and attitudes towards people and things because of their different family environment, personal life experience and education level. In the process of conversation, two people should be allowed to have different voices, different opinions and different expressions. You can't measure each other with your own views and standards, let alone criticize each other from the commanding heights of morality. On the premise of mutual respect, slowly penetrate and run in, and finally form a tacit understanding to reach an agreement.

Second, learn to listen.

Learn to listen to each other's joys and sorrows, and learn to listen to each other's life feelings and life feelings. Everyone's life trajectory is different, and the life experience they encounter may be different. When the other party encounters difficulties and setbacks, you should learn to be a listening listener while helping them out of the predicament in time. In the process of listening, slowly enlighten and narrow the psychological distance between the two sides. When the other person has a successful career or has achieved something in some ways, you should learn to share the joy and joy of success with him and enjoy the gift of life with him.

Third, learn to praise.

Be good at discovering each other's strengths and some bright spots, and learn to praise each other. Life is not without beauty, but the lack of a pair of eyes that are good at discovering beauty. Similarly, the other person also has many advantages and places worthy of your praise. You should practice a pair of critical eyes, find the beauty in each other in time, and give praise and encouragement in time. Men and women in love pay special attention to the evaluation given by each other. Sometimes, a compliment or an encouraging look from the other person is enough to make the other person happy all day. A compliment can not only enhance each other's self-confidence, but also give them endless strength and courage to overcome difficulties. The most important thing is to praise each other and have a good mood at the same time.

Fourth, learn to care.

Is to learn to care about each other. Since two people are in love together, we should care about each other wholeheartedly and let each other feel your warmth and enthusiasm all the time. When the seasons change, remind each other to pay more attention to increasing or decreasing clothes; When it is windy and rainy, you should pick up and drop off each other to work or give each other a small umbrella; The other person is ill and needs meticulous care. The concern between lovers comes from the little things around them, from each other's words and deeds.

Fifth, learn to be tolerant

Learn to tolerate each other's shortcomings and forgive each other's mistakes. Gold is not enough, no one is perfect. In the process of love, don't haggle over every ounce, let alone find fault, but learn to tolerate each other's shortcomings and some small mistakes. Many times, because of an irrelevant sentence or a very small thing, lovers blush. Afterwards, they admitted their mistakes and apologized. It seems that they have made up again. In fact, they will leave some bad marks in their hearts more or less. To tolerate each other is to tolerate oneself, to warm up feelings and to sublimate love in the process of mutual tolerance.