What can make people grow up must be the experience of making slow money, not the experience of making quick money.

What can make people grow up must be the experience of making slow money, not the experience of making quick money.

-Venus, not me.

Because making quick money will make a person slowly become lazier.

I remember Mr. Wang said that if people want to make money, they should avoid the mode of making money if they don't open for one day and three years. If you don't open for a day, open for three years, and then this person will become very lazy.

You don't want to spend more time on business. Actually, it includes self-media.

Why do you write every day and why do you shoot videos every day? Isn't it just to let yourself get into the habit of exporting-not to prevent yourself from becoming a person who has always wanted to give up?

In fact, few people can do it day after day and then continue to do it.

This filters out most people. Although there is no threshold for writing, there is a threshold for insisting on writing. And the longer you persist, the higher the threshold. If you persist in 10 years, it is impossible for others to catch up with you.

/kloc-it is impossible for others to catch up with you in 0/year. If others can catch up with you, prove that you haven't been writing. Maybe you just spend three or two days drying the net. But as long as you have been writing 10 years and write 5000 words every day, it is impossible for others to catch up.

Writing depends on accumulation, and so does wealth. If I get rich overnight, I prefer to get rich after 10 years. Because you can use this 10 year to accumulate your own means of production. And if you want to make money, you have to make it bit by bit. Then accumulate 10 years, and you will find that you are already rich.

And your mentality at this time is very stable, because you know what your wealth comes from. It's accumulated. Compared with getting rich overnight, you may be 10 years earlier, but you can guarantee that you will always be rich in this 10 year. Maybe you will be poor in 10 years. You spent all your money.

While the other person chooses 10 years to become rich, you are still standing still, and the other person has surpassed your 10 years.

Others choose to do 10 in their twenties, and you choose to get rich overnight in your twenties. 10, you have nothing in your thirties, while others are already rich and free in their thirties.

So-it is best for a person not to have the experience of making quick money. If you make quick money, deposit it directly in the bank and withdraw it after 5 years. 10 year. But most people don't do that. Most people just take money to buy a house and a car.

The most important thing is that his cognition is not worthy of the windfall he got at this time, so he will lose this wealth. 10 years later, he will still be poor.

If you want to grow up, you must learn to earn a penny. It is an experience to earn money slowly rather than quickly. This experience is suffering and doing one thing diligently. Nothing can replace this experience.

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Many women will ask-why don't you have a boyfriend?

I asked-are there 5000 people in your letter?

-Venus, not me.

Haha, people are actually hooked up with high dignitaries. I'd like to see if there are 5000 people in some idiot's letter.

If not, then you will have to live in the cracks. In my opinion, if there are less than 5000 people in a letter, no matter whether you are looking for someone or trying to make money, you can't achieve the desired effect.

Of course, I don't mean casting a wide net, but let you look at the matter of finding someone from the perspective of a businessman. When there are only 300 people in a letter, it can only prove that the person you can choose is among these 300 people.

Moreover, most of these 300 people are actually worthless people, such as couriers, real estate, roommates, colleagues who have worked in the past and so on. These just have no reference value for you.

It's hard for you to find one of these 300 people. Don't talk about finding a partner, it's hard to get these 300 people to pay you 10 yuan. If these 300 people don't even have the idea of paying you, why do you think you are valuable to each other?

Maybe you are a girl, maybe you are young, maybe you are beautiful. But I still can't find someone when I am young and beautiful. It means that there must be no one you want to marry among these 300 people. At this time, you should expand your circle and delete those workers.

Why delete migrant workers? Because you're looking for excellent people, you're definitely not looking for them. That is, you need to find higher-level people among business people and get in touch with them. Only in this way can we find the object we are satisfied with.

People who do business may not say those sweet words, good words and good words to you. These part-time jobs can talk-but you don't like them. Then you have to find those straight men-how can you do business without directly? Right?

Pay attention to efficiency in business. You should pay attention to efficiency when looking for someone. When your circle of friends is less than 300 people, you don't even know who to marry. Finding someone to marry is the same as doing business.

If you don't have a target group, you will never find good people in your life. If there are only 300 people in a letter, it also proves that you are a part-time job. There must be more than 300 business people in a letter. Especially in the mobile phones of those who make a lot of money. Definitely more than that.

So, it's still a question of your own social circle. If you want to expand your social circle, you have to rely on the internet. There is no need to invite people to dinner, movies or one-on-one relationships. Just be with good people.

Teacher Wang said that the Internet has reset the relationship in this society. People you can't reach, you can also see them online and learn about their dynamics. So how do you get into a higher circle? Either give money or you are valuable to each other. There are only two ways. Another is your talent.

Don't worry, the richer people are, the more they like to make friends with talented people. Maybe it matters if you become friends?

Rich people will not be with the second generation. They are too corny. The house is not your own, and you have to pay rent to your parents. No money, no right, no money. Just buy a bus and go to the bar.

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When you have expressed your love for someone, but the other person is indifferent, then you should give up as soon as possible.

-Venus, not me.

If two people want to be together for a long time, the premise is that you like each other, not that you have a crush on each other. People who secretly love you might as well be with people who like you, whether they are men or women. It is enough for people to take the initiative once, and they don't need to take the initiative too much. Especially women, if the other party has made it clear that you can't.

At this time, you shouldn't say whether you want to stick to it or not, and the other person will be with you. It doesn't exist. Feelings are the most unsuitable for the so-called persistence, and you are not doing anything. Inappropriate is inappropriate. It's no fun if you stick to it.

It's not like what you wrote. As long as you stick to it, there will be results in the end. Even if you don't succeed, you won't lose anything at most, just delay your time. But your writing is your own business. Falling in love is between you two.

Many people fall in love, and after confession, the other party has clearly refused. Then you are still there begging for help and buying things for others. Thought we could touch each other. Actually, I'm just touching myself. It's just that many people are immersed in their own emotions.

But being moved by yourself will not make the other person tempted by you. If you meet someone who just wants something from you, then the other person will take advantage of your kindness to him and ask you to buy something for him. This is not worth the loss. Don't think that people in this world are simple.

Tell yourself in your heart that even if you don't lie to others, you can't guarantee that others won't lie to you.

And most of the emotional infidelity is for money. If you still send money and things to send warm, you are stupid. Don't make yourself look cheap, compare when it's time to compare. If others don't like you, naturally someone will like you.

Maybe you're not rich enough. When you are rich, more people will like you. There is a saying-don't hang yourself on a tree. There are many people in China, so I'm afraid I can't find one you like. Unless you are poor, poor people don't like anyone. Rich people like everyone.

You are over 30 years old and have achieved wealth freedom. You can be with whoever you want. But if people earn their own money, then they will choose people carefully. Because at this time, you are not just a person, you are a person with a career.

Get married and divide the property in half. Want you, will you?

So-don't think that if you are kind to someone, others should like you.

It shouldn't be that others have the final say, and others refuse to give up directly. In order to get money, it doesn't matter, people. It's everywhere. The person I don't like the most is the one who is lovelorn. Generally, such people are useless. You can't live without a love, and you still expect to do something? Are you kidding?

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The more mature people are, the more they pay attention to the interests and will not be so emotional.

-Venus, not me.

All emotional people are of little value, and the lower the salary, the more emotional they are.

People who earn 3000 yuan are ticking time bombs. People with a monthly salary of 5,000 yuan may be 10% better, but they don't know how to tolerate things when they are in trouble.

Anyone with a monthly salary of 50,000 knows how to choose. It is good to know who you can get along with. It is not important to know your emotions. People with a monthly salary of 65438+100,000 all feel that they are here, and they usually walk like LV socks.

In fact, no matter how much your monthly salary is, your height can't reach the level of your boss. A boss with an annual salary of 1 10,000 is different from a migrant worker with an annual salary of 1 10,000. Because the risks are different.

People's emotions are realized according to their own risks.

When a person earns 3000 yuan a month, he has nothing to lose. They will quarrel with customers, colleagues and strangers. Because finding a job again is a big deal. A job with a monthly salary of 3000 is easy to find.

The same is true for people with a monthly salary of 5 thousand They are also emotional, except that people with a monthly salary of 3 thousand quarrel, and people with a monthly salary of 5 thousand go to Indiana. Maybe if you are arguing, you can have a fight-the weak sympathize with the weak. I think friendship is very important. Actually, it's worthless

A person who can't even control his emotions-he doesn't deserve to be friends with anyone.

When a man earns 50 thousand a month, he will know what to say, what not to say, what to do and what not to do. And who to make friends with, and say everything clearly in front of the boss. Even if you are scolded by the boss, you must endure it. Why?

Because jobs with a monthly salary of 50 thousand are hard to find. Maybe it took you 65,438+00 years to get a monthly salary of 50,000. If you work in a small company at home, you have to find a job at a discount when you go out. If you were in a big factory, you wouldn't be so miserable.

At this time, the mood will not be so obvious. The same is true at work, but it may be different at home. After all, I am still working. Of course, it is stable for people with a monthly income of less than 10 thousand. People who can earn at least 50 thousand a month will not earn 5000 a month.

People with a monthly salary of 65,438+10,000 consider themselves the strongest king in the world. In fact, there is no king who is not a king, only the best at work. But entrepreneurs also look down on you. Because you work, others start businesses. Even if someone fails to start a business, their monthly salary is 65438+ Wan Qiang. At least people failed. What about you?

But entrepreneurs are basically temperamental and insensitive. Because nobody matters. Career is the most important thing. Without a career, I care about what others do.

They will care about the relationship with investors, because it is related to their own career.

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The longest confession is definitely not companionship, because companionship is the cheapest.

-Venus, not me.

A 985, 2 1 1 graduated from junior college, and then because his family was poor, he said he wanted to find a job in his hometown with a monthly salary of 2000 and take care of his family by the way. Is this filial piety? Is this the company?

Do you think this is a kind of respect for parents? Do you think if you were a parent, you would want this child to be with you?

If you are a parent and want your children to do the same, you will ruin their future. Going to a good university is also what parents want to see. Taking care of your parents is also what you want to see. In fact, parents treat their children as pets.

If you let him go, he will go. He won't leave unless you let him go. Is this still an independent individual? This part-time job is the slave of parents. To put it bluntly, it is a nanny. Finding a nanny in Shenzhen can get at least 8000 yuan a month. In my hometown, it is free to use.

If you were a child, you would read so many books for nothing. Reading is for a person's family to get rid of poverty, not for poverty. You have no money at home, and you still find excuses to accompany your parents at home-some people say that companionship is the longest confession.

It's all bullshit I am just lazy. I just don't want to go out and break in. I am afraid of failure, afraid that I can't face myself after failure. I'm afraid I can't get along outside and I'm ashamed to come back. People are selfish, especially children from poor families. Most poor people are selfish.

What to eat with your parents? Just for your own convenience.

The best way to repay your parents is to be productive, that is, to go out and make money. Otherwise, why do you rely on 985,211university? Go out and let you work? No, just going out to make money. I'm not asking you to bring tea and water to the boss-

Just have a waiter bring tea and water. Spent a few 65438+ million. You go out to serve tea and water-how expensive is the waiter?

People should not be too emotional, but rational. We should constantly break through the thinking mode of the weak. Being with someone won't make you rich, make you rich and free, and make others look at you with new eyes.

Don't think like the weak, and don't let the weak do things like them. Is to be rational. Where there is good development, we must go there. There is no way to make you famous and have social status by staying in your hometown. This will make you the laughingstock of all your peers-

They will say that your parents sent you to a good university, and then coming back is like farming. Then why read a few books, don't you think?

What people need is not company, but fame. What is needed is fame, either money or fame. Why else would you read so many books when you grow up? Do you want to say something sweet?

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People who like to spend money most definitely have no time to make money.

-Venus, not me.

People are either on the way to making money or spending money.

Some people say that I don't spend money unless I go out by myself. Cook by yourself, drink tap water, and stay at home except for work. Then you don't have to spend money.

You are wrong-because the house you rent has been spending money, so has your network, the package of your mobile phone number, and the water, electricity and coal you use. Renting a house for 2000 yuan a month costs 70 yuan a day.

If your monthly income is 3000 yuan, then you can rent a house for 1000 yuan for one day in 30 yuan. You still have to stay indoors. If you spend at least 2000 yuan a month, you can only save 1000 yuan a month. If you have a dinner party or something. You can't save this 3000 yuan.

Even if you don't go out for dinner, you spend money all the time-to put it bluntly, you spend money when you sleep. Unless you live in a company, the company will provide you with accommodation. But in big cities, it is generally impossible. Unless you work in a factory. Otherwise, you have to solve the problem yourself.

What is the final calculation? You have to keep spending money. In other words, as long as your income does not increase and you hold a fixed salary, your life will only get worse and worse. And money is depreciating every year. One-year depreciation 10%. If your income does not increase at this rate, then your income will continue to decline.

You can't afford a house or a car. If you have a loan, you can't even lose your job.

People either make money or spend money. If you don't make money, you are spending money. If you play at home for two days on weekends, you will lose 140 yuan. If you take a week off, you will lose 500 yuan.

Even if you are full-time for a month and don't go out, you can get an expenditure of 2000 yuan. Living is just needed, and eating is just needed. So-you can either make more money in your spare time or work for more than 10 years and go straight back to your hometown. This is predictable—

I'm not here to intimidate you. /kloc-How many people are 0/year old? From 22 to 30, you only have eight years. And from 30 to 40, you only have 10 years.

So-many people like to spend money, so their income must be in deficit. Even if the salary is higher, he doesn't have much left. Especially those who have requirements for food, clothing, housing and transportation, generally such people can't make money. Even if they can make money, they can't save it.

The most meaningful and positive thing in this world is to make money. Because when you are making money, you don't spend money.