I would rather be a vagrant in the city than go back to my hometown.

What's it like to drift away from home?

That is, I just go home to see my parents, and then I just want to stay at home every day and don't want to go anywhere.

It means that relatives and friends get together and talk about trivial things that happen at home. I have nothing to say but "yes", "yes" and "yes", and I can't get into their circle.

It is when I see my childhood playmates who have become housewives greet me, I will only remember who she is, but I can't remember, and then I forget to say anything polite.

I just can't get used to the slow-paced lazy life there, and spending a lot of time eating a meal still doesn't smell like a child.

That is, two days after I returned to China, I began to calculate, and I can leave in a few days.

Yes, the place we used to know has become strange and there is no intersection. When I was studying, I always said that I would build my hometown when I grew up, and then I chose to leave as soon as I graduated.

When I leave my heart, I follow.

When I first came to Shenzhen, my classmates often got together.

At that time, it was often said that one plan was to earn some money in Shenzhen and go back to my hometown for development.

Yes, the prosperity of Shenzhen attracted us, and the prosperity of Shenzhen also made us feel powerless at that time. It's better to stay here without work experience.

After two or three years of persistence, the situation of the students who stayed has improved, and gradually they have the other half. I was the first in this group to get married. I don't really want to marry everyone, but I regard him as a potential classmate. My eyes are strange.

Everyone got together and talked about their work and life in Shenzhen, but they forgot their plan to go back to their hometown for development.

Yes, everything here has become familiar and accustomed. Accustomed to the rainy season, accustomed to the warm climate, accustomed to the green of the four seasons, accustomed to the hard-working life under the words "Shenzhen speed" and "Shenzhen people come".

Yes, Shenzhen tacitly became the second hometown, and the hometown gradually began to blur.

Yes, I want to stay for a long time. Our three views are baptized in this city, and then we can adapt to everything here. Although we often feel tired, we can be full of blood and vitality every day, because this is a city full of vitality and dreams.

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I don't want to spend my life in a small place like my hometown. I can't change my fate and do what I want. It doesn't matter if I don't have a platform, but I am regarded as incompetent, so I choose to come to Shenzhen.

When I was a child, my father was very worried about my future. He thinks it is difficult for me to find a job as soon as I step into the society, because I am not good at talking, rude, boastful and ignorant of the world.

So when my father talked about me, he had a headache, saying that I would suffer when I grew up, and there was nothing at home to help me.

So I felt sorry for myself since I was a child, thinking that I really couldn't do it and made mistakes in doing things. I am usually silent, afraid that others will call me stupid, and I am used to walking with my head down.

When you come to Shenzhen, you find that there are many opportunities, that is, you have to rely on your own ability to win.

Yes, we should have the ability to create value, not whether we like to talk or not.

In a company where I worked, the boss said that an employee should not be judged by introversion or extroversion. Everyone has his advantages. We should give full play to everyone's strengths and avoid putting employees in positions that they are not good at and burying talents.

Yes, as long as you have the ability, you don't have to worry about not finding a job here.

Therefore, people in this city are hardworking and strive to become capable.

This is probably why I like to toss. In this city, there are too many people who work harder than me and too many people who are better than me. I'm afraid of being abandoned by this city.

When I am free, I feel anxious. When I set a goal for myself and then try to achieve it, my heart will be solid.

I have worked for 10 years, and several leaders I have talked with have recognized and trusted me. If you give me a job, I can do better than others and reassure them.

And my father's worry about me since childhood has never been an obstacle to me.

Now I accept my imperfections, I admit that my emotional intelligence is low, and I no longer feel sorry for myself, but I am neither humble nor supercilious.

It is the city of Shenzhen that has made me who I am today and made me better.

Every time my dad comes to my house, he always sees me holding a book or typing in front of the computer. I can't understand it. He said that work means going to work on time every day. Why are we still busy after work?

Yes, because this is in Shenzhen.

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The phrase "Shenzhen people come" can be seen everywhere in Shenzhen, so we foreigners really don't treat ourselves as foreigners.

After so many years, I can't speak a word of Cantonese. When people talk to me in Cantonese, I will tell them directly that I don't know Cantonese. Pay attention to your language. I'm not embarrassed or worried about being discriminated against.

If you don't get a business card, you must find an acquaintance to solve it. If you are unfamiliar with the business, there is a special consultation window to answer your questions in detail.

And working in Shenzhen, the biggest feeling is fast and good service attitude. If the employees are angry with you, then ta will be miserable.

The complaint telephone number is located in a conspicuous position and can also be found online. Someone must answer the phone, take notes, and follow up with the relevant personnel until it is solved, and you will never have a bad attitude because of your complaint, but you will be very good.

Why? Because I did, but the service was not bad.

On one occasion, I couldn't find the corresponding business window for handling the company's business, and I also called several times for consultation. The business acceptance location given by the customer service is wrong, and we also blame our products for being too special. It is estimated that it is difficult to judge which department accepted it.

Later, I made a complaint phone call with trepidation.

The customer service kindly asked me, "Hello, which department do you want to complain about?" I was confused at that time. To tell you the truth, I have complained to the government department. A foreigner born in a small place like me is a little afraid to speak.

Then she asked me again, and I said my request. The customer service recorded my demands one by one and checked with me to ensure the accuracy of the information, and then told me that the relevant personnel would contact me until my demands were resolved.

Later, the staff of the acceptance department really called me. First, they apologized to me, then told me where to go, the process and the information requirements, and answered me patiently.

In this regard, I am really satisfied and very moved. I didn't expect them to be so responsible

This is Shenzhen, a place where people in my hometown can't believe that there is such a sincere service for the people.

In my hometown, such treatment is impossible. I don't know who to call if I want to complain. Even if I do it, no one dares to do it, because everyone knows that working in my hometown depends on connections. Who will make trouble for themselves? I don't think I can do anything in the future, but I can bear it.

So, if you want to do something in Shenzhen, you will be treated fairly.

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In fact, I especially like to marvel at the public facilities in Shenzhen.

There are many borrowing points, most of which are located in residential areas, so automatic borrowing is very convenient. Library staff regularly sort out and change books every working day. There are abundant learning resources, and there are many free public welfare classes in Shenzhen.

Every district of the social health center has it, and you can go to the social health at your doorstep to see the minor problems. If you go to a big hospital, you can make an appointment online and choose your own doctor. Don't worry that the doctor can't diagnose your illness. The medical resources here are far ahead in the country.

There are more parks. I live in four districts. I can see men, women and children exercising in the morning and evening. It is also very cool for family members to come here to bask in the sun on weekends. Everyone in Shenzhen knows that there is a kind of blue, called Shenzhen Blue. It is really a pleasure to have an outdoor sport in sunny weather. I often go cycling on weekends and feel very relaxed and happy.

The greening of Shenzhen is highly praised. Trees have shade all the year round. A netizen on Zhihu said, "In Shenzhen, you see buildings among the trees."

I went to several cities this Spring Festival. What makes me unaccustomed most is that there is too little greening, the leaves are all yellow and the sky is gray. Before that, I thought about staying in the second-tier cities for two years. Seeing this, I gave up this idea decisively. I still like Shenzhen Green and Shenzhen Blue best.

Speaking of transportation, the rail transit in Shenzhen has been built very fast in recent years, and it has become more and more developed. Basically, the subway can be the first choice for going out. There will be a free Shenzhen Metropolis Daily in the morning, and even if it is far from the subway entrance, there will be bicycles. If not, there is a fixed-point shuttle bus to and from work in Shenzhen. If you can't get a taxi, you can call an express or a special car. There is always something for you to travel.

The driving school, which was only reported two years ago, has been quiet until now. It is because the traffic in Shenzhen is so convenient that I don't think driving will bring any inconvenience to my life. What I want now is not to take the exam quickly, but whether I can get a refund. I don't even want to take the exam.

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After staying in Shenzhen for a long time, I will pay attention to education.

In the past two years, the pace of school construction in Shenzhen has also been much faster. There are two schools under construction around where I live.

It is said that there are not only public schools, but also private schools, including children of migrant workers who cannot attend public schools, and some advanced private schools.

Is the school here really good? For me, I don't know if it is good enough, but I am very satisfied with the school here.

My family has gone to primary school, so reading is really free, and there is no need to pay textbook fees. This seems very important in other cities.

When children go to school, should our parents have a good relationship with teachers and let them take care of their children?

Oh, no, as we all know, I'm the last person who can't kiss up and doesn't bother to shoot.

Although when I was in primary school, my mother always blew in my ear that it was not good to sit in the last row, and asked me to give a gift to my teacher, saying that I didn't understand the way of the world and was left out by my teacher.

However, I don't listen to my mother at all.

It turns out that I was right.

As long as the strong homework at home is not completed and the learning state is not good, the teacher will tell me at the first time and advise me how to adjust my children. The teacher won't forget to tell me when the children behave well.

In addition, the teacher will analyze the children's learning situation in all aspects and then give it back to me, so that our parents can understand and strengthen the children's weaknesses in time.

In short, teachers will take the initiative to keep in touch with parents.

Then why is his seat in the back? Zhuang Zhuang told me that the teacher came according to his height. He is the tallest in the class, so he sits in the last row. He thinks it's not bad to sit in the last row. Besides, schools in Shenzhen strictly control each class to have no more than 50 students, and the last row is just the sixth row.

My niece's school is very famous in my hometown. There are more than 80 students in a class, and their seats are changing. Sometimes students forget their seats and there are too many related households.

I also want to talk about re-education.

People who work hard in such a first-tier city will feel the same way. There are many people who are better than themselves. There are always some aspects that need further study. One of my colleagues has just resigned and is going to study abroad.

In Shenzhen, there are many adult learning institutions, so you can choose according to your tolerance and actual situation.

In a small city, this piece is probably still blank. I found an English training institution for Zhang a few days ago. Many well-known institutions have no coverage in some second-tier cities, and most of them provide online education. In a small city, if you want to learn, resources are still very limited.

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I may be scolded for writing here.

If there is no house in Shenzhen, no matter how good it is. Finally, you don't have to go back to your hometown. You no longer like the place where you grew up, but you can finally have a home, buy a house and live there.

Yes, in big cities, it is the high housing prices that make it difficult for people wandering here. People who want to settle here but can't afford a house are the most painful problems.

When we came home this Spring Festival, we went to see the house in our hometown. A set of three rooms and two halls, 900 thousand.

900,000 I remember that in 2009, I could buy a small three-bedroom elevator at Shenzhen Customs. At that time, the three-bedroom elevator in my hometown was only 1.5 million.

So what is the 900,000 house in my hometown now?

The house is connected to the north and south, not bad.

Then the house is too dense, there is no greening, and there is no basic supporting facilities.

There are no kindergartens, schools and developers at all, and there is no need to consider them.

When children go to school in their hometown, they go to a good school, and it doesn't matter which one they go to.

The living facilities around the house are even more backward, and the slow-paced life in my hometown does not pay much attention to this.

What will happen to the property in the community? Can it be managed as well as Shenzhen?

In my hometown, many of my relatives live in residential areas, and the walls of residential areas are filthy. What is greening? Greening is piles of grass that grow taller than people, and no one cuts it.

I have lived in Shenzhen for a long time, and this environment is totally unacceptable to me.

The phrase "escape from the north, Guangzhou and Shenzhen" once expressed many people's voices. Is it really better to go back to your hometown than to live in the front line?

A netizen described the dilemma of selling his house in Shenzhen and living in Wuhan. In his hometown, it is not as beautiful as they think. There are too few job opportunities. It's too difficult to find what you like, and the income can't go up. Life is more difficult. Later, he wanted to go back to Shenzhen and found that he couldn't afford a house in Shenzhen at all.

And a colleague of mine. She once owned two suites in Shenzhen and then sold them all back to her hometown to open a badminton court. Business is not bad, but the money can't be collected, and there are too many credits, which has always been a book loss.

/kloc-in 0/3, their family decided to go back to Shenzhen, and all their savings together could not afford a house in Shenzhen, but they decided to go back to Shenzhen for development because they knew there was no way out in their hometown.

Tell me about a friend of mine. He thought it was safe. He continued to earn money in Shenzhen and let his wife go back to open a shop to do business. Now his hometown is getting better and better. He confidently borrowed 500 thousand to open a shop, and then went back when the business improved.

Now that the store is closed, my wife has returned to work in Shenzhen.

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When you come to Shenzhen, you may often think about leaving. Here, dreams are close, but here, dreams seem far away.

The world is so big, there is always a place for us to linger and make us better. For me, this place is Shenzhen. I like tossing around here all the time, always looking for the fun of life, and then I don't want to leave.

Life here is not easy, but I know it will be more boring and difficult to leave.

It takes courage to choose; Staying requires perseverance.