Why did the warm man become love rat?

Because warm men will explode if they endure for a long time.

Why did the warm man become love rat, and then a warm man answered her question!

Hehe, I get angry when I see the subject's problem (not aimed at the subject), because my ex-girlfriend is like this.

I met her on a blind date. I fell in love with her at first sight at the dinner table because she was really beautiful. Just a month after I met her, she looked very docile and amiable, then held hands and kissed, and then officially got together.

After being together, I happened to meet her and learn to drive. I get up at four o'clock every morning to make breakfast for her, then drive her to the place where she learns to drive 20 kilometers away, and then drive 30 kilometers to work (because it is in the opposite direction). At that time, I didn't get enough sleep every day, but I was happy. At noon, I will send her food and then send her back to work. Anyway, I think I'm very dedicated.

She often can't sleep well at night and often calls me at one or two. When I was with her, I never turned off my cell phone, and always turned it on the loudest. Even if I am particularly sleepy the next day, I often make irregular phone calls with her for about an hour in the middle of the night. Sometimes she calls at one o'clock, sometimes at two o'clock, and then I get close to neurasthenia, because even if she doesn't call at night, I can hardly sleep.

She goes shopping twice a week. Of course, she didn't take the initiative to spend my money, but I was embarrassed not to pay the bill. Every weekend, I take her shopping, go to the bookstore, watch movies, eat the best food in the city (what she ordered), and take her on a trip once or twice a month (what she asked). Traveling is expensive, and my income is rising anyway.

Other things, such as holiday gifts and flowers, full-time companionship when you are sick, nothing is left behind.

If it's just the above, it's nothing. After all, I like her very much and can do anything for her.

But I gradually can't stand her two points:

First of all, since we were together, she has been talking to me in a commanding tone. I was insulted immediately if I didn't do well. For example, once she said she wanted to eat duck neck because it was a little far from home. I ran for half an hour to buy it for her. As a result, the taste was not as sweet and spicy as she wanted. She immediately asked me to throw away the duck and gave me a cold face in front of my parents. Two hours later, I sarcastically said.

For example, she is in undisturbed sleep mode at night (but I don't know, because I never call her at night). Once she was going on a trip and asked me to call her at 4: 30 to wake her up. I called twice and she didn't get up. Later, I learned that I had to call three times in sleep mode. On that occasion, she lost her temper and refused to travel. I coaxed her for a long time and almost missed the travel agency's car.

For example, I should rent her house. I ran 20 houses in two weekends, but she said it was too hot and hid in an air-conditioned room. Finally, I took photos of her one by one, and she didn't see the house for the first time until she checked in. The rent of that house is 2900 yuan a month, which I pay alone, plus the property, water and electricity is about 3200 yuan a month.

Second, she always brings me countless negative energy.

She often calls the leader in the middle of the night to scold him, or spits at him for two hours after dinner, all kinds of ugly words;

She often calls her colleagues in the middle of the night to scold them. In her eyes, all male colleagues want to hit on her, and all female colleagues are jealous that she gives her little shoes every day. Her office is terrible. If she comes to Zhen Xuan, she will die.

She also often spits out her girlfriends, saying that girlfriends are diaosi, poorly dressed and brainless, and so on;

You will naturally spit on me, calling me stupid, calling me stupid and calling me SB every day, but it is never a good thing.

Oh, by the way, she has never shown my existence in her circle of friends or Weibo. Colleagues asked her if she had a date, but she only said yes to the closest person and no to others, so she was often chased by male colleagues at work. In the first three months together, I even suspected that I was a spare tire. After a long observation, I'm sure I'm really her boyfriend.

It wasn't until she dumped my face in front of my parents that I couldn't help it anymore and wanted to break up. But I put up with it. I keep telling myself that since I like her, I have to tolerate her and be responsible for sleeping with her. But at that time, there was a crack in my heart. Later, when I was the most tired and busy, she called and scolded me for not caring about her. I was really angry that day. The whole process was just oh, and then she said, let's break up. I said yes.

I was still sad that day, because I really liked her, but after about two days, I suddenly felt so fucking cool to be single. I didn't have to wake up at night, worry about being scolded for doing something wrong, and spend a lot of money on this and that.

About a week later, her best friend scolded me for not getting back together I said we broke up. I don't think it's appropriate. Only then did she know that I was really going to break up, and immediately asked my parents why our relationship was hard-won, and came to my door to cry (I later sent her back), and then sent various text messages begging me. I was really touched at that time, but I didn't get back together. The message she sent me at that time was: "Although I am bad, you can't find anyone who loves you more than me."

Okay, this is just the background.

Before long, I became the following image in her mouth:

1, a scheming love rat, just wanted to cheat her into bed from the beginning; I really want to talk about this. Did I do so much before just to have sex?

Because two and a half months later I was with another girl I have known for a long time, I admit that I have always had a good impression on that girl, but after I was with EX, I basically broke off contact with that girl, but EX still insisted that I had cheated for a long time.

It was really embarrassing at that time, but I think she must be very sad after all, so I put up with it and comforted her many times. As a result, two months later, my prepaid rent was due, and she sent me a text message: "You have to atone, and you have to pay the rent for the next year." The middle property asked her to pay the property fee, and she swore and said, "It's not like writing my name. Why should I pay? You ask him to go! "

Later, I ignored her, and she was moving out that month, and then there was no contact at all.

More than a year has passed, and I recall this experience at that time. On the one hand, I was surprised why I liked her so much at that time, on the other hand, I felt that it was really a feeling of being thoroughly remoulded.

I don't know about you, but my personal experience is that warm men get cold, probably just because girls are too hard. Because girls don't realize their work, they just think that boys promise but can't do it, so they think that boys are just love rat.

By the way, in your description, the sentence "I can't believe that the warm man and the love rat in front of me were the same person", which is why I was so excited and replied so many times. I believe that the subject's boyfriend, like me, was sincere in every previous love, but so was every torture and disappointment he suffered. It is not that he didn't remind you, but that you haven't changed at all. It seems that he suddenly changed, but in fact he endured for a long time and finally broke out.