My mother bought my car and chipped in to buy a house for my brother. What should I do?

After Lao Wang retired, he found a property job in the community. On the one hand, he can't spare himself, on the other hand, he also lightens the financial burden for his children.

Because Lao Wang is old, he is arranged in the express room of the community. Because old Wang Weiren is amiable and very popular in the community, many residents are familiar with Lao Wang.

No, Lao Wang, the girl who comes to pick up the courier now is very familiar with it. The little girl came out of the countryside and suffered a lot in society in recent years.

With her diligence and hard work, the girl has bought a house with a loan and a car some time ago. The parking space is handled by Lao Wang for the little girl.

Because the little girl sends something to Lao Wang from time to time, Lao Wang likes this hardworking girl very much. I heard that the little girl is not married yet, but unfortunately she doesn't have a son, otherwise she must fix it up.

The little girl came to pick up the courier, and Lao Wang habitually talked with the little girl. After all, it's boring in the mailroom, and it's rare to have a speaker.

Chatting, Lao Wang thought that the little girl's parking space had been empty recently, and Lao Wang casually mentioned a sentence when he remembered it.

"I see your parking space has been empty for half a month. Did you borrow the car? This parking space is also empty. Or I'll rent it out for you, by the day. I won't rent it when you drive back. Although there is not much money, it is also an income. "

After listening to Lao Wang's question, the girl was silent for a while, and then said simply, "My car was sold by my mother."

Lao Wang is puzzled. Didn't you just buy that car for more than a year? Why did you sell it? Is the economy in trouble?

The girl shook her head and said, "No, my mother sold my car and pooled her money to buy a house for my brother."

Actually, at first, my mother wanted me to give my brother the house where I live now. After all, my brother talked about an object and was ready to get married, but there was no wedding room.

My parents promised to give me some money first and my brother would give it to me later. I didn't want to, so they sold my car and then my money was used to support my brother's marriage.

After listening to the girl, Lao Wang was shocked. Now it's 202 1 year, why are the girls' parents still so patriarchal?

There is nothing wrong with parents helping their children when they are in trouble, but are you really not afraid to be a daughter and subsidize your son?

I heard from that girl that she went out to work before finishing high school. In the past, Lao Wang thought it might be that the girl's family conditions were not good, but now I think it is estimated that it is the fault of son preference.

Lao Wang himself is two daughters, but Lao Wang has no preference for boys at all. Both his daughters have been admitted to key universities, which is different from giving themselves a long face.

I have known that girl for a long time, and they have a good relationship. Lao Wang is a bit of a girl as a junior. Lao Wang was angry to see the girl bullied by her parents like this.

Lao Wang told the girl that you must learn to refuse such unreasonable demands from your parents, otherwise they will only bully you more and more.

Even if you can make money again, you will never fill their greedy hearts. If you indulge their behavior, it will only make them more dependent on you, and finally turn you into a "brother helper" completely. "

Although you look very independent now, emotionally, you still can't be independent, and you will still be influenced by your parents' emotions.

In this era, your independence is your greatest confidence, especially for girls, it is more important to have your own independent resolution.

Each of us is an independent individual, and each of us is an independent spiritual existence. When your parents make these unreasonable demands on you, you should have your own ideas.

Independence is always a person's best card. Knowing how to invest in yourself and make yourself strong and independent is what a person should learn most.

We can help our relatives, but we must be reasonable, instead of being morally kidnapped by others and doing things we don't want to do.

Nowadays, many girls are called "helping brothers and demons" and are often criticized in marriage and love, but in fact, many girls do not voluntarily become "helping brothers and demons", but they just don't have the courage to refute them.

In fact, all this stems from your independence. Please remember your independence and always talk about your confidence and cards.