I admit that I betrayed my husband. He doesn't want me. What if I can't let him go? Is it still possible?

Sister, please allow me to call you that, because I am a sophomore in school and have been in a long-distance relationship for four years.

The reason why a long-distance relationship can last for a long time and finally succeed is that besides mutual firm love, the most important thing is trust. Of course, you also need the same beliefs and goals, which will make your feelings stronger because their eyes always look forward in the same direction. Please ask my sister to touch her heart and answer honestly, do you have these?

He told you twice, and I admire you for forgiving him. Unfortunately, sister, you believe wrong. The chance in love can only be wrong once at most. When you forgave him for the first time, I believe he assured you that it won't happen again. This is his promise to you. If a man really loves you, he will never betray his promise to you so easily (twice every four years). According to your account, I guess (just guess) that maybe he didn't go to school. A man who has completely stepped into society and a college girl who has tasted the taste of society are greatly surprised in thought (I can't say exactly, in short, this surprise is very subtle). The way he lets you choose to be with him is "don't go back to school, go back to another city and live like this with him". What do you mean by living with him like this? Where are your children? What about your birthright-are you her girlfriend, his lawful wife, or "the woman who lives with him"? Who will raise you and who will raise your baby? Your parents? Him? Can he shoulder these responsibilities bravely? Will he still love you as always? If he really loves you, will he call you a bitch after your betrayal and give you two difficult choices?

Obsessed sister, if he really loves you, he won't betray you for the second time; He will be very sad and painful after you betray him. He will make up his mind to forgive you when he knows that you have your child, but he will never allow it to happen again. He needs time to spend slowly, but he will never hurt you with it in the future. Or, he will make up his mind to break up with you and won't let you choose. He will let you abort the child, and when you recover, he will definitely leave and stop contacting. Girl, is he like this?

Let's talk about this for the time being, and you will wisely choose to give up this relationship. Most importantly, sister, you should know what you should pursue as a college student, as the daughter of your parents and as a woman. Love is really not the whole of life, and at this time, your love has gone bad. There is an article below. Please read it when you are free. Time is running out. Be careful! ! !

A girl without a career (boss's speech)

Today, the administrative department recommended another lady with good quality, Miss Liu, to my office for an interview. I glanced at her resume and saw through her.

However, let her describe it. She has been doing sales, changed three projects in four years and took a year off. Now she is 28 years old and comes to our company, hoping to continue to receive customers on the project.

There are three kinds of people recruited by our company, one is a property consultant, called marketing, the other is project sales, called agency sales, and the third is an administrative clerk.

Every time, I let the women interviewed choose, often they are willing to do administration, followed by sales, and few people choose marketing. Even if I told them that the real estate consultant has the highest basic salary and commission, and can be a manager in the future, it is easy to transfer to the administration department or the project department, and they still won't change their choice.

It is strange that their choice order is just the opposite of how much money they earn. In fact, their choice order is based on work pressure, which means that they would rather find a job with little pressure, stability and leisure, even if they earn less money and have little chance of appreciation, it is difficult to develop. It's a pity that I won't even hire such people in the administrative department, because they have no ambition and won't learn unless.

They are all around the age of 25, and some of them are really attractive, but I am really worried about their future, because, probably, their future is very troublesome, and they will even spend the rest of their lives miserable. ..

They seek comfort when they can bear hardships most, and fall in love when they can learn most. Because their plan is to get married and have children before the age of 28, dressing up and making friends is their world. Of course, enjoying the happy time of youth is also the most attractive to them, even if they take time off to resign, they will not take it seriously.

Naturally, at the age of 28, they married a man with money or potential as scheduled. This man often marries her because she is in her prime.

At that time, her husband was probably still in the stage of career development. She listened to her husband's words, resigned and went home, and became a full-time wife. Some of them were still unwilling to work until they gave birth to children.

For women who have been working at the bottom, having children is almost the end of their career. Unless you are in a public institution, if you are in a general institution, you will often resign because of this. I have been pregnant for half a year, and when everything recovers, I have a headache at the thought of going to work. First of all, it is not good to find a leisure job, because at that time, they have to find a job that can go home early. Otherwise, they can't take care of the children and don't worry. Secondly, they found that they had to hire an aunt to replace themselves. As a result, they are more expensive than themselves.

The financial burden of the whole family falls on the husband, who keeps working hard and studying in his career and keeps in touch with business relations. His quality has improved, his status and money have improved, his circle of friends has become larger and larger, and society has made continuous progress.

My wife is actually not that busy. Children go to kindergarten and children go to school alone. She is still alone. Occasionally, she goes shopping with another wife who doesn't go to work for beauty. However, she found herself getting farther and farther away from the society, and she had the courage to step into the society again several times, but time and tide wait for no man. She can't do the original grass-roots work, and she can't do it now. In fact, such a woman cannot do it. Housekeeping has slowly lost interest. After all, women in the new era don't want to stay at home like that. However, I regret that I didn't study hard when I was young, didn't learn anything when I was on the job, and didn't really focus on any industry. Without a skill, how to start? How can we stick to it? When I can bear hardships, I enjoy myself and eat all the sweets in my life. Now in addition to constant hesitation, it affects my mood.

But she can accept it. After all, she has a happy family, a loving husband and lovely children. It's just that she often complains about the tedious housework. She has done everything for this family, and her husband is too lazy to argue with her. In fact, her husband wants to say that I am fighting for this family.

Her greatest wish is to let her husband talk to her patiently for a while, but she didn't go home until late because of social intercourse. Even when I get home, I don't talk, watch TV and sleep. The woman wouldn't let him sleep and quarreled. Her husband thinks this woman is becoming more and more unreasonable, and women feel that men don't seem to love her so much.

Quarrel, for a happy couple, is flirting, but for an indifferent couple, it is cross the rubicon, which is often annoying and often completely disgusting.

The different roles of two people in social life determine the great differences between them, which leads to the decrease of the same language. The woman who attracted men at the beginning lost her charm, but she was domineering and neurotic, constantly harassing men until she really had an affair.

A woman living in fear, with a sense of inferiority that she didn't want to admit, secretly searched her husband's mobile phone while he was asleep. What a poor sight, what she found and what she could do.

Woman, the miserable life has begun. At this time, she will grow old in loneliness. She will be accompanied by housework and TV. If she is full of energy, she will also be accompanied by her parents. Of course, in retaliation, she even squandered her husband's money. She is unhappy and even goes online. In fact, there may be a relatively idle and boring person who will meet her husband, not only rarely talking to her, but also seems to move very little. In short, there is no suspense in the hopeless suffering until I am old. If divorced, she will fall into despair, because life used to be all to her.

A woman, if she didn't have a career or study when she was young, has been living a miserable life since she gave birth to a child.

And a woman with a career constantly enriches herself. Love is not the whole of her life. He and a man are too * * * the same language. It is only a small delay for her to have a baby, because she is already in the management. I have a friend who is the deputy general manager of the decoration company. She seems to be a weak woman. She is in labor, and her boss drives her home. She naturally gives birth. Less than a month later,

Men have an affair, but it's not all because of lewdness. To tell the truth, if your wife and you nag about trivial parents when you are worried about the crux of your career, you talk to her about business management and she talks to you about shopping mall discounts. You are sleepy, because there is pressure, and she throws a pillow at you. How annoying you are. A closer look shows that the woman opposite is ugly and muddy.

A woman with a career is beautiful. Look at them in a man's world. The woman who is studying is beautiful and talented. Living with such a woman is beyond words. They may not be as gorgeous as vases, but they will make you quiet, sweet, happy and respectful.

In modern society, the economy is so developed that women become full-time wives. If it's a woman's decision, it's because she chickened out. If it's a man's decision, it's selfish to make mistakes to yourself.

I told this general idea to the girls who interviewed. She said she knew it would happen, but she still felt that she didn't want to suffer and take risks. She believes that the man who loves her won't do that.

What is hardship? You really haven't seen hard work. Look at the moving company and the workers on the construction site. Can you be diligent in making phone calls in the office? Is it hard to visit customers in an air-conditioned senior office building? Is it hard to listen to your boss, read books carefully and look up information online? It's interesting for such female employees to look at their interpersonal relationships. Their friends in the company are not conducive to business progress, but have male charm. They can play or chat together instead of working together.

This is the reason for the high divorce rate in China today. The so-called Chinese divorce keeps happening, and in my opinion, it will continue to happen. Why are women just tools for giving birth to children and become nannies after giving birth? Should she devote all her energy to her family? Don't forget, she has a good education and dreams. But what changed her life course?

Of course, a man without a career will be even worse. His distress is that he has never eaten sugar in his life, which is worse than that of a woman.

This article is dedicated to all working women. Because the world is complicated, it is likely that some people will think what they say is extreme and extreme. After all, all happy families are the same, and each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way. Women should be spoiled and loved. Men should educate women to be enterprising and look so cold and inconsiderate. Only the boss can be so mean and pragmatic, but it is this despicable boss who gives women the same promotion opportunities as men in the company. He felt sorry for those confidants who had fought with him, and the female staff with business talent he worked hard to cultivate withdrew from the professional stage early. Those women who pursue equality secretly think that women are weak.

How charming a woman who pursues her career is, how strong this charm is, how charming her hard-working figure is, how charming her endless talent is, and how much she can stand the scrutiny of years. Such women should give them more consideration and care, because it is worthwhile and necessary.

Those female employees who are still naive, pampered and complaining about depression, if your career goal is no goal, how can I ask you not to be late for work? I don't know the day when your boyfriend asked you to resign in a word. They have received too much care, they have plenty of time to rest and have fun, and they will spend the rest of their lives in laziness. What else can they talk about? I don't find them attractive, especially to me. I hardly bothered to pretend to stay when they resigned.

Because I told jokes that they didn't understand, I told the tragedy that they took as a joke.

If God is kind to you and gives you a capable husband and a superior life, please don't restrain your fighting spirit; If God doesn't love you enough and makes things difficult, please don't kill your confidence and courage to struggle forward.