How do you live so well?

There are no two identical people in the world.

No matter how ordinary it is, it is also a limited edition.

Growth is the process of turning your crying into silence.

No matter what the weather is like

Give yourself a sunny world.

Life is not perfect.

But that doesn't mean it is not beautiful.

Do a good job in front of you

Cherish the people around

Take a good step.

You can give up everything, but you can't give up happiness.

You can lose everything, but you cannot lose a smile.

No matter how annoying you are, don't forget to smile.

Pay attention to your tone no matter how urgent you are.

Never say goodbye to persistence no matter how hard it is.

Take care of yourself no matter how tired you are.

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Life is a barren journey.

Self-knowledge in cold and warm, joy in my heart.

Now, now, just follow the fate.

The future, the future heart, why bother?

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Except for life and death, it is a small matter.

Don't embarrass yourself.

Beauty, stay in my heart.

Unfortunately, it's gone with the wind.

Live in the moment, do it and cherish it.

I was always proud when I was young. Care about other people's opinions, like to be competitive! But I didn't know until I was old that life is too short. In this life, I should be comfortable!

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Last week, my new neighbor moved in next door, a single woman in her fifties. This woman's surname is Tang, and I have always called her "Aunt Tang". Aunt Tang is very strange. She is always happy when she moves here alone.

Even though she is old, Aunt Tang is still very fashionable. I always like to wear flowered skirts, draw eyebrows and lips. Walking on the way to work in the morning, I can see her every day and lead the aunts in the same community to do morning exercises. Aunt Tang stood in front, full of energy, and greeted everyone: "Good morning!" " "

Every time I see her, I always think: Why did my aunt move here alone? Where's her wife? Where are her children?

One night, I was watching TV when I heard the doorbell ring. After opening the door, Aunt Tang smiled with a bowl of soup: "I stewed tremella soup, too much. Thinking of you young people, if you don't have time to do this, just send a bowl! "

After drinking tremella soup, I chatted with my aunt and unconsciously talked about my aunt's previous life.

It turns out that before moving here, my aunt had a husband who had been married for almost thirty years. "So what?" I can't help wondering. "I can't go on, I don't want to go, bite my teeth and I'll go!" Aunt said sincerely.

Aunt's ex-husband has been idle for half his life, and he has found one job after another, but he can't do it. Drink when you are in a hurry, and beat your wife after drinking. Aunt, this forbearance is almost thirty years. It's not that I haven't thought about breaking up with him halfway, but I can think that a divorced woman can't poke her spine just because her child is still young.

In this way, my aunt bit her teeth, swallowed blood and endured it for most of her life. But some time ago, I finally thought about it, made up my mind and got divorced!

Finally, my aunt patted my hand and said to me, "Aunt has understood a truth in her life-how comfortable she is in this life, no matter what others think!"

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Suddenly, I remembered a friend of mine, Xiao Shuang. Growing up, she worked together.

I remember when she was at school, she only got the second place in the last exam. From the moment the results came out, she began to cry until she came home.

I comforted her: "The second place is also very good. Next time we continue to work hard, we can still get the first place! " She sobbed and said to me, "I dropped a place this time, and I will definitely fall back next time? "

After graduation, she entered a big company. Hidden dragon crouching tiger in big companies, all of them are dragons and phoenixes among people. No matter how hard Xiao Shuang tries, he can only try to keep up with the rhythm of the whole team.

There was a personnel transfer, and the colleague who came to the company later than her became her boss. Xiao Shuang told me angrily that I was really unwilling!

From then on, she worked hard, staying up until two or three o'clock in the morning every day, and didn't rest on weekends, just to prove that she was no worse than her boss?

Not long ago, I received a phone call from Xiao Shuang, and she cried into tears. Said to see a psychiatrist, the doctor said it was depression. Tears are easy to shed, and I can't sleep all night, so I can't lift my spirits?

I comforted her on the phone and cooperated with the doctor to treat her. She'll be fine. The most important thing is to be calm and not be too competitive?

When we were young, we were always proud of ourselves and wanted to pursue perfection in everything. But people are not machines. If they press themselves too hard, their bodies will protest like springs. Life is fragile, you should still know how to cherish it and how to be comfortable!

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Jiang Yang said that we are so eager for the waves of fate that we finally find that the most beautiful scenery in life is actually inner peace and calmness. We used to look forward to the recognition of the outside world so much that we finally knew that the world was our own and had nothing to do with others.

The world belongs to you and has nothing to do with others. Why care too much about other people's opinions? Life is short, but you should be as comfortable as possible!

We will never be satisfied with anything comfortable! At one time, we listened to Nuo Nuo, and dared not say what others didn't like to hear or what others would say? After a lifetime of fear, I found that there is not a day in my life that I live for myself.

Come as comfortably as possible, we will never force it! We used to be young and energetic, always trying to prove that we are better than others, better than others? All along, it's like filling a bow and exhausting yourself. Later, I learned that I can't compare with anyone.

Go your own way and let others talk!

Enjoy life and leave it to others to compete!

Life is short, and the first half of life is confusing and stumbling; Come as comfortably as possible for the rest of your life!