How about a woman as a property manager?

My friend Nai Nai is a gentle Yunnan beauty.

After graduating from Nai Nai University, she went to Shenzhen to look for a job and applied to be an administrative staff member of a company.

Nai Nai goes to the office first every day to boil water and help his colleagues make tea. After finishing the work, ask your colleagues if they need help.

Colleagues see that she is honest and willing to learn, and often take her and teach her how to do it. Nai Nai thinks this is an opportunity for development. After studying hard and getting familiar with the process, colleagues handed over the work to her. She does her work wholeheartedly.

Nai Nai studies hard. If he doesn't know how to study, he won't ask. A few months later, Nai Nai mastered the workflow of all his colleagues. As long as any colleague asks for leave, he can do his job well without handover. Nai Nai became the "fireman" in the office. She can always help everyone with urgent tasks. Everyone likes her very much.

The manager thinks that she is hardworking, reliable and her work ability has improved rapidly. After her promotion, the former supervisor promoted her to supervisor.

Nai Nai is 32 years old. She never worried about relatives urging her to get married, and her parents respected her. Because she bought a house, got a car and took her parents to live in Shenzhen, she lived happily alone.

Nai Nai dresses herself exquisitely every day, works hard, lives proudly, and lives the life she wants by her own ability.

Without family chores, Nai Nai has more time to calm down and improve himself and run his own circle. Waiting for the right person to appear, I won't choose a marriage that will succeed.

Nowadays, many women work hard, not to change the world, but to have more choices. They chose to get married for love, not for life. Choose to do what you like instead of making a living: choose to live what you like instead of living.

? A woman can have no money for a while, but she can't have no ability for a lifetime. If they are capable, they will have the confidence to live independently. Independent women are the most beautiful. Woman, don't be a tree, be a tree. Don't expect others to shelter you from the wind and rain, but have the ability to withstand the wind and rain.

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Lily, a good friend, is a gentle girl. After graduating from college, she listened to her parents' arrangement and worked as an accountant in a residential property in the town. She has almost no job, no money and is close to home.

Going to work every day is reading newspapers, drinking tea, chatting and fooling around with a group of elderly people who come in through relationships.

After half a year, the family found Lili a rich second generation. After getting along for a month, the man urged them to get married.

After getting married, Lili found that her husband was violent and whipped with a belt after drinking. Lili complained to her parents, who talked to the man's family and the man promised never to hit her again. Parents are worried that their daughter will never find a rich husband's family again, so they have to trust him.

Lily became a housewife after giving birth to a child. My husband not only often beat her, but also began to hurt her with ugly words, making her dirty: your parents married you because they were attracted by my family's money. At that time, they wanted such a high bride price, that is, selling their daughters. What's more, he hung out with women outside and deliberately brought his mistress home.

Lily had to submit to humiliation, hoping that her tolerance and gentleness would affect men.

A friend advised Lili to divorce, and she said that she could not bear the children. In fact, she is worried that after leaving love rat, she will have no financial ability and her life will be very difficult.

Now her life with her children depends entirely on the man's family, so she has to cling to a loveless marriage and a painful life, hurting herself more thoroughly.

Only by making herself excellent can a woman gain an equal position in marriage and maintain her personality independence in life.

? Women, with independent ability, can choose to let go in the face of failed marriage, rather than blindly accommodating.

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A woman can live without love, but she can't live without a career. Marriage is not a woman's dependence. The only reliable person in the world is herself.

Only when you are strong enough can a person raise a child. After the death of love, there is no need to tear your face and stage a verbal attack to pester each other. To let others go is to let yourself go, brandish a knife and break water freely, beat each other and get along well.

As the great psychologist Victor frankl said: People always have a choice.

No matter at any stage of life, people have the right to choose. As long as they have the ability to live independently, they have the right to choose marriage. If you don't love after marriage, you choose to divorce, and you don't have to be wronged to keep a loveless marriage. When you meet love rat, you can proudly say to love rat, "Go away!"

Women must remember that the stronger you are, the more important your position in the family, and the more comfortable you will be. The more incompetent, the lower the status in the family, and the worse it will be.

A woman should never lose herself. They should always keep pace with the times, learn knowledge, strive to be excellent, and give themselves more choices.

When you become excellent, men will appreciate and cherish you more.